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Virgin or no virgin....... Go 4 d one dat will make u happy. Do not be sentimental in ur decisions. Life is meant 2 be enjoyed!

speechless

mechummy: speechless

why are you speechless maam?

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Virginity shouldn't be a decisive factor in your marriage. I guess the non virgin girl struts her stuff cuz she is not as naïve as the pastor's daughter and that appeals to your senses.

I'll advise you to isolate the so called attraction and consider what remains/what lies beneath. Then you will be properly guided.

Really?

Dondav:
So, The virgin is naive and the other one who probably might have dated couple of guys isn't? I like the way you think!

Maybe you should read the op's post again!

Discipline and lifestyle are very important xteristics to consider. Beauty fades u know.

Is d non-virgin's lifestyle completely out of it as in she's not religious nd disciplined at all
Are you even religious urself at all If u are, why don't u pray abt it, God still directs!
If you're not, den, why are you bothering urself with a religious person
Der're many things to consider in picking a spouse and as much as being religious and disciplined is important, it's still a part of it. Think about the next 30 years and pick the one you would still want to be with then. Good luck

nice4life:
why are you speechless maam?

U dont knw what u want which means u're nt ready for marriage. when u are, u wont need to ask anybody

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Sounding like a kiddo.

Washin closely
So farginity now is a criterion?
I dey wash

Sijo01: Sounding like a kiddo.

I broke my left leg while searching for you

OP,go n meet ur pastor. This one pass nairaland matter!

D-Explorer:

I broke my left leg while searching for you

and I fell down from a mat while laughing out so loud @your post.

where'v you been swthrt...... its been ages. hope you'r cool?

Sijo01:

and I fell down from a mat while laughing out so loud @your post.

where'v you been swthrt...... its been ages. hope you'r cool?

Sijo don't do this to me again because i don't think i will pass. Ermm, i'm good. Where i've been? Searching for you darling. Oya hug me to heal my wounds.

D-Explorer:

*reach out to him for a 'healing hug'*

Go for the lady that has kept to herself and please for God's sake, do not look at beauty when talking of marriage because it a life time issue. The taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage.

Let God help you and seeing her in your dream could be a way God wants you to heed to His love for you.I repeat, forget beauty.

@Post

If you are indecisive about whom it is that you want to spend the rest of your life with, then, I guess you ain't ready for marriage yet. Marriage is not a walk in the park. You better know what you are doing before you dabble into it.

Sijo01:

*reach out to him for a 'healing hug'*

Ok good, oya remain there, no move abeg, i'm still healing

Marry the woman that stimulates your heart not your pendullum.The issue of virgin or no virgin really sounds juvenile,how long do you think you can actually make love to a woman that you are not physically attracted to??Beauty fades but that doesn't change the fact that you can tell a pretty old lady from an ugly one.When your virgin's hymen is gone,will you still want her??


Marry the woman that makes you feel like a man,the one you can be proud of.This your virgin or no virgin criteria dey sound funny sha.You are old enough to knw what matters to you.OP don't you feel love for any of these women??or you just want to be married?

ALL OF US HERE ARE THE WRONG CADIDATE TO ADVICE YOU. TURN YOUR FACE TO GOD AND HE WILL DIRECT YOUR FOOTH STEPS. LOOK BEYOUND EpheMERAL THINGS AND SEARCH YOUR HEART. looks fade but a heart of gold is long lasting. Enuff said. Best of luck

The woman ur more comfortable with should b ur wife,someone u both respect ,she love and repect u and like wise u.i also agree with oleku baby turn to GOD AND HE WILL DIRECT U ON THE RIGHT PART TO FOLLOW

byvan: Marry the woman that stimulates your heart not your pendullum.The issue of virgin or no virgin really sounds juvenile,how long do you think you can actually make love to a woman that you are not physically attracted to??Beauty fades but that doesn't change the fact that you can tell a pretty old lady from an ugly one.When your virgin's hymen is gone,will you still want her??


Marry the woman that makes you feel like a man,the one you can be proud of.This your virgin or no virgin criteria dey sound funny sha.You are old enough to knw what matters to you.OP don't you feel love for any of these women??or you just want to be married?

You get am o. Who marries someone they are not attracted to? A virgin is a virgin till she gets disvirgined. Then what OP? She will just be like any other woman. If virginity was something that lasted a lifetime, I would have told you to go ahead. Virginity is great, but shouldn't be the basis of your decision as you will fail to notice other critical things.

The funny thing about this OP as a virgin male is that he has 2 girl friends. Na wa o. Even virgin male dey two-time. See wahala of 21st century. Virgin man with options. Buhahahahaha.

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@Baby123,funny you!!the virgin male two timing part is really........


@Op,thumps up,finally you chose the one that makes your heart to tingalinga ling,better start reading books and watching videos to aid ur 'dancing' skills.