Love That Endures Beyond Valentine’s Day


HOW do you love? Do you believe that love means feeling permanently dizzy or do you think that your head must rule the heart? Do you even believe in love at all?
Whatever your belief, chances are that you have been searching for love but have not been successful. Worse, you think that you are alone because you havenot been searching the right way. You may or may not be correct. But find out how youlove by reading the examplebelow- you may learn some lessons and improve on your act this Valentine. A successful relationship is never far away.
Are You A Romantic?
We are all romantics, all of us: even those who refuse to admit it. But some people get carried away so much sothat they fall in love with theidea of romance instead of aiming for a realistic relationship.
Naturally, a relationship based on too much love expectations fail because it does not want to know the real people concerned deep down. It thrives on the giddyfeelings and the need to create a good impression which is experienced at the early stages.
Are you a romantic then? Yes, if you take every opportunity to show your friends how Peter dances. You have just met Peter
Every guy you meet is The One.
“I laughed so hard, the other day when Peter sneaked up behind this policeman and tweaked his cap. Hm, Peter.”
Last month, you were full of praise for Tunde.
In less than one mouth of meeting him, you have known his bedroom in and out because you think that going all the way so soon means love. But you are in doubt now because Peter refuses to take your phone calls these days. He has alsotold you that he needs a breathing space.
Sadly, however, you are nothappy on Valentine’s Day because guys rarely live up to expectation. You think that you only met the wrong type -- the unromantic and uncaring.
Their gifts say so. Naturally you end the relationship andcontinue the search of the right partner.
First, we must thank people like you for keeping the celebration of love alive. Buttruthfully, you expect too much. You may meet a kindred spirit who is ready to spend 24/7 in your company, but he would be the rare species of the male gender. Get him interested, buy yourself gifts, set the romantic mood you desire to keep him by your side. Do that without rancour becauseit has been proven that without women Val’s Day would have been forgotten.
Some studies suggest that women send up to 85% of cards on Valentine’s Day.
Confident Lover
Gifts do not mean love, although you expect to be wined and dined.
Love means a shoulder to lean on in times of trouble.
Love means ability to communicate. Although you value your twosome, you seek ways to nourish your universe by having friends so that it does not wither and die.
Your lover may fail you on Valentine’s but you always forgive because you remember his goodness in the past. This is what makesyou the confident lover, whoshould be emulated. You relationships are also satisfying.
The Loveless one
You feel disgusted at the display of all these affection.You feel suspicious when a guy offers a gift of flowers.
It is no big deal if your husband forgets to give a gift on February 14! Get in the mood and allow yourself to feel the warmth.
Think of the what fun you would have this year if you are married. If you prepare for it, your man would be interested and agree to a lavish event