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Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by advocate666: 11:18am On Dec 20, 2012
Many nigerian women often find married life to be more than they bargained for. When a marriage is no longer working, the wise thing to do is to divorce. However, because of family, religious and social pressures many nigerian women prefer to remain in a union of bondage and sadness, Why?!

Please my dear sisters, you don't have to. Your husband is your equal. You are not his slave. You are not super-glued to him. You can leave whenever you want. And if your mother wants you to go back to your husband's house, tell her to go and marry your husband herself if she so loves him. Put yourself back in the market. Make yourself beautiful. Stay happy. Enjoy younger real men that know how to treat a woman. Be a shinning example for your daughters in their fight for women's liberation.

That is the only way for men to learn. Stop taking nonsense from men.

If however, you have found the man of your dreams, fight for him and never lose him.
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by larrymoore(m): 3:02pm On Dec 20, 2012
You are d one encouraging married women to leave their husband? What if most of them are the same? Divorce shouldnt be d next thing. Both ve to make it work, since no perfect marriage. The husband cannot blow hot and the wife blows hot at d same time, one needs to be a sheep n d other a goat. Even d so called men of God ve problem in their marriage. There should be compromise or else....
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by advocate666: 4:30pm On Dec 20, 2012
larrymoore: You are d one encouraging married women to leave their husband? What if most of them are the same? Divorce shouldnt be d next thing. Both ve to make it work, since no perfect marriage. The husband cannot blow hot and the wife blows hot at d same time, one needs to be a sheep n d other a goat. Even d so called men of God ve problem in their marriage. There should be compromise or else....

I agree with you. Couples should try to make their marriage work.
The problem is when it is not working and divorce is the only option, most nigerian women still stay in this marriage and prefer to suffer than to divorce.
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by larrymoore(m): 8:29pm On Dec 20, 2012
advocate666:

I agree with you. Couples should try to make their marriage work.
The problem is when it is not working and divorce is the only option, most nigerian women still stay in this marriage and prefer to suffer than to divorce.
you that divorce is nt easy, especialy when kid(s) involved. Once peeps realised that someone is a divorcee, they stay away(stigmatisation) because they can fathom what led to his or situation. So, dt makes them manage even if is a hell.
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by Nobody: 11:01pm On Dec 20, 2012
Or u could put water u used to wash ur va.gina in his stew, apparently the spell works cheesy cheesy cheesy he will become ur Iil puppet
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by rottenegg: 11:22pm On Dec 20, 2012
mondi_cheeks: Or u could put water u used to wash ur va.gina in his stew, apparently the spell works cheesy cheesy cheesy he will become ur Iil puppet
Is this in your list of don't
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by Goldieluks: 11:22pm On Dec 20, 2012
mondi_cheeks: Or u could put water u used to wash ur va.gina in his stew, apparently the spell works cheesy cheesy cheesy he will become ur Iil puppet


And what happens when the spell backfires, the woman would start running helter skelter looking for a pastor to pray for her right?
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by Nobody: 11:24pm On Dec 20, 2012
rottenegg: Is this in your list of don't
its on my " make other people do" list
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by Nobody: 11:25pm On Dec 20, 2012
Goldieluks:


And what happens when the spell backfires, the woman would start running helter skelter looking for a pastor to pray for her right?
it never back fires
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by rottenegg: 11:26pm On Dec 20, 2012
mondi_cheeks: it on my " make other people do" list
LOL!
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by Goldieluks: 11:28pm On Dec 20, 2012
mondi_cheeks: it never back fires

Hmm...how do you know?
Re: Don't Stay In A Sad Marriage. by Nobody: 11:31pm On Dec 20, 2012
Goldieluks:

Hmm...how do you know?
Mondi knows best grin

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