just like everyone knows. women do have more than 1 partner when they are young. Boys at this stage of their lives wouldnt even have the means to maintain a girl not to talk of dating more than one girl. When these men get older and are probably financially ok,most of them would want to have the kind of fun they ever experienced . Its just a pity that they may be married at that very time that they want to`play`. Are our women being selfish if they expect our men not to flirt even though most of them did at their prime?

You make so many wrong assumptions and generalisations.

what assumptions and generalisations?

1. That most women have partners/boyfriend when they're young.
2.They have more than one partner.
3.Everyone knows about this 'females' escapades'.
4.Young boys don't have the means to keep a girlfriend.
5. Most men want to 'play' after been married...