_{Elizabeth, bawo ni? so o wa pa?}

Ha, ma ma je ki won gbe mi. Jo sanu iya mi o. Mo wa pa.

anywhos! does any body think all dis originated 4rm when we were very little children; u know, when boys would pull our hair, smash something important to us,or destroy a doll; make us cry; all in the name of getting our attention.

They do these things to annoy us girls, but then looking back, wev'e grown up to think that 's d way boys show their feelings but wen they become men, why does it still continue? ofcourse, on a slightly different way

@ topic

i feel this topic , its annoying like hell . when i get tired of them i end up saying some mean things.

how boys annoy you when trying to befriend you, that's how some guys gets attention anyway

@ phessayour
its the way that some guys good about thats annoying

PHEESAYOUR:

how boys annoy you when trying to befriend you, funny

Wow! you too omogenaija, so not only hot-angel

nope

@ Topic.

This stalking stuff is not only peculiar to the guys. Ladies get to do that too. I suppose the guys that over-stalk ladies and do stupid things like sending poems to ladies thy've never met only prove to be desperate. There's nothing wrong in letting a lady know that you admire 'em and would love to get with her, but guys should be a nuiscance about it.

Ladies stalk too. I have been recieving some mails from some ladies too and they claim they got to know me through Nairaland. Some could be nice and polite about it while some just go about it like illitrates. In conclusion, either one is a guy or a lady, we should learn to read between lines and know if people appreciate, accept and respect us. We shouldn't just keep bothering people.
IMPORTANT!! Guys stalk guys too. They just send emails and want to chat with you by force on IM

If men no look una, una go wan die. If dem look una una go resort to name calling. God deliver us from these Aguo's in Human Skin. me no send women sha.

nyabinghi:

If men no look una, una go wan die. If them look una una go resort to name calling. God deliver us from these Aguo's in Human Skin. me no send women sha.

necroposter.

@poster,
it seems you dont actually know why you pasted your picture everywhere on the internet.
its exactly for boys to stalk you and they will stalk you their own way not your own way.
somehow someone will eventually say what you are expecting.
or do you want them boys to just see you, commend your beauty, rate your picture and move on ?
things doesnt exactly work that way

@ poster you are right but i want to believe some guys just like pressing luck are you aware that some girls fall for such guys.

@poster!! you should be happy that guys are stalking you. what if non are even dreaming of stalking you

nobody is telling us hw 2 go abt it just telling us hw nt 2 go abt it

I had wanted to respond to this differently, but just noticed the post is about 4yrs old. thus I would assume better guys don dey approach the poster, thats if she's still revealing to em she's single, @poster , update us, if u still have dis kinda mindset about guys annoying you on their approach,

any its all good, am new, hi all

Hey i really dont think u understand whats happening.if i guy does all that to you then its obvious u r just a thing for him to flex his typing fingers wit,a play thing!
Dont feel stalked cos he doesnt even value u enough to devote quality time n crack his brain.
Peace girl!

uve listed all of it basically

so naija men are now stalkers abi. how about the women husband snathers right

Wel am nt supprised at al these counts! Bt sometimes u girls make life miserable for guys by d way u act n dress may b to stimulate a specific guy of ur choice bt u get d whole wild assmen competing on u! If u don't really want that, i suggest instead of being upset or responding rudly pls i think an engagement ring can do 95% of d job or better still don't be quick in words.allow them express themselves then use a few polite words to do wat u wish.if u're d type dat publish ur mail n pics on d net then they'll come enough. although u can't get rid of us men even wit engagement ring,stil b good to any man. D world is too small for u to sass any per. U don't knw who u'l meet next n where. Always b social n torolate guys even when dey misbehave. Girls ar never so good hop u knw that? Don't b a snitch. If any man ask u for a lift jst politly say thanks dear! It solves al futher talk. Men ar nt actually looking for wise girls bt for the ones that ar as cheap as:cat calling,lift,shoping,gifts etc. U girl undestand me? Millionjazz

Wel am nt supprised at al these counts! Bt sometimes u girls make life miserable for guys by d way u act n dress may b to stimulate a specific guy of ur choice bt u get d whole wild assmen competing on u! If u don't really want that, i suggest instead of being upset or responding rudly pls i think an engagement ring can do 95% of d job or better still don't be quick in words.allow them express themselves then use a few polite words to do wat u wish.if u're d type dat publish ur mail n pics on d net then they'll come enough. although u can't get rid of us men even wit engagement ring,stil b good to any man. D world is too small for u to sass any per. U don't knw who u'l meet next n where. Always b social n torolate guys even when dey misbehave. Girls ar never so good hop u knw that? Don't b a snitch. If any man ask u for a lift jst politly say thanks dear! It solves al futher talk. Men ar nt actually looking for wise girls bt for the ones that ar as cheap as:cat calling,lift,shoping,gifts etc. U girl undestand me? Millionjazz

If u dont want attention frm guys that see u online, post ur worst pix ( afterall if u already hav a guy or frndz they kno wat u look like . they wont judge u frm ur pix)

Any guy that is stalking a gal is jobless and shuld get a life.

Society generally xpct the guy to make the 1st move so (right move or wrong) guys will always approach u.

A lot of guys that are friends with some gals heard frm their friend hw the gal want the guy to pursue her inorder to prove his true love for her.

Mayb Gals and guys understand the word luv differently. Take it frm me, if a guy says i lov u, he means he likes what he sees; ur face, boobies, behind and all. he might get to love u. but the prob is when u guys get together and he begins to kno more bout u thats when he'll make up his mind wether u are the kind of person he'll wana be with.

Dont read anything to it. Guys are going to approach u. and some guys actually prefer to approach gals they hear are hard to get just for the fun of it


so make una take am easy with the guyz.

hmm

Not a word to reply

Hot angel@ a girl has been stalking me At most time i feel its over b\w us but she still come back and start begging.So what do u want to say to that

I think Seun's been sitting learning HTML and designing webpages lol; what they said happens in Nigeria with much frequency. What I don't really know now is why, but I think a man got to be a man and whatever you girls see of men is God's product. After all you girls are most bitches, you deserve some arrogant attitudes; like one raised a topic why girls love Jerks but the nice man.

Aaargh! What's with all the male bashing? When a guy stalks you,he doesnt see it as such;he simply feels he's being persistent and that you're just playing hard to get(a belief you women create by saying one thing and meaning another). That aside,you're not the only ones who get stalked. Imagine a girl showing up at your house uninvited and unannounced saying she wants to cook for me or wash my stuff or some other pile of crap.

@Poster,
A post has said somethin' u gurls should actually take seriously and that the dressing part.How u dress tells how u'd be addressed.But don't get me wrong,we have some really whacked guys without style,i mean guys who don't know d first thing bout getting aquainted with a gurl,so u probably unfortuantely were meeting such alot! Again,guys hear a whole lot and try to put it into practice.For instance,some gurls will actually fall for lines such as these: "Hi angel,r u lost cos heaven is a long way from here","Hey baby,i love u".lol Ain't dat so lame? The bottom line is this,different strokes for different folks.What u find annoyin',other gurls find appealing.Yet,guys with style know how to approach different kinda gurls.Guys with style know their lines.