baby_123: Yea, that is not a good sign and should be stamped out of her. Any agbaya can promise her money and take advantage of her. Try to teach her that money is important, but being content with what you have is better. If you tell her you dont have, then you dont have! Also find out what exactly she needs the money for so badly. Tell her mum too about what you have noticed and the possible dangers of such a behavior.

jeffizy:
unfortunately, the mum is the aggressive kind. She sees every correction as an indictment. She can hold a grudge against you for days if u do as much as snatch a dangerous item from her 2-yr old baby.

jeffizy: @slimyem... The only negative vibe i see around her is when the mum sits in different cars to talk for hours in front of their house.
The dad comes once in a while and STILL PAYS their school fees!
Lately niece wants #50-#100 rather than the previous #5-#10. SMH.

dayokanu: With the whole setup the best thing is to move her away from that environment

The kids can not amount to anything good when they see their mom with different men everyday.

Do you think a 10yr old girl doesnt know that random strangers are taking turns fuuckingg her mom?

Probably her mates are already using it to insult her. "Iya ndagbe, baba nyowa"

Soon those 13-15yr old boys in the area looking for their first sexuall experience would start giving her money in exchange for "you know what"

One of the dangers of a single mom raising a child especially one who is perverse

baby_123:

She has probably seen and heard her mum use all sorts of ways to get money from men. She will grow up to understand that money is more important than her body. And she will sell it very soon. Its a pity that such a woman has all girls. SMH. See when people are looking for children, these people that can destroy children are having multiple.

slimyem: Stop giving her anything!!Let her cry if she likes.
Her mum's ways are planting unfavourable seeds in her.Don't water it.
Its a pity she's growing up into the kind of woman who'd expect men to be responsible for her every need and who would hesitate to ask anyone seemingly friendly for money.
Bad grooming!!

jeffizy: @dayokanu...well said man. But the gist is that their mum is my sister-in-law. We dont gel much since she has tried few times to lead my wife ( her junior sis ) astray during our courtship years.

jeffizy: I just remembered my wife once told me that my sis-inlaw sends her daughters to their dad to make false claims to extort(?) money from their dad!
Could this be the Genesis of the bad habit?

jeffizy: @greatgod2012.... What if i try to get the kid to spend weekends in my place since we stay in same town with her mum?

obowunmi: Like mother, like daughter. Some people need to learn the hard way.

Mother's have enormous influence over their children and you can't change that.

jeffizy: .

Brand_new: @OP do you mean your brothers wife is a coogar?

jeffizy:
It is my sister-in-law.

Brand_new:
Is your brothers wife not your sister-in-law ? I'm confused o!