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My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by talk2sulta: 10:08am On Feb 29, 2008 |
I just woke up to see a text message sent by my EX.it must probably have been sent by midnight and it reads "Good morning.please be reminded that I'll b coming over soonest to collect my compensation.I've noticed that youve been silent over it and I can't wait any longer.also b reminded that any cost incurred by me with regards to this visit will be defrayed by you.Ignore this message at your own risk". Is she asking for pension or what? :oor is it severance allowance or retirement benefits? .I was tempted to call her to explain better,but I held back. what do y'all think? |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by Nobody: 10:13am On Feb 29, 2008 |
She is asking for compensation for being a cook, cleaner, washwoman and anyother services she might have offered. Abeg, i no know oh, good luck sha. No be small thing Seriously though, did you promise her marriage? If you did then she could have a case for breach of promise. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by efuah(f): 10:14am On Feb 29, 2008 |
Perhaps finding a way of coming back . . . ignore it if u're still not interested in her. If u still love her, let her come, u migh make up from there. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by donbuchi1(m): 10:20am On Feb 29, 2008 |
I think you should see and discuss with her. Get to know what she has given that she wants back. I suggest not in your apartment. Better luck! |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by ALERTEFCC(f): 10:24am On Feb 29, 2008 |
na una know the deal wey una strike, you sure say she never carry belle for you so, when she go come na you go run leave house for am oo. as e don say 'Ignore this message at your own risk', abi you promise am say you go buy land or moto, then yawa go gas be that. na only for this we yeye country na im man go wake up tell woman say e don tire, pray make she no be like me, you go run leave house. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by outlawcum4(m): 10:29am On Feb 29, 2008 |
SHE AIN'T GONNA STOP PLAYING WITH YOUR INTELLIGENT, YOU ARE SUCH A FOOL TO HAVE WANNA PUT UP WITH THIS BITCH DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE LEFT YOU TO GO SLEEP WITH HER EX-BOYFRIEND AND EVEN WENT AHEAD ON CALLING OFF THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU AND NOW U ARE THINKING ABOUT HAVING HER BACK. THIS IS ONE THING LADIES KNEW HOW TO DO BEST. BITCH BITCH BITCH. BITCH ALL THE MOTHERFUCKING TIME. U SEE, LADIES END UP PLAYING LIKE THIS WOII, CRY ME A RIVER TALK2SULTA. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by outlawcum4(m): 10:34am On Feb 29, 2008 |
@EFUAH, U GOTTA LEARN TO SHOW SOME RESPECT OK? |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by talk2sulta: 10:42am On Feb 29, 2008 |
aisha2:am not that careless.never did. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by Nobody: 10:51am On Feb 29, 2008 |
@talk2sulta, really then if you did not promise her marriage from a legal point of view i dont thik she is entitled to compensation. Men need to be careful the ay they start and end relationships, women can be dangerous especially when their pride is hurt. I keep saying this to my brothers and cousins, a hurt woman can act crazy. Just take it easy and be careful and diplomatic in dealing with her, hear her out and hat she ants first, then you will know what steps to take. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by efuah(f): 11:04am On Feb 29, 2008 |
talk2sulta:and what's careless abt promising marriage? Why do some guys think proposing marriage is like doing the lady in question a favour? |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by Nobody: 11:04am On Feb 29, 2008 |
ALERT-EFCC: Ha! |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by Nobody: 11:19am On Feb 29, 2008 |
efuah:Efuah, am sure he meant that he is not so careless to make promises he cant keep. Most Men carelessly promise a girl marriage when they have no intention of marrying her probably just to get into her pants. The girl will be killing herself trying to be a good wife and at the end of the day after cooking, cleaning and doing washer woman, no marriage. s |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by ty4real(m): 11:23am On Feb 29, 2008 |
@Poster! What sort of compensation is that excerpt you did tell us what u diid with her Bros jewo, u boraged her well when you were going out and she is coming for her own return match! Well, meet and chat with her first so from there we can now proffer solutions. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by Psoul(m): 11:29am On Feb 29, 2008 |
