coogar:
after agreeing men & women are cheating with a reckless abandon, you still heap the blame on the men in your title.

why should we take this OP serious?

thorpido:
Her purpose is to blame the men and the wo-men.

crackhaus:
More women now cheat, and you blame men for it?
Ridiculous...

KBARBIE:


What do u expect d woman do in dis scenerio, wud u blame d woman for taking dis step although I dnt advice such.

A marriage of less dan 2yrs just crumbled, dis lady's husband last had sex with her six months ago, d husband is adulterous to d extent of bringing in women to d home whenever the lady isn't around even d neighbors could testify to it, twas after marriage she got to know her husband smokes weed (educated guy), sends pix of naked body to ladies, d guy always pickn fights etc. The lady in a bid to get hold of herself got hooked up wit an ex male friend complaining about her man to dis ex friend telln him about situations and when last she had sex et al. D guy in return tryn to pacify her engaged her in a form of on d phone intimacy talk which the lady's husband saw and all hell was let loose.

DukeNija:
Well, I hope you are not cheating on your husband and trying to justify it. Married couples should endeavor to be faithful to one another.

Chizzy20:
hmm at tyms i wonder wat d men see in oda ladies dat dier wives dnt ve...Is it nt beta to jst b single dan gettin married nd givin d poor woman emotional trauma....nd d most annoyin part is dat d society condems a woman wen she cheats on her husband...which i dnt support...bt wen it cums to d man being caught in d act...it is taken as a normal thing..

KBARBIE:


Seriously my sis, I jus tire..buh well two wrongs don't make a right.

coogar:


i think her purpose is to pass the responsibility of morality to the men only.

K9blunt:

I don't think so, I believe the responsibility should be both ways not one way but when the woman is known to be more responsible in keeping sexual values the man is known to be a stud that can and should cheat because his gender is polygamous in nature which is total crap. we need to set our priorities right as women by not accepting rubbish and frowning at men who cheat and also to keep ourselves and expect same from our men . cos all our wahala na our (women) fault sha!

cococandy:
There's no divine assignment given to only women to be the ones protecting the marriage.
So if your partner keeps doing things that undermine your marriage and totally humiliates you.
Constantly putting you down and expect you to swallow it, you know what to do.......Walk.
You're not going to get any special awards for sticking around.
Your kids won't turn out better because you decided to accept bad treatment. Gbam. There are more reasonable things to talk about than irrelevant issh. The nonentities above have ranted as usual

Na buhari matter we dey on top now. No time for stories that touch.

KanwuliaJara:
Na which wan consine me?
Abi you no sabi say marriage na "slavery" all to "born pepper-fruit" of womb and blokos?

Siddon dia dey wait for love oh?
Just PHOCK and BORN!
Simple!!!!!

cococandy:
There's no divine assignment given to only women to be the ones protecting the marriage.
So if your partner keeps doing things that undermine your marriage and totally humiliates you.
Constantly putting you down and expect you to swallow it, you know what to do.......Walk.
You're not going to get any special awards for sticking around.
Your kids won't turn out better because you decided to accept bad treatment.

Na buhari matter we dey on top now. No time for stories that touch.

SAMBARRY:
you don talk am finish

KanwuliaJara:


Common sense tinz abi?
The tin wey awa grand mamas practice tey tey!
See wasted education for new generation o!
Na wetin consine black PIPO witi loff sef?

Dem go cry taya ke!

KanwuliaJara:


Common sense tinz abi?
The tin wey awa grand mamas practice tey tey!
See wasted education for new generation o!
Na wetin consine black PIPO witi loff sef?

Dem go cry taya ke!

crackhaus:

Pitiful story. . . The institution of marriage will be a lot more sane if people just took responsibility for their actions and/or inactions.

The lady in this story is an adult, and the first mistake she made was going to seek comfort and sympathy in the arms of her ex.
Her husband did not do this to her, she did it to herself.

germainediva:
where r we headed to........a lot of women now cheat, it is pitiable(very shameful) and I blame it on d men(tho dere r exceptional cases...some r just born t cheat)most of these women were driven into d arm of anoda.......men pls wake up..you can't eat ur cake n have it.we even now joke wt d word "side chick" as if its a normal way of life.......god is watching us