Oh Ticha is dis really u?praise God.Am so so happy to hear dis.had to read twice.congratulations dear sister.May d fruits in ur womb b a source of glory to their generation.dis is good news sister

Iyabetajos: Oh Ticha is dis really u?praise God.Am so so happy to hear dis.had to read twice.congratulations dear sister.May d fruits in ur womb b a source of glory to their generation.dis is good news sister

Amen ny dear sister! Its me like joke like play and so will your and everyone's story here be too! All that weight loss helped o. I'm still 69kg! Hehe

kai na ji miki daidi Ticha.kin yi kokari.May laughter n joy neva depart from ur home

Congrats Ticha. God is great

Congrats Ticha!!! Am so so happy for u. May u have a stress free pregnancy thru out ur 9months.

Coping with infertility is never easy.Dere r tyms it just gets to u no matter how hard u try.whenever my husband is nt around,i feel frustrated,lonely n alone.i can hardly concentrate on anything for too long.I dnt want to ask God why or when but i know my victory will surely come.To all my sisters in dis dilemma,God has not forgotten us

Is not easy to get married without any sign of pregnancy. God will help us all. please may i ask what is TTC and IVF . cos i dont know it.someone should please explain. God bless us all

@safe06 what do u mean by assisted productive technique. please explain more

Hi everyone

congrat Ticha, wishing u a wonderful and happy pregnancy.

@All, am new on dis thread but not new to some of my sisters here, when i saw this thread, i just flashed back to some stuffs, it is well...coping with infertility is not easy but only takes d grace of God to pull through..
so many words av been spoken concerning our wedding ceremony by majorly my in-laws, my sis-inlaw spoke it to my face dat those pple who do society wedding like mine bla bla bla, giving negative instances like problems after spending much on wedding, barreness. i snapped in immediately, when u talk abt lousy wedding, i never had one, i only went to registry on friday, early sat we went to church for holy matrimony which was just me, hubby, and our parents after that we did traditional engagement and a band played. if i were to have my fairy tale wedding, it wont be the one i had, i gave her examples of society wedding like Darkore & Olumide Akande and they are still togeda with a daughter, a friend of mine who she also knows got married in a very huge way, rented hall for N1.4M in lekki, it was sleek dat did her make-up, etc..she has a baby gurl now and they re living happily, so she shdnt attach dis temporary condition to my wedding ceremony. so many things dat i cant be saying.
a pastor(Mrs) that prays and counsels me told me to relax dat God has a purpose for my life, she further advise me to ignore any talks directly or indirectly, and dat is what i av bn doing, i smile, i laugh wheneva dey say something concerning my situation and you know wat, they have reduced the way the talk, the way they indirectly blame me/dh. if i feel like crying it would be in d corner of my room. The pastor even shared her experience dat what we are passing through is not new to her, she got married 1983, she dint conceive until 1987... so am so relax, it is the way u appear dat pple will address you, so i put on my best, eat well so i dont get lean, party when there is one.

thank safe06 for this wonderful thread, we learn everyday and i have learnt one or 2 things reading all d posts.

Well said my sisters.its nt easy.my mum just called me to tell me dat my aunty who is 53 is heavily pregnant finally after abt 8yrs of marriage.God is nt man dat he shuld fail.he wil c us tru

@iyabetajos, wowww, God is awesome, @53?
wishing her a happy and wonderful pregnancy, she will carry the pregnancy to term IJN.

Flakeey: Hi everyone

congrat Ticha, wishing u a wonderful and happy pregnancy.

@All, am new on dis thread but not new to some of my sisters here, when i saw this thread, i just flashed back to some stuffs, it is well...coping with infertility is not easy but only takes d grace of God to pull through..
so many words av been spoken concerning our wedding ceremony by majorly my in-laws, my sis-inlaw spoke it to my face dat those pple who do society wedding like mine bla bla bla, giving negative instances like problems after spending much on wedding, barreness. i snapped in immediately, when u talk abt lousy wedding, i never had one, i only went to registry on friday, early sat we went to church for holy matrimony which was just me, hubby, and our parents after that we did traditional engagement and
a band played. if i were to have my fairy tale wedding, it wont be the one i had, i gave her examples of society wedding like Darkore & Olumide Akande and they are still togeda with a daughter, a friend of mine who she also knows got married in a very huge way, rented hall for N1.4M in lekki, it was sleek dat did her make-up, etc..she has a baby gurl now and they re living happily, so she shdnt attach dis temporary condition to my wedding ceremony. so many things dat i cant be saying.
a pastor(Mrs) that prays and counsels me told me to relax dat God has a purpose for my life, she further advise me to ignore any talks directly or indirectly, and dat is what i av bn doing, i smile, i laugh wheneva dey say something concerning my situation and you know wat, they have reduced the way the talk, the way they indirectly blame me/dh. if i feel like crying it would be in d corner of my room. The pastor even shared her experience dat what we are passing through is not new to her, she got married 1983, she dint conceive until 1987... so am so relax, it is the way u appear dat pple will address you, so i put on my best, eat well so i dont get lean, party when there is one.

thank safe06 for this wonderful thread, we learn everyday and i have learnt one or 2 things reading all d posts.

My case EXACTLY. Infact, my aunt is "warning" my dad not to even invite anyone for my younger ones weddings. Just we, we only. Imagine, fa!. @safe this thread will also be of use, welldone. @iyabetajos...ina kwana. Ya aiki? Sannu ku. (I try?) It will be done @God's right time. Without tears, without sorrow.

Hawtmummie wai wai kin yi kokari fa.ki zo tutorials kuma don ki zama expert...
Safe na so we see am ohh.mumsi say na so so blush my aunty just dey do.her first pregnancy in her lyf.

@Hawtmummie, na wa o...God will direct ur family on what to do and take absolute Control from d beginning to the end of the wedding.
this world we are in is full of wickedness.
they no go allow pesin enjoy hin life jeje, God pass them.

Iyabetajos: Hawtmummie wai wai kin yi kokari fa.ki zo tutorials kuma don ki zama expert...
Safe na so we see am ohh.mumsi say na so so blush my aunty just dey do.her first pregnancy in her lyf.

abeg, make she blush
me sef go do pass blushing if God answers me. *lol*

Hahahaha flakeey no worry na me go dey carry ur handbag as u dey do shakara sef