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How To Flirt And Why by Akue4babes(m): 4:58am On Mar 28, 2008
I want to talk about the concept of "flirting", and why
it's SO important that you understand exactly what it is and
how to do it with women.
To begin with, women know what flirting is, and they
respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they
do to typical social communication.
If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can
begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY
feeling ATTRACTION for you.

If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension
work, then you're either going to have to become famous or
make a LOT of money to be successful with women.
I'm going to suggest that you learn how to flirt well,
then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your interactions with
women to SET THE RIGHT TONE.
Think of flirting like playing.
Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight"
with your friends?
What's the difference between "play" wrestling and "real"
wrestling?
And how do you know the difference when it's happening,
when your friend runs up and pushes you down, then jumps on
you and tries to pin you?
The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to humans (and
other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and when
they're serious.

Flirting is similar.
If you start talking to a woman and say "Hi, you're very
pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal
tone of voice, you're NOT flirting.
On the other hand, if you say "Hi, I realize that you're
probably shy because you get no attention from men, so I
thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you, " it's
OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is flirting.
By the way, flirting IS NOT simply telling jokes, or
trying to be "cute".
One of the concepts that I teach is called "Cocky & Funny."
Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful, concentrated way of
flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of
humor.
It's so funny to me how some guys write in because they
"can't see themselves being Cocky & Funny around women"
because they don't want to come across as jerks.
This really cracks me up, because it's obvious to me
that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.

(To be continued, )

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