This morning i was listening to a radia station n there was dis woman who has been with her bf fro 8yrs n they ve 3 children and nw de guy is misbehaving so she was asking if she shd stay or go?
Personally,de long i can go in relationship is 4 yrs.i see ppl who re in long term relationship like 6- 10 yrs as wasting their tym,what if he/she does not marry u in de long run,u would ve wasted tym,energy n resources n more over u ll feel over used.i think u can take one yr to knw smbdy well enough to marry him/her.
And my aunty alwz tell me u dont ve to be super rich before u can marry,combining resources with ur partner speeds up ur success.so to me money is no excuse to stay in a relationship up to ten yrs.

8yrs in a relationship? The woman must be under some kind of spell.
It's sheer stupidity to be in Bf/Gf relationship for more than two yrs without moving to the next step.
If the guy is not convinced enough to marry the lady within 2yrs, he'll never be.
Sometimes i don't blame people who stick to a relationship for a long time. They prefer to hold on to something than nothing at all.

what the eff? 8years?
dang

The lady is silly. Why stay in a rel for 8 years. She wants to leave now and do what? After 3 kids. I wonder why some women just can't be wise

8 wetin? Hian!!! She should take a stand jor. Me can't do that long... as as how na?

cantell: 8yrs in a relationship? The woman must be under some kind of spell.
It's sheer stupidity to be in Bf/Gf relationship for more than two yrs without moving to the next step.
If the guy is not convinced enough to marry the lady within 2yrs, he'll never be.
Sometimes i don't blame people who stick to a relationship for a long time. They prefer to hold on to something than nothing at all.

Why is it always about the guy tho? Shouldnt the lady know within those 2 years if she will marry him as well? Maybe SHE doesnt want to marry.