Its all about understanding between the two of them.

I think the kitchen?domestic work still belongs to the wife sha but if they can share it

amongst themselves then no wahala, but the problem be sey if the man see woman

wey take proper care of am na im be sey e don beee o.

Personally I don't see anything wrong in my husband doing chores. We both work full-time and my mother in-law takes care of our children. Whoever gets home first makes dinner for both of us, most of the time he does and it does nto bother him. He helps out a lot and he knows that I don't wait for him to get things done either. It's not because we both work but because he feels like it is his duty to also do some work around the house.

When I had our first child, i tried being a stay at home mom for 6 months (got bored and dusted my portfolio back to workforce) even then, he always helped with the baby when he came home stating that taking care of a child is 2 full time jobs. I even had every other Friday to go out and pamper myself while he took care of the baby. I guess it depends on both people and their understanding. Here in the US it's not easy to get maid, u just have to work it out somehow.

sure! very necessary

Yes ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

There is no crime in that , it doent reduce or add to them.

If you love your lady and you discover that she needs help, help her. Period.
But that's not to encourage swaping Domestic Roles.

why not?

ofcourse a man should help at home

Yes . . . the man shd be involved.
Do the cooking together, if possible, or the man do the dishes.
The man could do the laundry while the kids are still small.
The man MUST do the lawn.
The man MUST shovel the snow.

@poster, most definitely it ll be most unfair to let the woman do all the work dont u think so?

dats y u shud marry someone who is ur friend,i min a marriage based on frienship and not a master surbodinate kinda marriag.some women dont even av d efontry 2 ask dia husbands 2 assist dem in house chores.dats not marriage.ur husband shud assist u especially in cases of pregnancy or d wife is sick or generally stressed up n tired.dats y u r husband n wife n u r meant 4 each oda

dats y u shud marry someone who is ur friend,i min a marriage based on frienship and not a master surbodinate kinda marriag.some women dont even av d efontry 2 ask dia husbands 2 assist dem in house chores.dats not marriage.ur husband shud assist u especially in cases of pregnancy or d wife is sick or generally stressed up n tired.dats y u r husband n wife n u r meant 4 each oda

Na today?

kulyie:

dats y u shud marry someone who is your friend,i min a marriage based on frienship and not a master surbodinate kinda marriag.some women dont even av d efontry 2 ask dia husbands 2 assist dem in house chores.dats not marriage.your husband shud assist u especially in cases of pregnancy or d wife is sick or generally stressed up n tired.dats y u r husband n wife n u r meant 4 each oda

If u have to be asking him to help,before he knows he need to help, then, he is not a man, but a little baby that needs one little woman to make him feel like a man.