My man babes can be funny atimes, u should also ask 4 ur own compensation. Check I be like say d babe never tire 4 u. She wan make u come beg am. No mind d babe. If she still wan come back she can come beg u. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by talk2sulta: 11:31am On Feb 29, 2008 |
aisha2:you just said my mind. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by talk2sulta: 11:34am On Feb 29, 2008 |
efuah: no longer interested. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by efuah(f): 11:36am On Feb 29, 2008 |
@aisha2. . .thx for the gd explanation. talk2sulta:saved!. . . was almost going to pounce on ya talk2sulta:cus u finished deflating her? |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by talk2sulta: 11:43am On Feb 29, 2008 |
efuah: na she deflate me oh .I go ask for my own compensation. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by efuah(f): 11:44am On Feb 29, 2008 |
then hurry. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by olulu(m): 12:02pm On Feb 29, 2008 |
Compensation ke? cash or in kind? or she go take bank guarantee? prior to her coming over, take 2 shots of sepe, one small bottle of paraga, then 6 big table spoon of yoyo bitters, and, emmm, well, u fit add viagra join. i can assure you that the importance and materiality of the matter will defer in contrast to the demanded pay off, if the above effectively effective modus operandi is adopted, this will be immensely and massively propotionate to the magnitude of the increasingly curious and mysterious compensation being sought after. if after d match, she asks again, forward her to me, i compensate well , but not one off, strictly on a weekly basis |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by talk2sulta: 12:12pm On Feb 29, 2008 |
olulu: lmfao |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by Zandra1(f): 4:15am On Mar 01, 2008 |
"Good morning.please be reminded that I'll b coming over soonest to collect my compensation.I've noticed that youve been silent over it and I can't wait any longer.also b reminded that any cost incurred by me with regards to this visit will be defrayed by you.Ignore this message at your own risk". LMGAO . She ended it with a semi threat/warning . This 'dramaland' is one funny place. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by adeboo(f): 2:57pm On Mar 01, 2008 |
Maybe u should answer urself. She said its an issue u had kept quiet about - so u should know. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by uspry1(f): 3:40pm On Mar 01, 2008 |
@poster Have you thought that your EX might be your ASHEWO in order to collect your compensation whatever you invited her having one-night stand? You might not know your EX's past background. Maybe I am wrong!!! |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by ty4real(m): 3:46pm On Mar 01, 2008 |
olulu: |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by spoilt(f): 8:56pm On Mar 01, 2008 |
ex wife or girlfriend? an ex wife does deserve a 'pension'. no be small thing! |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by ifyalways(f): 9:06pm On Mar 01, 2008 |
@poster,if your ex is from either warri or PH or is residing there or brought up there then its not a new thing jare.i have seen things like that happen in that area and infact you should know without being told whatever,sit her down,bargain wellu wellu |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by Frizy(m): 9:21pm On Mar 01, 2008 |
This must be a joke. Compensation for what? The happy time you had together? I think she wants to get back to you or did you guys have any deal that if in case there is a break up she will be compensated. Nigeria is not the U.K or U.S where women are lords. Try to avoid calling her and if she comes to visit you as she said: It may mean she wants you to compensate her in the manly way, you know what I mean. If you guys still have feelings then this is your best shot grab it! |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 01, 2008 |
ifyalways:lol. . @post hahahahhaha. . .sorry, but that's just funny. . .maybe she wants to get paid for wasted time she was with you. . . |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by spoilt(f): 10:00pm On Mar 01, 2008 |
its not a joke. its affectionately called alimony. |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by olulu(m): 7:46am On Mar 03, 2008 |
his_grace: OUCH !!! That's Gross, and wicked, but sha, Love is Wicked but the fact of the matter is that, compensation she ask for , not torture. no kill the poor girl o, i have plans for her |
Re: My Ex Is Asking For Compensation(?) by bigfather(m): 8:26am On Mar 03, 2008 |
Compensation for wetin naa ? |
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