xyoung: Like the topic suggest, jus wanna sample opinions if this is anything wrong with this morally. I mean for a matured guy searching for a wife and assuming you see a girl that matches all your expectation on the physical beauty side (mind you, her character can only be known when you talk to her)
The problem is that you are jus a visitor in that city and might not go there again..
Is it a sin to toast a girl in the house of God in that circumstance

fankasibe: I can't woo a girl in the church coz' i will have dis feeling like God is saying 'you dis stupid boy why must u enter into my holy house and distract one of my committed servant'

*Kails*:


Let's stop acting like the church is more than just a building.

intbizoil: This shows that part of why you came to church is to look for a wife or gf. This is Because deep down you have this feeling that girls you meet in church are faithful. I myself am guilty of this sometimes. Your eyes are hovering around checking out all the beauties in attendance. Girls dress their best during church service. God knows all our intentions whether good or bad and no one can deceive Him. If you truly respect and honor God, there is some things you won't even think of doing. That's why I love my muslim brothers, they don't play with elements of their worship. The only exception I have is if you want to make friends but wooing a girl in church imo shows your lack of respect for God. Why not wait when you are out of the church

CosmicJames:

That's not very correct. The church is dedicated to God unlike our houses.

To me, the church is the best place to find who to marry. You may not do it right inside the building especially if service is in progress. Church premises will be fine. But make sure you marry him/her or prepare to face divine judgement especially if he/she is a true child of God.

fankasibe: I can't woo a girl in the church coz' i will have dis feeling like God is saying 'you dis stupid boy why must u enter into my holy house and distract one of my committed servant'

sizzlers: Waste of bandwidth

mumumugu: U can woo anyone, anywhere ,anytime .

Xano:

alright, i advice you to have a conservation. During your get-to-know each other, you will know her character. But, you are in town for a short time, you can exchange contacts if you intend to follow her up. If not, let her go.

xyoung:
How would you knw a church girl? Is it written on d face
Btw every girl attend church and wouldn't like to marry a pagan

xyoung:
Na wah oh, som peopl can reason upside down
Picture d scenario, u visit a friend for a job interview/wedding or sometin very important, u decide to pass the sunday at his church and then u see a girl that really blew ur mind and meet all ur wife requirement inside d church in d presence of her family
Knowing quiet well you are travelling back d next day,
How do I handle this issue

mondi_cheeks: potential wives are only found in strip clubs

xyoung:
My guy be serious for once
This happened to me weeks ago and I still regret not taking any action because I tot it was a sin

De_ Law: what is d big deal? All these girls u see in church dressin like holy mary ar not in any form unique. Them jst dey form, deep down their hearts, they ar prayin that U shuld approach.

binger: Ah ah! Very proper nah.its even more blessed to woo in church cos God will be on your side...she will fall for u without considering ur physical attributes &financial status.why? miracle.

xyoung:
My guy be serious for once
This happened to me weeks ago and I still regret not taking any action because I tot it was a sin

xyoung: Seems you didn't read my post properly
Re-read buddy

O.T.I.S:
why not? after all, we have live-band in the church, we dance azonto to the choir music, some churches have foods & drinks, brazilian-hairs, up-skirts, b o o b s flashes & mini-skirts everywhere! house of god indeed!

olempe:

Lie!!

binger: Ah ah! Very proper nah.its even more blessed to woo in church cos God will be on your side...she will fall for u without considering ur physical attributes &financial status.why? miracle.

binger: Ah ah! Very proper nah.its even more blessed to woo in church cos God will be on your side...she will fall for u without considering ur physical attributes &financial status.why? miracle.