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Is It Possible To Be Friends Wit A Girl N Not End Up In A Relationship / Dat Moment Ur 'frnd Wit Benefit' Finds Love / Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? (2) (3) (4)
| Friends Wit Benefit by Valemodi(f): 5:47pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Hi nairalanders,i'm avng issues wit a guy i like...we are nt officially commitd buh we are kinda intimate...i wish 2take d friendshp to anoda level,stop intimacy nd heighten d chase.specialists in d house,wat d i do? |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by tellwsdom: 5:56pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Val.emodi: You don dey carry am comot for lagos?? |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by greedie1(f): 6:12pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Val.emodi:once intimate, always intimate.... so dey say |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by DExplorer1: 6:14pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Every relationship has a point of contact. A pivotal structure. Yours was clearly defined from the onset and you can only live with it. If you push it, you might be getting too many lies. 1 Like |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by Idowuogbo(f): 6:17pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
gree-die:Once debe! Always debe! @ op U wan secure d plantain now ba? D fried dodo u dey chop don dey sweet u she? Loolzzz... U wish to take d friendship to which level? U mean u now want a relationship wiv him? Hmmm.... Dats tricky. |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by Nobody: 6:27pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Val.emodi: tell him 1 Like |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by Nobody: 6:42pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
sorry Op... but i think this your new idea of wanting to heighten the relationship into something more might not actually work... ask yourself one question. "Whats the essence of the relationship to the Guy?" mind you, Most guyz play by Ground rules and if the rules from the onset was Friends with benefit then i think it would take serious fasting & prayer to change the relationship into something else.. but to be sincere, i don't think your camel can pass through the eye of this needle |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by k2039: 6:47pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
That relationship had failed from the onset, just go for another guy, you cant expect him to be committed when he already won the prize before the commencement of the competition. 2 Likes |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by Vince77(m): 6:54pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Dnt forget dat one partner alone cnt make it wrk. U said u two r frnds wit benefit right? So if u want to change course u hv to talk to ur co-pilot(the guy) abt it. U may b in love wit him bt wat if he is nt in love wit u bt only jst wants d game as it is? It wld be a wasted effort if u try to take it to d nxt level witout gettin his heart to agree. Ok? |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by Valemodi(f): 7:32pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Sex hasnt play tru though.so dnt get it mixd up.jst lots of pettng tins |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by secreyor: 7:34pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Val.emodi:what are d petting tins? |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by Valemodi(f): 8:05pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Ur maturd,stop actng lik a kid 1 Like |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by Valemodi(f): 8:07pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
Ur maturd,stop askng lik a kid |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by Nobody: 9:51pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
OP, for now fvckin is good enough commitment, and if u need anythin more, u can just ask him |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by olumaxi(m): 10:02pm On Dec 17, 2012 |
I cant find my glasses |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by VirginFinder: 12:50am On Dec 18, 2012 |
Val baby! Whazzup!! |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by dmcdad: 5:02am On Dec 18, 2012 |
@Op, me and you mah know say e no go work. Why you wan give yourself unnecessary trouble? This has been defined from the outset and what makes you think the transition from no string attached to emotion flaring would work  Abeg, if you want to be in a real relationship, look for another guy else, this would just be a phantasmagoria. 1 Like |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by lolaluv1(f): 7:50am On Dec 18, 2012 |
Stop the 'petting things'. |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by Ucheosefoh(m): 8:26am On Dec 18, 2012 |
Val.emodi:how is intimate nw pettng tins explain beta abeg |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by shizzle11(m): 8:39am On Dec 18, 2012 |
†ђξ reason why most men think women are a confused lot. OP, In your post Ɣ☺ΰ say u want to stop intimacy and now u say sex hasn't played 2ru, only petting tinz. This sums it up: U ARE CONFUSED! Infact, HOW OLD ARE Ɣ☺ΰ |
| Re: Friends Wit Benefit by secreyor: 10:04am On Dec 18, 2012 |
Val.emodi:hw old are you? 1 Like |
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