Most women now a days are afraid of employing house girl because of their husband picking interest and even sleeping with them. Same goes with house boy in case of the woman. In your own experience please which one will you prefer to employ to work with you at home?

If people are so worried about it, scrub them pots and pans yourself then, problem solved. just kidding folks

Ok ok, seriously though, i don't even know sha, are we talking as if we have kids? If so, if the majority of my children are girls then no houseboy, vice versa. If we're talking in the case of just husband and wife, no kids, then i guess I would employ a houseboy as there is a very small chance of my husband getting it on with him unless he turns out to be gay, God forbid

As for me, houseboy ke? I will not stoop so low as to cheat on my husband with someone i employed *clicks fingers* lai lai

Houseboy definitely. . .I get to pick and choose. Let me be the one to sneak out of the bedroom for a change. Men have been enjoying this for too long. Women's lib!

Give me a Ramsey Noah of a houseboy anyday!

Why does it have to be a boy or a girl? Why can't be an old cleaning madam who has kids of her own?

Seun:

Why does it have to be a boy or a girl? Why can't be an old cleaning madam who has kids of her own?

Those ones are even worse than the girl or boy loooooooool

No they are not. If you don't trust your husband with an old lady, you shouldn't be married. She doesn't have to live with you; she can work during the day and go home around 5pm after setting things in order.

Seun:

No they are not. If you don't trust your husband with an old lady,you shouldn't be married.

Hah! Don't be so sure, there is no age limit for adultery, whether you are young and smooth or old and ancient to the core, men cheat women cheat.

And just because somebody does not trust their husband with an old lady does not mean they should not be married, if he has caused you to have concern for his actions with women then so be it, he may not have always been like that so how is the woman to have known?

Well enough experiement to make one not trust any house boy or house girl.Some are into witch craft others sleep with their ogas. If you ask me the best is to do get a very young house girl age 16 and below.

quadrant4:

Well enough experiement to make one not trust any house boy or house girl.Some are into witch craft others sleep with their ogas. If you ask me the best is to do get a very young house girl age 16 and below.

Hehehe, don't you think that if they are they are that young, the 'oga' is more likely to take advantage of them?

Don't mind these people o. It's obvious that men very much prefer to have sex with young women.

ibkaye:

Hehehe, don't you think that if they are they are that young, the 'oga' is more likely to take advantage of them?

More importantly, the girl grows older and "opens eye" and starts stealing madams stuff because she thinks she is on the same level as madam.

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We had a cleaning lady while growing up, she came in everyday did cleaning and laundry and went shopping (whenever my mum was too busy to get it done). My mum did all the cooking over the weekend and we were encouraged to learn to make simple stuff for ourselves.
I think I'll be sticking to that idea, I'd much rather cook for my husband myself  

As for the sex issue, my solution is to give ur man so much of it, he'd be too tired to go looking for it elsewhere

Seun:

Don't mind these people o. It's obvious that men very much prefer to have sex with young women.

Yes of course, but if the 'young' woman is not available, why not settle for the 'wrinklies' there is one particular hole thing the man is looking for and if you got it, you got it

HR.hotness:

More importantly, the girl grows older and "opens eye" and starts stealing madams stuff because she thinks she is on the same level as madam.

Lol very true and then madam will come will cane!

If it must be a live in househelp, then i suggest they go and get a relative of the man, _{that way you hang a bone around his neck} unless he is fool enough to sleep with his relative.

Frando29:

If it must be a live in househelp, then i suggest they go and get a relative of the man, _{that way you hang a bone around his neck} unless he is fool enough to sleep with his relative.

lol yes because that would be straight up incest!

preferably none do all d work myself if am 2 busy drop dem in a daycare if i den get three busy off 2 boarding skool they go its beta dan wat u don't know or preferably my parents house there must be somewhere and someplace

But women can not do all house work alone especially career women with children how will they cope? What about the madam whose husband is hardly at home and she has a house boy alone with her in the house, i guess that is equally dangerious.

None

Left to me? None!!!

i go with none, maybe occasional cleaning company come in and do a thorough cleaning. but apart from that don't really wanna do the houseboy/girl stuff.

As for me i'll prefer beautiful ,light skinned house girl with a heavy front and back side. She must however be neat and matured. Above 18 is necessary.