A student asks a teacher, "What is
LOVE?"
The teacher said, "in order to
answer your question, go to the
wheat field and choose the
biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go
through them only once and
cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go
thru first row, he saw one big
wheat, but he wonders....may be
there is a bigger one later. Then
he saw another bigger one. But
may be there is an even bigger
one waiting for him. Later, when
he finished more than half of the
wheat field, he start to realize that
the wheat is not as big as the
previous one he saw, he know he
has missed the biggest one, and
he regretted. So, he ended up
went back to the teacher with
empty hand.
The teacher told him, "...this is
Love... You keep looking for a
better one, but when later you
realize, you have already miss the
person...."
"What is marriage then?" the
student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to
answer your question, go to the
corn field and choose the biggest
corn and come back. But the rule
is: you can go through them only
once and cannot turn back to
pick."
The student went to the corn
field, this time he is careful not to
repeat the previous mistake,
when he reach the middle of the
field, he has picked one medium
corn that he feel satisfy, and come
back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "This time
you bring back a corn.... You look
for one that is just nice, and you
have faith and believe this is the
best one you get.... This is
marriage."
What Do You Think?

A fact. But grace is available to help lessen d mistake i would have made.