My children are just 2years and 8months old. I sleep in a room with the older child while my wife with the other child in another room. I was recently advised to make sure I sleep in same room with my wife and take the little children to the other room alone. What is ur view cos i feel the children are still too small to sleep alone?

Your arrangement seems kinda odd. You all are small enough a family to sleep in one room. . . Make a cot for the toddler and one for the baby. . . .A 2 year-old is still too young to be left alone. . . I agree.


Who adviced you? And what reasons were given for the advice? HOW DID THEY KNOW YOUR BUSINESS AS IN SLEEPING ARRANGEMENTS?

Thank you! E ku se o!

I do not want ANYONE IN MY BED. . . SPOUSE OR CHILDREN!
I used to. . .but not anymore.
I don't want ANYONE TO DISTURB MY SNORING!!!!
If you push me to wake me up. . . I WILL SLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLAP YOU!
My husband knows to phock and go BACK to his own room! Period!!!

The kind of cold room I sleep in. . .NO ONE CAN SURVIVE THERE FOR THE WHOLE NIGHT!

Gambrosia: Your arrangement seems kinda odd. You all are small enough a family to sleep in one room. . . Make a cot for the toddler and one for the baby. . . .A 2 year-old is still too young to be left alone. . . I agree.


Who adviced you? And what reasons were given for the advice? HOW DID THEY KNOW [b]YOUR BUSINESS AS IN SLEEPING ARRANGEMENTS?
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Thank you! E ku se o!

I do not want ANYONE IN MY BED. . . SPOUSE OR CHILDREN!
I used to. . .but not anymore.
I don't want ANYONE TO DISTURB MY SNORING!!!!
If you push me to wake me up. . . I WILL SLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLAP YOU!
My husband knows to phock and go BACK to his own room! Period!!!

I share in the questions as made bold above,but for the rest that came after...na your own be that o. @ Op, if none of you is complaining, I wonder why it should be another person's business... even mine!

TDM Activated!
Yes. She can't be travelling 4rm her room to my room whenever she wanna fffuck me...

After one of your james bond jounernies, your child will ask you , why do you always go to dads room every nite. You will reply...

Firstly........to answer your question.......Y E S?

@op, your family is too young to be sleeping separately.........let there be two beds and a baby cot in your room, one bed for you and your wife and d other bed for your toddler and d cot for d baby.
Personally, i dont encourage couples to be sleeping on different bed, not to talk of separate rooms.
Even d bible says, when it is cold, you get heat from each other when you sleep together
When a couple sleeps together, having misunderstanding for too long of a period is most likely to be erased, also, having spontaneous s.e/x is there, which has to do with catching fun with each other, then, being very close to each other, when sleeping together can not be ruled out. Sleeping together breeds love and more love. It makes misunderstanding to be settled within a short while.........more and more benefits there.
Having said that, each to his own, as for us, neither I nor my hubby is ready to separate our bed, not even our kids can separate it, we are one, and one shall we be until death do us part, infact, i cant even sleep if my man is not beside me, all our misunderstandings are settled on d bed, we gist everyday on our bed till one of us sleep off, we dont even go to bed separately, if im not ready to go to bed, he too will not be ready and if hes not ready, im also not ready.......that is our own o, and it has helped us in our marital relationship a great deal.
May God help us all.

@op, it just occurred to me now, so, anytime you want to go to mount kilimanjaro, u travel out of your room, to another room, and if d room is already locked, you start knocking and talking silently......open d door! open d door....., in order not to wake d kids up....., and you think all those ones wont have effect on your mounting of mountains, and if and when you are done, you travel back to your room........ ..........hhhhhmmmmm, you people dey try o.

soledayo: My children are just 2years and 8months old. I sleep in a room with the older child while my wife with the other child in another room. I was recently advised to make sure I sleep in same room with my wife and take the little children to the other room alone. What is ur view cos i feel the children are still too small to sleep alone?

Men who are too nurturing do this ....happened to me too when the baby was little and we wanted to resume action .... every little cry he will jump off like crazy it drives me nuts! I'll say what's your problem?! Get back here pulling his shirt ... He still manage to run off to check and come back... baby will not die crying Abeg!( he doesn't like me saying that too)

I dismantled and reassembled the crib out from the baby room myself ( that we decorated for months) into our bedroom .. then everything went back to normal.... He still jumps off like crazy till today but just reduced without them in our bed.

