Getting our needs met in our romantic relationship is not as difficult as we might think. it's as simple as becoming aware of three crucial factors: one,men and women are different and what we want from our partners isnt necessarily what they want from us. Two,men and women have different ways of communicating and we have to tailor how we express ourselves to suit these differences. Three,it all comes down to the right choice of partner,we can understand the difference between the sexes and express our needs and feelings in a way that they can hear us,but if our partnee is incapable of being loving,responsive and respective it's moot.

WHAT MEN WANT;
They want to feel useful,and appreciated for what they have to offer a woman.They want to give her things and to solve problems successfully.They need the woman they're with to make them feel good about themselves;they want to be desired as a man and respected for their accomplishments whether at home or in the world.
Men dont want to feel shamed or belittled. A woman who makes a man feel small doesnt realize what a cardinal sin she's committing. Men also hate to feel controlled,they want to feel like they've come to a decision on their own. They despise being nagged and will tune a woman out if they feel that she's continually harping on a subject.

WHAT WOMEN WANT;
WOMEN on the other hand,want to be listened to and understand. It's important that the man tried to make them happy. He should be interested in and sensitive to her needs and feelings. He should make her feel beautiful and desirable,as well as intelligent and competent. She should get the sense that he feels lucky to have found her.
Women dont like to feel insecure.They want to know that their man is committed to them.They dont like it when men too obviously check out other women or when they are overly flirtatious.This is humiliating to them.If a man tells them that they are neurotic because they dont like it when men are spending a lot of time looking at or talking to other women,this infuriates them,whatever the man's intentions are,they experience this behaviour as disrespectful.

See, OP, u dnt knw wot anybody wants.
So, shut your fucck up!!!

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SLIDE waxie: See, OP, u dnt knw wot anybody wants.
So, shut your fucck up!!!

dont think i specified individual want here....y getting mad here