I have always maintained that the way a lady Carries herself det how she'll be addressed n who she'll attract. The perception of guys these days of Naija girls determine t a large extent how they'll b treated. If u don't demand respect, carry urself wit assurance n respect n maintain ur dignity as women then u have no right t cry foul wen guys treat u otherwise based on Wat they perceive.
Keri Hilson captures my feelings exactly..
"I often wonder if more girls were willing to be ladies, more guys would feel challenged to be gentlemen.Ladies don’t get it twisted. It DOES start with YOU!! Unfortunately, every man doesn’t possess some standard high amount of respect for every woman they encounter…just as every woman doesn’t exude the same amount of confidence, class, or self respect. This is not a perfect world, where men treat “hoes” with the same respect they give “ladies” just because their mother taught them well.Bottom line is, a man will treat you according to the “messages” YOU put out there. That’s the way of the world…reality. If you exude sex, you will attract men who want that from you. If you exude self respect, you will attract the type of men who respect women. In this world, you attract what you exude. Ladies, WE set the tone!! NEVER forget that!! We have the power to change our experiences with men.”
PS; this is not a female bashing thread, so..

Hmmmm. Nice.

hmmm..thanks

**yawns**
It is still raining?
**back to bed**