OP do what greatgod already adviced and move the crib in your bedroom till she's old enough to join the older one in his/her room.

Exhausting raising kids sha ... God help us

jidegirl12:

Men who are too nurturing do this ....happened to me too when the baby was little and we wanted to resume action .... every little cry he will jump off like crazy it drives me nuts! I'll say what's your problem?! Get back here pulling his shirt ... He still manage to run off to check and come back... baby will not die crying Abeg!( he doesn't like me saying that too)

ROTFLMAO [quote][/quote]

Ileke-IdI:


ROTFLMAO

Okay dey laugh now ... Laugh dey pain person o

.... ' baby hold that thot and don't move I'd be right back' ... I'm like what tha ?!! Jumps off gone!!

Yup. couples must sleep in the same room.

jidegirl12:

Okay dey laugh now ... Laugh dey pain person o

.... ' baby hold that thot and don't move I'd be right back' ... I'm like what tha ?!! Jumps off gone!!

At least he helps with the baby and doesn't expect you to be the one to silence him.lol

greatgod2012: Firstly........to answer your question.......Y E S?

@op, your family is too young to be sleeping separately.........let there be two beds and a baby cot in your room, one bed for you and your wife and d other bed for your toddler and d cot for d baby.
Personally, i dont encourage couples to be sleeping on different bed, not to talk of separate rooms.
Even d bible says, when it is cold, you get heat from each other when you sleep together
When a couple sleeps together, having misunderstanding for too long of a period is most likely to be erased, also, having spontaneous s.e/x is there, which has to do with catching fun with each other, then, being very close to each other, when sleeping together can not be ruled out. Sleeping together breeds love and more love. It makes misunderstanding to be settled within a short while.........more and more benefits there.
Having said that, each to his own, as for us, neither I nor my hubby is ready to separate our bed, not even our kids can separate it, we are one, and one shall we be until death do us part, infact, i cant even sleep if my man is not beside me, all our misunderstandings are settled on d bed, we gist everyday on our bed till one of us sleep off, we dont even go to bed separately, if im not ready to go to bed, he too will not be ready and if hes not ready, im also not ready.......that is our own o, and it has helped us in our marital relationship a great deal.
May God help us all.

one of the reason I envy ur hubby, how did he beat me to you. Do u have a replica? I dont mind

zanga420: one of the reason I envy ur hubby, how did he beat me to you. Do u have a replica? I dont mind

thanks.

Gambrosia: Your arrangement seems kinda odd. You all are small enough a family to sleep in one room. . . Make a cot for the toddler and one for the baby. . . .A 2 year-old is still too young to be left alone. . . I agree.


Who adviced you? And what reasons were given for the advice? HOW DID THEY KNOW YOUR BUSINESS AS IN SLEEPING ARRANGEMENTS?

Thank you! E ku se o!

I do not want ANYONE IN MY BED. . . SPOUSE OR CHILDREN!
I used to. . .but not anymore.
I don't want ANYONE TO DISTURB MY SNORING!!!!
If you push me to wake me up. . . I WILL SLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLAP YOU!
My husband knows to phock and go BACK to his own room! Period!!!

The kind of cold room I sleep in. . .NO ONE CAN SURVIVE THERE FOR THE WHOLE NIGHT!

Calloti, I hope you don't act out some the things you write on NL in real life. It sure will be funny to meet you in person.

Gambrosia: Your arrangement seems kinda odd. You all are small enough a family to sleep in one room. . . Make a cot for the toddler and one for the baby. . . .A 2 year-old is still too young to be left alone. . . I agree.


Who adviced you? And what reasons were given for the advice? HOW DID THEY KNOW YOUR BUSINESS AS IN SLEEPING ARRANGEMENTS?

Thank you! E ku se o!

I do not want ANYONE IN MY BED. . . SPOUSE OR CHILDREN!
I used to. . .but not anymore.
I don't want ANYONE TO DISTURB MY SNORING!!!!
If you push me to wake me up. . . I WILL SLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLAP YOU!
My husband knows to phock and go BACK to his own room! Period!!!

The kind of cold room I sleep in. . .NO ONE CAN SURVIVE THERE FOR THE WHOLE NIGHT!

lol @ d last paragraph there

With the way greatgod,debrief,and jidegirl talk about marital issues,God,I can't wait to get married. Your explanations are off the hook,i'm imaging how marital life would be. *thinking*

eagle,eye:


Calloti, I hope you don't act out some the things you write on NL in real life. It sure will be funny to meet you in person.

If only you knew.
Funny, entertaining and VERY AGILE!!!!
I have done allll of them o.

greatgod2012:


thanks.

U are welcome but I asked a question and looking forward to an answer to it n a positive answer really.

Currently with the hubby. . . and we are not even 'sleeping' yet o!
We are in SEPARATE bedrooms.
He wants to watch OBAMA. . . I want to watch ID.
I am not moving from my room!
I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE THIS OPEN MARRIAGE I SWEAR!!!

zanga420: U are welcome but I asked a question and looking forward to an answer to it n a positive answer really.

unfortunately, im d last born, but if u are a right partner yourself, u will definately attract d right partner.
May God help us all,

I was wondering how long it would take for the husband to crawl into my bed!
4 hot rounds this morrring alone!HE HAS SQUEEZED THE LIVING DAYLIGHTS OURRA MY HUGE B0-0BS. . .I LOVED IT!!!
You see? No OP. . . couples do NOT have to sleep in the same bad to maintain intimacy or friendship.
UNLESS YOU ARE TRYING TO FAKE IT LIKE MANY NAIRALANDERS WE KNOW ON AND OFFLINE. . . . .OR YOU WERE NEVER CLOSE!

I am in bed. . . and he is cooking me breakfast STILL IN HIS PYJAMAS.
Then LUNCH AND DINNER!

okosodo: After one of your james bond jounernies, your child will ask you , why do you always go to dads room every nite. You will reply...

to watch James bond film now.

There's something very attractive about having separate rooms and the man calls 'iya karunwi !! ' iya karunwi goes 'sir?', and enters the man's room kneeling down, and they proceed from there.

tpia@:
There's something very attractive about having separate rooms and the man calls 'iya karunwi !! ' iya karunwi goes 'sir?', and enters the man's room kneeling down, and they proceed from there.

and what is attractive in this?

Yes yes yes
You have to sleep in the same room with your wife. Let the kids stay in their room if its a boy n girl stylishly divide the room for them with a barrier so each can have his or her privacy. Infact you two are choking the kids let them sleep alone that's how independent kids should be raised.
Your kids are already putting boundaries in your marriage it shouldn't be so. The bed is not only for sex. Its for gisting, sharing thoughts etc when u lay ur head at night so many thoughts flow you need each other to trash out issues.

Poor SINGLES AND NEWLY-WEDS!!!!
H-Alarm go soon BLOW!!!
Mu Che Che Che Che Che
Nigerian men dey siddon for 'Ouse? Not to mention sleep on the same bed?
LWKMD!!!
H-Internet na waya!!! Life is always pisssssshure-purrrrrrrrrFET!!!!
African NOMADS sleeping on the same bed?

greatgod2012:

and what is attractive in this?

What's not?

Hmmmm Kongo would be affected by separate bedrooms

Gambrosia: I was wondering how long it would take for the husband to crawl into my bed!
4 hot rounds this morrring alone!HE HAS SQUEEZED THE LIVING DAYLIGHTS OURRA MY HUGE B0-0BS. . .I LOVED IT!!!
You see? No OP. . . couples do NOT have to sleep in the same bad to maintain intimacy or friendship.
UNLESS YOU ARE TRYING TO FAKE IT LIKE MANY NAIRALANDERS WE KNOW ON AND OFFLINE. . . . .OR YOU WERE NEVER CLOSE!

I am in bed. . . and he is cooking me breakfast STILL IN HIS PYJAMAS.
Then LUNCH AND DINNER!

ahn ahn!!

slimyem: ahn ahn!!

You know say my NL LIES dey sweeeeeet too much! Nor let awon CYBER e badu belle and e jolosi hear you o!!! 1% ONLYTRUTH.