ajailer: It does not happen to all of them tho...some still maintain their dignity even wen in their early 30s'

seunfly: I also notice that too, @ 20-25years old ladies don't seems to take marriage as important infact many don't even date marriagable guyz/men at dat age and when you try to talk about marriage with them, they won't take you seriously.
There is this close friend of mine that got married at age of 23years, she alway talk about hw she love the guy and can't meet some one like him again in her life, yet she still wish the guy should have show up later than sooner but she grabed the oppotunity anyway.
***bottomline***
most ladies always want to enjoy themself at younger age before been confined to one man in marriage, but not all will make it, but most go on that path.

seunfly:
***bottomline***

ajailer: It does not happen to all of them tho...some still maintain their dignity even wen in their early 30s'

Adaeze003: Old gist... Why not let them be? If they start chasing barrow pushers and carpenters how is it anyone's business?

We all have standards men and women alike its part of being human. I mean, guys are free to search for who they want and gurls as well the only problem is that gurls are on the receiving side. Also, don't be too fast to judge any single woman in her 30z because it just might be because of time wasters and guys they loved playing them. Or is a girl to know who is gonna play her and who is gonna marry her at first sight? We're are all humans and making mistakes is part of the game so live em alone.

mondi_cheeks: Should one's life begin and end with marriage I have seen a lot of girls (some in church) who marry as early as 23, u find that within 2months her husband is chasing other girls...I don't think rushing into it wld make it enjoyable either

ubong560: One (42yrs now ) openly said all she needs now is just a man who can just make pregnant and she well take care of the baby singlehandedly on our own (looking so frustrated and dissappointed).

totalbaby: i agree. No offence i'll rather be alone then just go for any tom, dick and harry because i am 30. Such unions usually do not last or breeds resentment etc. I think that everyone has their time and women should stop being afraid of being alone.

fresh_dude: It's not only the 42 year olds saying so o. Two female friends of mine said the very same thing, one 31 the other 23. Men should be careful with these modern women, if they tell you no need for condom, you know it's not only HIV you should be scared of.

chikeorji123:

Ha! really? hahahahaha!..

fresh_dude: Don't be ovberly dramatic. Majority of people who made this exact same statement in their 20s are biting their fingers in regret. The important thing is to have a healthy opinion about marriage. You think the forty somethings desperate to marry didn't have that opinion? Abeg, what you have to do do quick.

mondi_cheeks: u and ur bottomline

mondi_cheeks: so u are saying I should jump into marriage now...watch my husband cheat simply becos I didn't want to be 40 and single It seems like marriage is the beginning and end for most pple on NL. Maybe u have nothing else left to live for that's why u blindly rush into marriage at a young age. Well I still have other things on my mind besides getting a ring and walking down the alter. Marriage requires 2 mature people who are committed to each other and are ready to honour their vows to one another. Its goes beyond changing a surname and getting a diamond ring and a wedding reception pple will talk about for years

chikeorji123:

That's totalbaby for u!..

ubong560: Let me quickly advise u, b4 u make dat mistake now, think of ur 30s and 40s if the opportunity wil come again.

seunfly: yes i like to make conclusion

mondi baby, i think girls should grab d opportunity to marry at 23y and above with both hands if they have what it takes and other necessary goals as been accomplished.

ubong560:

NOTE: Exactly what happened in my neighbourhood last week.

D sage: @mondi_cheeks, you will never understand. I will advise you to go and ask those single sisters in their late 20's and 30's before you comment here again.

Marriage might not be everything in life,but time will come that you won't be able to withstand the urge to have your own family and kids especially if all of your mates and friends are all married with children.