I really need some advice. There is guy in my office who has been hitting on me for close to a year now. I always refuse his advances for a relationship cos I feel he is a player.

I have caught him on several occassions, staring at the legs and butt of other female colleagues. Although I do like him but I feel he is just lusting after me. Should I give him a chance or what do think? Please advise

You like him, what are you then waiting for?
For an anonymous poster's approval?
Live a little babe!

you wont go out with him but get confused when you "catch" him looking at other women.

1. he is not your man so you can't catch him doing anything you only see him
2. he might just be lusting after you. if so, and? if you are cute it is only natural for dudes to lust after you
3. never shit on the plate you eat with. If he is already checking other women out, chances are this might end badly and since you both work together.... you can fill in the blank

C'mon Rose I already told u countless times "I am not a player, I own the club"
So you caught me starring?! Its not what you think - Ngozi's high-heel shoes kept making that "koi-koi" noise that I couldn't concentrate on my work, besides her steps were so unsteady that I feared she might fall thats why my eyes "kept following" her legs. As for Jennifer, I was only starring at her butt cos the zip at the back of her skirt had worn out, besides I wanted to confirm (i overhead her bragging that she wears only designer undies)

I admit and confess to starring at your a.$.$ only twice. The first was a furtive glance,the second was a true test of our compatibility (didnt you notice that my hand was on my chest? I was trying to test if the the rate and rythm at which you wiggled your a.$.$ was the same as that of my heartbeat).

So after toasting you for close to a year,you feel NL has a more reasonable answer when they dont even know me in person?!

For the last time,give me a favorable reply

Roses4u: I really need some advice. There is guy in my office who has been hitting on me for close to a year now. I always refuse his advances for a relationship cos I feel he is a player.

I have caught him on several occassions, staring at the legs and butt of other female colleagues. Although I do like him but I feel he is just lusting after me. Should I give him a chance or what do think? Please advise

You're waiting for a man that will not look at the legs and butts of other ladies, ehn? Alright wait for me!!!

On a serious note, if you like him as you say --- no as you do, why not give him a chance and see how it develops! Every man looks at women.

Run away

^^why?'

He is danger

^^ How?

mondi_cheeks: He is danger

hasty generalization....women and the way they interpret things.... since you like him already why not give it a shot....men initially fall for the container its the content that hooks them up


though dating a co worker has its pros n cons

starlight®®:

though dating a co worker has its pros n cons

potential danger

mondi_cheeks: potential danger

yeah....so if the relationship should go bad she will suffer for it

Workplace romance is already a no no and if you feel he is a player, he probably is. Move on

Mynd_44: Workplace romance is already a no no and if you feel he is a player, he probably is. Move on

thank u

mondi_cheeks: thank u

You are welcome

Looking at ladies' legs and all those are indicating a red light of warning already but much more than that, u dint mention some other details. D question is 'is he interested in me?' Does he call you a lot, does he always wanna be with you. Those are signs that indicate if a guy is into u or not. No guy dt has u always on his mind will be too busy to want to be with u. But my advise to u will be 'follow ur gut' cos if you think he is a player, chances are -he is!!!

Roses4u: I really need some advice. There is guy in my office who has been hitting on me for close to a year now. I always refuse his advances for a relationship cos I feel he is a player.

I have caught him on several occassions, staring at the legs and butt of other female colleagues. Although I do like him but I feel he is just lusting after me. Should I give him a chance or what do think? Please advise

shine your eye o! this may be of help... http://realdeeplove.com/2012/12/signs-he-really-loves-you/#.Ub8621E3irw

Run!

Yield: Run!

Is the mountain on fire?

Go for him before another girl would take that advantage and you'll be like "had I known".
There is no crime in trying ur luck. If u must get a good shoe, u test first. Afterall, u are not a virgin

Exactly what i did!! **i ran**
buh, if you really do like him, give it a trial!!

Yield: Run!

y run hahahqwaah

Smartie gurl: Exactly what i did!! **i ran**
buh, if you really do like him, give it a trial!!

What trial? A lot of organisations are actually against it and she might get fired

The fact that you are still asking for advise shows that you are extremely confused. You have enough doubts in your mind and you want us to tell you that it's okay(if not, I see no reason for this thread).

Mynd_44:
What trial? A lot of organisations are actually against it and she might get fired

lol! Lets hear from her then.....OP is ur company against dating a coleague?

Never mix romance with work, trust me.

Smartie gurl: lol! Lets hear from her then.....OP is ur company against dating a coleague?

She no go answer the question na. You know as e dey be na

pc guru: Never mix romance with work, trust me.

Loff won't make her listen

Mynd_44:
Loff won't make her listen

very soon we will get a post about how all men are like Dogs or I hate all men, sometimes I prefer to advice a wall than a girl especially in terms of relationship, because with the wall, I know I'm wasting my time.

u b small pikin Ehm? Are u a teenager?? Advise u for wetin? Ashawo! Ur mates are housewives. Dey there dey find who serious. Idiort

Give Him a Chance,lets see if He can Handle your preferences If not Bounce !!!

op, for over a year that guy is yet to exhaust his reservoir of 'patience' and I say that very impressive.
Allow him into the forbidden territory and gauge his reactions afterward. It seems other ladies in the office have cooeperated and you ideally forming james bond. He might have committed a wager on his chances with co-workers and here you denying him both reward!