donchris369:

Hahahahaha. Baby the mama!! Take am easy ooo. This op is not matured at all. He should be like 23 or 24 years. When he grows up, he will look back regret all his actions
. Mum and girlfriend in a meeting?

I don't want this to the misunderstood but I can bet my last dime,this poster cannot be an Igbo man
Most Igbo men won't even introduce their girl to their mother unless they have become 100% sure she is the one and there is no way on earth he will be shacking up with the woman on a permanent basis while his mother is under the same roof.
If he is in Lagos shacking up and mama is about to embark on a journey from Onitsha,the woman will go find a temporary abode quick quick and visit from there.

baby_mama:

With who and who?
What an insult
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How dare you have round table meetings between your mother and a girlfriend
Are you crazy?
As I type,the woman you will eventually marry may be in Asaba right now hopping unto an Ekene bus bound for Jibowu
oh yes,,after all you have not paid bride price on anyone yet,it could be anyone
and you are in Lagos doing round table
If I were your mother I won't take kindly to that rubbish[/size]

YoungSalute: @ Baby_mama You should have asked round table with who instead of throwing insults.

Why would I set a round table meeting involving my mum with my woman.
Please, spare me. I have respect and I can't even imagine myself insulting her (my mum)

I asked the house what to do, because I had never experienced or seen my mum react that way, maybe because I never brought girl to the house. Until I left her house.

The best way to deal with family issues is when outside or unrelated families tell you the truth. That's what nairalanders seek to do.

POINT OF CORRECT --- THERE WAS NO MEETING involving MY woman AND my MOTHER.

HOUSE ask questions BEFORE adding to the aforementioned topic

YoungSalute: @bukatyne.... Thank you o !

YoungSalute: @bukatyne.... Thank you o !

bukatyne: We don't know the kind of meeting the OP wants to have with the both of them. I like the idea of the meeting since the event involved them both at the same time. However, the way the OP handles the meeting determines the outcome. He should make sure his babe apologizies to his mother. Besides, he intends to marry her in 3 mths so she is no longer a GF and I believe she's not a stranger to the OP's mother. If they don't agree now, when will they agree? Change is gradual and not sharp that's why a MIL to be that doesn't respect the DIL to be can't suddenly change after marriage and vice versa. We complain that men over demand respect yet we are guilty of the same thing. We maltreat house - helps, younger ones, DILs, and everyone below us by age or position. Why can't the OP's mom have a meeting with the OP's wife - to - be?

bukatyne: you could have the round table talk with them both after seeing them individually. The joint round table will just be for joint apologies! You know all the 'she's your daughter','she didn't mean it that way'etc while kneeling and prostrating lol! However, I don't support co - habiting. Let your baby look for a place to stay for the next 3mths till the wedding. I wish you all the best.


My 2kobo

YoungSalute: First I must appreciate each and everyone of you contribution, the fight, argument and etc

I took some of the write up and neglected some though, not because I didn't respect their views.

My woman did nothing and never exchanged words with my mum. She was shocked too

Like I said, she was cooking yam, gas got finished and she left the food without storage. My mum got angry because my woman didn't put the yam inside fridge.

Well... Back to verdict

They must live in peace or I will ask THEM to stay away from me. I can't imagine myself having BP ( Blood Pressure ) now.

I asked mum to correct my woman and she agreed to educate her more about KITCHEN now that she's around us.

Finally, my woman came around to say SORRY.

I went out to get kitchen, before I got back. They were watching THE TUDORS

Wedding things now.

*******
THE END.
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Thank you Nairalanders
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Nice one bro. May they stay in peace in jesus name.
But, never for any reason send your mum away, because of your so-called high pressure. Hahahahaha. Kudos man

YoungSalute: @ Baby_mama You should have asked round table with who instead of throwing insults.

Why would I set a round table meeting involving my mum with my woman.
Please, spare me. I have respect and I can't even imagine myself insulting her (my mum)

I asked the house what to do, because I had never experienced or seen my mum react that way, maybe because I never brought girl to the house. Until I left her house.

The best way to deal with family issues is when outside or unrelated families tell you the truth. That's what nairalanders seek to do.

POINT OF CORRECT --- THERE WAS NO MEETING involving MY woman AND my MOTHER.

HOUSE ask questions BEFORE adding to the aforementioned topic

bukatyne: you could have the round table talk with them both after seeing them individually. The joint round table will just be for joint apologies! You know all the 'she's your daughter','she didn't mean it that way'etc while kneeling and prostrating lol! However, I don't support co - habiting. Let your baby look for a place to stay for the next 3mths till the wedding. I wish you all the best.

YoungSalute: First I must appreciate each and everyone of you contribution, the fight, argument and etc

I took some of the write up and neglected some though, not because I didn't respect their views.

My woman did nothing and never exchanged words with my mum. She was shocked too

Like I said, she was cooking yam, gas got finished and she left the food without storage. My mum got angry because my woman didn't put the yam inside fridge.

Well... Back to verdict

They must live in peace or I will ask THEM to stay away from me. I can't imagine myself having BP ( Blood Pressure ) now.

I asked mum to correct my woman and she agreed to educate her more about KITCHEN now that she's around us.

Finally, my woman came around to say SORRY.

I went out to get chicken, before I got back. They were watching THE TUDORS

Wedding things now.

*******
THE END.

post.email:


Joint apology ko! Abi I no understand you well. You mean say babe go apologize to mama, then mama go apologize to babe? " when trouble sleep, yanga go wake am, na palava e dey find".
Guy, if you read all the yans for here, you go see say babes on NL dey support their fellow babe pass mama.
But as I like you reach, make you no support your babe infront of your mama. Remember you na guy man. If say na the babe make mama unhappy, try make mama happy....kill fowl for mama. Whenever mama no dey house, make you flog that babe toto well well so that she no go ever make mama angry again. After that come follow us sitdown for Alhaja place make we watch ManU vs Chelsea. Nothing do you... One gulder for you.

donchris369:

Hey, I don't blame you. if your children grow, you can be having meetings with their girlfriend. No wahala. That's for you sha, stop misleading the op, its a big insult. Well no need to argue with you, as you lay your bed so you lie on it.

kaboninc:

Do really know what you're saying? Hw can you have a round table talk about issues like this between you, your son and a woman who's not even your daughter in law? There's what they call respect. And by not having such a round table means you have respect.

Pls that advice, I don't go with it. Personally I think the mum is trying to send across a message to her son that she's not comfortable with this arrangement. He has to marry her.

KenGali: Tired of reading all these skewed post.

[size=16pt]The Lady in Question is not the OP's wife, just a live-in Lover!!!![/size]

YoungSalute: First I must appreciate each and everyone of you contribution, the fight, argument and etc

I took some of the write up and neglected some though, not because I didn't respect their views.

My woman did nothing and never exchanged words with my mum. She was shocked too

Like I said, she was cooking yam, gas got finished and she left the food without storage. My mum got angry because my woman didn't put the yam inside fridge.

Well... Back to verdict

They must live in peace or I will ask THEM to stay away from me. I can't imagine myself having BP ( Blood Pressure ) now.

I asked mum to correct my woman and she agreed to educate her more about KITCHEN now that she's around us.

Finally, my woman came around to say SORRY.

I went out to get chicken, before I got back. They were watching THE TUDORS

Wedding things now.

*******
THE END.

Goldieluks:



Even if she's just a girl friend. The OP is a man and he's suppose to handle situations like a real man. Don't be surprise if he's married today, I believe the mother is also going to look for faults in the wife also.