A major controversy is currently
threatening the peace of Alagbado, a
suburb of Lagos. A man, Akeem Amodu,
and his wife, Awawu Oluyide, are at
daggers’ drawn over who the true father of their one-month-old baby girl is. The baby was christened on February 17 but the ceremony wasn’t held in Amodu’s house. Before the date, Awawu had packed her belongings and relocated to the home of her boyfriend with her baby.
She claimed her husband was not the
true dad of the baby, insisting that she
had just returned the baby to the
authentic father. But Amodu would have
none of that. He is insisting that the
baby girl is his daughter.
At Fagbenro and Abeokuta streets,
Alagbado, in Alimosho Local Government Area of Lagos, where the couple and their parents reside, the controversy rages on, as many wonder who the biological father of the innocent baby girl is. Trouble started when Amodu discovered that his wife had suddenly abandoned their matrimonial home for her boyfriend’s place. He reported the matter to the police and detectives went with him to the home of the wife’s
boyfriend.
The officers then directed that Awawu
and her baby should relocate to her
parents’ house and remain there. They
said a DNA test would be conducted on
the baby when she’s nine months to
determine her paternity. But Amodu said in direct contravention of the police
directive, Awawu and her baby were
caught on March 1, passing the night in
her boyfriend’s house.
When the reporter met with Awawu
recently, the young woman didn’t deny
being Amodu’s wife but she maintained
that her baby’s real father was her
boyfriend. She said: “He is just a thief,
who wants to claim what is not his. I was
once his wife and in 2010, I gave birth to a baby for him but the baby later died.
When I was with him, I was always
having problems. He never gave me any rest of mind. That was why I packed out of his house and came to stay with my parents. I stayed with my parents for more than a year. “But he and his
mother were always coming to beg me
in my parents’ house, pleading that I
should reconcile with him.
But during that time, I was already
having a relationship with another man. I later took in for the other man. Amodu
came again and I told him that I was
already pregnant for another man. But
he kept begging me, saying he would
take care of me and the baby and that I
could then give the other man his child.
He said I should come back to him so
that I could give him his own child too.
“So, I went back to him. By that time,
the man that got me pregnant was not in Lagos. But when he eventually came
back, I told Amodu that the man, who
owned the pregnancy had returned and
wanted to have his baby.
Amodu then asked for a refund of the
money he had given me for buying the
baby’s things and we got it for him. “But
after getting the refund, he came back
with policemen a couple of days ago to
harass me, claiming that the child is his.”
But Amodu insisted he’s the father of
the baby girl. His words: “Yes, Awawu
once had a baby for me but the baby
died after some time. After the death of
the baby, we had a quarrel and she
moved to her parents’ house. But after
some time, she started coming to see
my mother, begging her to talk to me so I could take her back.
When my mother asked me to settle
with her, I warned my mother that
Awawu was a troublesome woman but
my mother begged me and I settled with her. She started coming to my place but she didn’t move in with me.” “After sometime, she told me that she had taken in for me. She never told me
another man was responsible for her
pregnancy. It was in May last year that
she told me she had taken in for me.
And I told my mother about it. By July
last year, my mother took her to a doctor for pregnancy tests and it was confirmed that she was already two months pregnant.
During that time, I was always buying
things for her at her parents’ place.
Almost everybody knows me in her
family house. We had even done some of the traditional wedding rites. “My
mother is dead now. But before her
death, Awawu once told my mother and I about a man she said was giving her
ante-natal care, so we went to see the
man to thank him. She also told me of a
church where she said she would be
attending for the safety of the baby but I refused. I chose a hospital for her instead.
She never told me I wasn’t responsible
for the pregnancy all that time. There
was even a time she met with a lady in
my place. She fought seriously with the
lady, accusing her of wanting to snatch
her husband. “When the pregnancy was
about eight months, she collected
N50,000 from me to buy the necessary
baby’s things but at some point, I began
to smell a rat. The first two times she
had a scan, she used my surname for the baby. But on the third occasion, she
used her name only. And the delivery
was almost due. When I asked her why
she did that, she said she forgot. I
wondered how she could have forgotten
such an important thing.
“One day, I sent money to her as usual
but she refused the money. And when I
asked her why she did that, she said she didn’t need anything from me any
longer. That was when she said I wasn’t
the father of the baby. That was about
the time she would give birth.
Meanwhile, I had already prepared for
the christening of the baby. I already
bought many things to do the naming
ceremony. That was when she refunded
the money I had given her for the baby’s things. She then moved to the house of the man she said was responsible for her pregnancy.
She delivered the baby there and the
baby was christened there. “But I am
sure I’m the father of the baby. That is
why I want everyone to know this. The
police told us to wait till the baby is nine
months old before we go for the DNA but I am worried because she and the baby are with the other man. And if she and the man are sleeping together, the DNA might show the man as the father of the baby. “That is why I want this matter resolved now. I am convinced that the baby is mine and I want my baby.
When we brought the police into the
matter, they ordered that she and the
baby should remain with her parents
until the DNA test was conducted and
the authentic father known. But on
March 1, she took the baby to the other
man’s house and passed the night there.
She has been doing that in defiance to
the instruction given by the police.”
LINK:
www.sunnewsonline.com/new/cover/my-boyfriend-is-the-father-of-our-baby/

One thin i dislike about women is not d fact they cheat alot but d fact that they do it in a very wrong time... Men will sleep around b4 marriage and face their wife after marriage but d reverse is d case for women provided that they are always @ d receiving end... Dat is so bad bad ladies. In as much as i pity d innocent baby, men we need to wise up to avoid living with bastards...

Dt woman is shameless and stupid.

Ignorance is a disease whose only remedy is education. how can DNA change?

well, seems the guy's story looks detailed compared to that of the lady. When a boy realizes the benefits of being a man, he is transfigured. Too many ignorant boys forming men nowadays.

agb2011: Dt woman is shameless and stupid.

shameless is an understatement, over-shamelessness (if there's any word like that),uneducated she-goat, she-sheep, ode + mutula

Height of foolishness, shamelessness, stupidity, dirtiness & waywardness, how can she open her dirty, filthy, stinking, greasy a$$ for another man when she's not divorced? Looking for silly excuses to cover up her shameful act, such s huge shame.

chucky234: The
police told us to wait till the baby is nine
months old before we go for the DNA but I am worried because she and the baby are with the other man. And if she and the man are sleeping together, the DNA might show the man as the father of the baby. “That is why I want this matter resolved now. I am convinced that the baby is mine and I want my baby.

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LINK:
www.sunnewsonline.com/new/cover/my-boyfriend-is-the-father-of-our-baby/

How's is that even possible? A baby that's already been born, how will the mother sleeping with another man change her DNA? But the woman strong sha oo

Only a woman knows the real father of her baby. Men can make mouth, but woman are sure heartless people when it comes in terms of the real father of their children. Some one can be having a man who will be responsible for her pregnancy and be bring the baby for her real husband to take care of, but deep down, they conceal the authenticity of the real father to their heart.

Only a woman know the real father of her baby. Men can make mouth, but woman are sure heartless people when it comes in terms of the real father of their children. Some one can be having a man who will be responsible for her pregnancy and be bring the baby for her real husband to take care of, but deep down, they conceal the authenticity of the real father to their heart. f you want to live long as a man, be careful of woman and money.