I don't think there is anything wrong with that,if they have to put up together in the same bed.

My uncle use to tell me #na only people way things no dey move well they complain abt winch buh dey dnt knw they caused it by there sef

Nawa o! Nigerians with their mentality of always tryna create a mountain out of every mole-hill... Is it not ur mum? If it were to be ur dad nw i wud have said we should call 911.
I think its ur mindset dat nids to be delivered frm d shackles of some self imposed spiritual cob-webs.

spongeback: Couple of years ago I was sleeping with my mom and she woke me up guess what I was talking about sex in my dreams and she heard everything! Since then I can't even take a nap be it afternoon or night close to my mom.

Are u a p*rn star?

abujalapdog: Can any shade more light if it is morally right or there is any spiritual implications for a 29yr old graduate to sleep the same bed with her mum till date? I have seen that this thing affect her relationship with her boy friend alot because she hardly tolerate men around her. Can anyone contribute anything they feel might be helpful?

You've not provided enough information and the tone of the post feels 'one kind'to me. First of all find out why she's sharing; due to lack?, etc. And more importantly I prefer she shares a bed with her mum than her boyfriend. It in no way affects her future relationship except with a guy looking for free sex.

I once traveled with my mum for an occasion and we arrived the town late so I lost one of two hotel reservations. I had to bed up with my mum that night. It was strange because I had to trim my excesses like leaving the TV on all night but it was okay, but again for just one night. Depends on the circumstances.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.I dey suspect am since, L**bo finz...

Does it mean they are short of beds or rooms or what?

olumaxi: Yeah,somtin is wrong..they wake each-other up to attend meetins

I know many people wont get it. but I just ROTF in EPIC lafta reading this comment... Thanks, you made my day

But most times every bedroom that has a bed has a floor. Am seriously thinking. Dats all

ab.Y:
anyone who wants to date such a lady must also be ready to marry her mum with her.

This is the truth!!! some people just dont read meanings into people's behaviour. your character cant lie. such gals are the type that keep saying "mum said this", "mum said that". Like I can remember a friend of mine who got married and anytime his mother-inlaw came visiting . The wife will not spend the night in their bedroom. she'll just keep gisting with her mum till she sleeps off there. The girl was just annoying, whenever they have misunderstanding, she'll start calling her mum, and the E-diotic mother would call the young man to warn him. Last year the woman died, and just last week, the wife came crying to my house, she said she caught her husband getting 'freaky' with a female colleague. I called my guy to find out why; He said the wife has denied him s3x since her mum died, which was Last year. Apparently, she's still mourning her mum . Me sef just vex, I was so angry, I wanted to go out to the store and get my guy more packets of con.doms. All that over attachment to friends, family, or enemies is never good for marriage. But to Mr OP, I'll say, there might be no spiritual problem, but she might have serious psychological problems.

Ijawboi: Is that slut tonto sharing a bed with her mom??

i wish there was an "unlike" option for this. wetin concern tonto concern this topic. some job-ful people go just dey find every avenue to hate.

jasper7:
I know many people wont get it. but I just ROTF in EPIC lafta reading this comment... Thanks, you made my day

I bet both of you are from calabar.Okon and ekeita.I know you guys love the concept of witchcraft so much.

redsun:

I bet both of you are from calabar.Okon and ekeita.I know you guys love the concept of witchcraft so much.

Yeah right, bring out the tribal drum. and beat it hard. I dont know if Maxi is from calabar, but if he is. He's one funny dude. I even wish i was from there

jasper7:
Yeah right, bring out the tribal drum. and beat it hard. I dont know if Maxi is from calabar, but if he is. He's one funny dude. I even wish i was from there

There is nothing tribal about it.It just that all the horror stories i hear about 21st century witch hunting in nigeria seems to emanate from that region.

Terrible to know that people still fall victim of ignorant beliefs like that in this web and jet age.

redsun:

There is nothing tribal about it.It just that all the horror stories i hear about 21st century witch hunting in nigeria seems to emanate from that region.

Terrible to know that people still fall victim of ignorant beliefs like that in this web and jet age.

