HumbledbYGrace: Iam bothered because I know the feeling dear just that in my situation the father would do anything for his child though he couldn't careless bwt me,I remember one time I was there to see my child and the girlfriend came,they did their thing in ma presence I felt like pulling ma hair because I didn't knew of the new girlfriend.

And I have no parents but I value ma family,they were all disappointed wen I fell pregnant but I know that if I stayed with that guy I was giving away my future,I apologised to them though it wasn't easy but they took me back.

Sometimes just put urself in someone else shoes just for a minute dear

so, after advicing you now, what will you do with it?? Since you aint even on talking terms with the girl, or you just wanna discuss someone else's predicament??

Flashaldrin:
so, after advicing you now, what will you do with it?? Since you dont aint even on talking terms with the girl, or you just wanna discuss someone else's predicament??

u reading between da lines?

HumbledbYGrace: u reading between da lines?

yes.

Flashaldrin:
yes.

m very proud of u

HumbledbYGrace: m very proud of u

lol. I just dont kike busybodies. I like your username tho, why did you choose that?

she has to go back to her family for a start then they should see the guys parents on how to take care of the baby.

HumbledbYGrace: Problems but I know sumthing will pop up for the benefit of the girl in question

There is a girl,she just turned 21,living with her boyfriend at her boyfriend's family home.

Her boyfriend is a brother of a close friend of mine and had always looked down on me because people believed I was dating the guy secretly but things got worse wen she got the guy.She couldn't even stand my presence eventhough the guy was with her,the problem is the guy has been a cheat for as long as I can remember.

Moving on,the guy made the girl pregnant and their baby would be 2years this march...The guy is seeing another girl now and just few days ago babymama was out on a night vigil when the guy brought the new girlfriend into the room,while busy babymama returned early from the night vigil and cought them in action....

When she asked the guy he asked her if she noticed something wrong and escorted the new girl home,returning home and ignoring babymama.

On christmas day,babymama went out with the guy's family and the guy brought the girl in again and shagged her.

Now the problem is babymama,was too proud wen still dating the guy with no child then,she fought with a relative who took her in since she is an orphan,so she moved in with the guy.Now the guy doesn't want her anymore and she has nowhere to go,adding that no woman can stay with such a man.

She needs advice though she doesn't know that I know her situation buh I feel for her

Flashaldrin:
lol. I just dont kike busybodies. I like your username tho, why did you choose that?

it reflects me..

Been there done that,got saved,accepted salvation and moved on with life

infodollarman: she has to go back to her family for a start then they should see the guys parents on how to take care of the baby.

*sigh*

HumbledbYGrace:
Been there done that,got saved,accepted salvation and moved on with life*sigh*

thats gud o,thank God a life did not commit suicide

Damex333: thats gud o,thank God a life did not commit suicide