why do guys and girls get upset when they find out a sb they like is in a relationship and they are already in love with the ps?what would you do if it were you and what goes through your mind?note:the girl or guy also loves you.ps air your views if it has happened to you

yea,it has happened to me years back though,a very bitter experience sha,but i won at d end,and ofcourse u r not supposed to happy if u r sharing d man u love wt someone else naaa abi i talk lie

Seeing your topic, I am reminded of this song, Click on link to listen Can't Be With You Tonight


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfrF-BWgXj4

If my love wasn’t here with me tonight
I would leave with you for just a little while
But I love him the same way as I love you now
And I’m sorry I can’t be with you tonight

Though I want to hold you in my arms tonight
I wouldn’t take the chance ‘cause it won’t be right
Maybe when we meet again some other time
‘Cause tonight I’ll only share my love with him

So please understand my situation
I love you, but I cannot be with you
If I could be in two places at the same time
Believe me, I would share my love with you

So please understand my situation
I love you, but I cannot be with you
If I could be in two places at the same time
Believe me, I would share my love with you

Believe me, I would share my love with you
Believe me, I would share my love with you
Believe me, I would share my love with you

cayon,the lyrics capture all i feel and more.it once happened to a friend of mine who loved a guy that was in a long-term relationship with another girl.the guy loved her but was not willing to leave his girlfriend.i told her to dump his ass quick,never thought it wud happen to me.will talk about mine later.

uhm

naje
you no fit talk again?

saucekid:

naje
you no fit talk again?

I tire ooooooo. . . . . . . . . . the monotony of some threads . . . . . . . . .

Smtyms it gets really complicated cz you find out that though you love the one who you'r not wv so much to want to be wv her, you can't bear to leave the one who you'r with-cz you don't want to break a heart (cz he/she doesnt deserve to be heartbroken, especially when you'v made him/her fall in love). It hurts especially when the one who you are not with appears to love you the more, show more committment and submission, buy you more gifts, show you more respect, pays you more attention. The key word is "more" and all you can hope for most tyms is that the one you are wv, grows to be just like her. The hurt can only be pacified if that happens but if it doesnt, it gets really bad especially when u can't bear to break his/her heart even when you are not happy wv d way you'r bein treated.

Its a commo experience that cld stem from experiencing ones parents' settlin for less, I mean experiencing your mum/dad being taken for granted by the ova party yet accptin the situation as it is. Gs I'd hv to come to this thread again

Nice topic for discusion

Cayon:

Seeing your topic, I am reminded of this song, check out the lyrics and then listen to it Can't Be With You Tonight


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfrF-BWgXj4

If my love wasn’t here with me tonight
I would leave with you for just a little while
But I love him the same way as I love you now
And I’m sorry I can’t be with you tonight

Though I want to hold you in my arms tonight
I wouldn’t take the chance ‘cause it won’t be right
Maybe when we meet again some other time
‘Cause tonight I’ll only share my love with him

So please understand my situation
I love you, but I cannot be with you
If I could be in two places at the same time
Believe me, I would share my love with you

So please understand my situation
I love you, but I cannot be with you
If I could be in two places at the same time
Believe me, I would share my love with you

Believe me, I would share my love with you
Believe me, I would share my love with you
Believe me, I would share my love with you

Blud, tht was touching. It basically says it all. Dnt just read the lyrics, click on the link as well,
It has to be my most favorite song for now.

monotony reduces the fun

saucekid:

monotony reduces the fun

please it is a romance link,go to technology if u are bored.besides,this post means a lot to me and i want to know people have felt the same way.ps stay away if u are bored

you cant make me
make the story lively. . . . .
if its a heartbreak you're crying on. . . . .i guess you should have a rethink

off u go @saucekid

@maja-maja,

Why don't you tell us, it happened to you.

tngtech:

@maja-maja,

Why don't you tell us, it happened to you.

yes it did happen to me.

My Philosophy is never ever settle for anything less than what you want or what u can live with becos u'll hav a life time of regret
If you hav been in a relationship where u are not 100% content, where u keep wondering what might have been and what else is out there,
then get out quick,,, because sooner or later someone will come along and you'll be put a situation where u will either dissappoint ur partner or be miserable becos u cant be with the one u really want

eeeya
sorry maja-maja

right now i want to know how i can win the other guy back