I was watching a home movie and one lady suffering constant assault from his boyfriend was being advised to quit the relationship by her friend. She fired back by saying she prefers putting up with him than the other ladies guy who's a cheat.
It made me start wondering which is better, a cheating husband or an abusive husband. I sample two colleagues' opinions already and both ladies have different choices.

So ladies, which do you prefer. Your husband beating you up when you "mess up" but faithful to you. Or your husband never lifts a finger on you but a ladies' geologist?

i'm not a lady,but either of the two is not good!!

[quote author=ruffhandu]I was watching a home movie and one lady suffering constant assault from her boyfriend was being advised to quit the relationship by a friend. She fired back by saying she prefers putting up with him than the other ladies guy who's a cheat.
It made me start wondering which is better, a cheating husband or an abusive husband. I sampled two colleagues' opinions already and both ladies have different choices.

sure both are not ok. But in reality, many ladies are faced with either or both. They stick to the union most times in the name of "love".

a cheating husband it is....

I'd go for the third choice: NEITHER.

Non, I'd rather be husband-less

Interviewed someone and she actually prefers a cheating husband, claimed all men cheat after all.