Well, they believe it and no amount of web or Jet can change it. It's their culture and their tradition, maybe if you grew up in calabar, you'll understand. Spent some time there, about 15years or so. I know witches exist but I dont have the bloody time to think or worry about it. Every City has their tradition, I still see goat head with oil and biscuits in T-junctions in Lagos, I still see roasted human bodies in port harcourt, aba, Onitsha. I still see men on white gowns speaking and facing the sun in Abuja and I still see witches being flogged with palm fronds at the streets of calabar, Eket and uyo. It still doesn't stop the world from rotating and as bizarre as the whole idea of what these people do, It's still their tradition.

pls guys help me,what is the implication if someone is having persistent recurring urge with no means of suppressing it

Maybe the OP is not telling us something.

Why do we black people reflect our still primitive nature ever so often by reverting to unverifiable superstitions and BELIEFS
Do we not know of psychology, psychiatry and other behavourial studies that can ADEQUATELY explain most of the phenomenon that we are quick to attribute to "spiritual implication"

Let us not forget that Europe was just as hooked on superstitious witchcraft stories until the Age of Enlightenement/ Age of Reason that was fueled by the printing and increased availability of the Bible for ORDINARY people to read and come to their own understanding which allowed greater reflection and evolution in the natural sciences and other areas of education and human endeavour. Prior to that the priests held sway and gave whatever interpretation would help them continue their strangle hold on the conscience of the people with poverty so widespread in the midst of crass feudalism.

We need to start our own evolution as black people rather than stay stuck in these practices and beliefs that hinder our growth!

# I REMEMBER THE TIME THAT HELL WAS MY HOME AND ME AND MAMA BED WAS A BIG PIECE OF FOAM # APOLOGIES TO ALICIA KEYS, WELL ,
MAYBE THEY DONT HAVE ENOUGH BEDS IN THEIR HOUSE, SEE WHAT POVERTY CAN CAUSE........................ LOL,

spongeback: Couple of years ago I was sleeping with my mom and she woke me up guess what I was talking about sex in my dreams and she heard everything! Since then I can't even take a nap be it afternoon or night close to my mom.

lol gues that was a sign that u must get ur own room per say

..dia re some kind f issues dt as a matured human being,u cn sit down n reason it if its right or wrong...29,stil slipin on dsame bed with ur mum? N u askin 4 opinions...even havin issues with ur boi frnd n u wnt opinions...when u re 35 n no hubby,u eye go clear..
Cum to tink f it,at 29,wt re u still doin in ur parents house?

If you are a woman it is okay to sleep with your mum but if you are a man, hell no!

their is noting wrong with it, the op forgot to tell us the age of the mother. what if the mother age is 90 yrs old ?

olumaxi: Yeah,somtin is wrong..they wake each-other up to attend meetins

lol

I think the problem is how many rooms are there in this house hold?
where is the father of this girl that she has to sleep in that same bed instead of her father?
Is the father dead?
did she really graduate from a university and how did she live in the university?
Does she really understand the meaning been comfortable while sleeping?
Is she the only child?
Is she the last child of that family?
If she is not the last child of the family where is the last child then?
The answer to this question might mean there is a good reason for that or it is just poverty.
Maybe the family is still living in stone age while we are in 21 century.
No offense, just asking

Sleekbaby: There is notin wrong wit it @all, she shld chk herslf

abi now, who knows if something is already going wrong

spongeback: Couple of years ago I was sleeping with my mom and she woke me up guess what I was talking about sex in my dreams and she heard everything! Since then I can't even take a nap be it afternoon or night close to my mom.

You have an attractive signature!

@op are they financially ok If they aren't it nothin to worry about but if they own a building or live in a large apartment... It sometin to worry about.

Notin wrong with dat,she should check her personality status and try to correct certain areas of her life if need be.

spongeback: Couple of years ago I was sleeping with my mom and she woke me up guess what I was talking about sex in my dreams and she heard everything! Since then I can't even take a nap be it afternoon or night close to my mom.

Pls what sound track were u playing

This is the reason why Poverty is not good.

Secondly, either the mother is a witch or she herself is a lesbian This is the reason why Poverty is not good.

Secondly, either the mother is a witch or she herself is a lesbian

spongeback: Couple of years ago I was sleeping with my mom and she woke me up guess what I was talking about sex in my dreams and she heard everything! Since then I can't even take a nap be it afternoon or night close to my mom.

Your mom no try. She was supposed to slap the living daylight out of you. No respect at all >: