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Try using lubricants or saliva on the opening of ur vulva before intimacy. It could be that u aren't wet enough or he doesn't take as much time wit pre-intimacy. And he shldnt attempt to thrust in at once he shld do it gradually,shallow penetration.... Semi shallow... Till he is in. Hope av been helpful. Cos answering this is kinda awkward.

Emm op? Sorry I'm not Λ lady but....

Dehm! I feel sorry for your hubby...chai! Hope уσυ guys sort it out well

Am nt a lady buh i av a solution,owk?

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Hi,
Ur condition is called Vagismus. Don't have too many details abt it so u can google it, I jst watched a documentary on and I can tell u that seeing a qualified psychotherapist will do the trick.
good luck

Woodpecker: Hi,
Ur condition is called Vagismus. Don't have too many details abt it so u can google it, I jst watched a documentary on and I can tell u that seeing a qualified psychotherapist will do the trick.
good luck

Phew! The way people just come here and give diagnosis really baffles me a lot. You don't even know nothing about the case and just like that, IT'S VAGISMUS!

op, look at that 1st comment again, go by that! If that doesn't work, see a doctor. Can't imagine what ur hubby is going through now, after how many months of waiting.

i think your hubby should concentrate on more of romance than s3x, you guys should have some hours of hot romance by then you would have been wet and your hymen would have been ready to be bleep. My own Opinion O

Firstimer: I hop i'l get a solution in dis section.
Got maried as a virgin las mth. Bin tryin sex wit my hubby 2 no avail. Its so painful wen he tries 2 thrust.
I cry evrytym n it makes him stop. I see lil stains if blood hopin dat my hymen is broken (4were?).
My hubby is very patient wit me but i no it frustrates him. He refused dat i see a doc. Dat notin is wrong wit me.
Pls nlanders, does it min my vagina is too small/tight or my hymen is too thick.
Rite now am rlly hungry 4him.
Wat do i do?
Pls ladies share ur exp if u wer once in my shoes n how u dealt wit it

you are too old to have sëx - you left it too late!

I would've said something but ur moniker hmmmmmm

I just hope its coincidence

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Firstimer:
wat do u min. Am 24

in the current climate, 24 is too late. the growth has stopped, the skin/tissue has toughened up. you might need a surgery to get it done.

coogar:

in the current climate, 24 is too late. the growth has stopped, the skin/tissue has toughened up. you might need a surgery to get it done.

BE NICE!

coogar:

in the current climate, 24 is too late. the growth has stopped, the skin/tissue has toughened up. you might need a surgery to get it done.

Hmmmm. Makin me more worried. Any natural way?

coogar:

in the current climate, 24 is too late. the growth has stopped, the skin/tissue has toughened up. you might need a surgery to get it done.

Ah Jehovah, so what would a virgin at 27 go for **V1rg1nal Termination** Surgery ko operation ni, nothing wey we no go see on NL

Firstimer:
Hmmmm. Makin me more worried. Any natural way?

He's just pulling your legs. Don't mind him.

coogar:

in the current climate, 24 is too late. the growth has stopped, the skin/tissue has toughened up. you might need a surgery to get it done.

Lie nigga, stop effin with her

sexymoma: i think your hubby should concentrate on more of romance than s3x, you guys should have some hours of hot romance by then you would have been wet and your hymen would have been ready to be bleep. My own Opinion O

Dnt wan2 b raw here. But hubby always fondles my clitt til i cum b4 he starts d thrusting. We wer hopin dat wud mak it expand a lil but 4wrr?

like someone said, you can use humping lubricants it would really help, and after alota thrusting it will definitely get smoother. itz a matter of time.

If you can let your hubby Dig it like Mandingo, it will be painful but after it you'll wonder if there ever was an hymen there

Ruq:
Lie nigga, stop effin with her

why don't you just shut up and mind your damn business?

alutacontinua:
BE NICE!

i couldn't be nicer. there's a difference between the truth, the lie and what you want to hear.

sexymoma: Ah Jehovah, so what would a virgin at 27 go for **V1rg1nal Termination** Surgery ko operation ni, nothing wey we no go see on NL

there are different categories of virgins. what the OP described here is the AAA+ virgin. your 27-year old might have fondled herself but still claiming to be a virgin. she would have it easier than a 24-year-old who had never touched her thingy before!

Firstimer:
Dnt wan2 b raw here. But hubby always fondles my clitt til i cum b4 he starts d thrusting. We wer hopin dat wud mak it expand a lil but 4wrr?

go speak to your doctor....
your husband is no fool exercising patience. you could be psychologically scarred for life and you may never enjoy sex again. stop forcing the issue if the flesh is not yielding!

coogar:

why don't you just shut up and mind your damn business?

alutacontinua:

Phew! The way people just come here and give diagnosis really baffles me a lot. You don't even know nothing about the case and just like that, IT'S VAGISMUS!

op, look at that 1st comment again, go by that! If that doesn't work, see a doctor. Can't imagine what ur hubby is going through now, after how many months of waiting.

I wouldn't give that opinion if I wasn't certain abt it, I've heard and read about several cases like this. Its a fairly common condition and pls note that its nt a disease so its nt like there are drugs she can use. Its jst an involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles pre-intimacy. i'm sure she has tried prolonged fore-play and lubricant before she came here (if she hasn't i'd advice her to do that first) that's why it came to mind so quickly.

Firstimer:
Hmmmm. Makin me more worried. Any natural way?

Don't be too worried jare...
Just do a lot of pre-intimacy: kissing, smooching, caressing and all dat b4 doing d main thing.

As for d pains, its kinda normal so u've got to brace up and pls lead ur hubby in as soon as possible... D guy don try na...

Dis story reminds me of my aunt who cudn't show up for their thanksgiving service cos she cudn't walk after d deed was done

Op ur own no go be like dat u hear... Just go wit d flow.

Woodpecker:
I wouldn't give that opinion if I wasn't certain abt it, I've heard and read about several cases like this. Its a fairly common condition and pls note that its nt a disease so its nt like there are drugs she can use. Its jst an involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles pre-intimacy. i'm sure she has tried prolonged fore-play and lubricant before she came here (if she hasn't i'd advice her to do that first) that's why it came to mind so quickly.

Av googled vaginismus. N am nt in any of d categories.
Hubby refuses dat i c a doctor. He says nofin is wrong wit me, dat i gat 2b strong.
Infact, las nite he got angry n shouted at me buh apologised dis mornin.
Am nt finding dis funny at all. I tot sex is supose 2 b a swt tin. I lubricate wel during pre-intimacy.
Dont undstand anymore

sexymoma: i think your hubby should concentrate on more of romance than s3x, you guys should have some hours of hot romance by then you would have been wet and your hymen would have been ready to be bleep. My own Opinion O

experience is d best teacher

Kosigift:
Don't be too worried jare...
Just do a lot of pre-intimacy: kissing, smooching, caressing and all dat b4 doing d main thing.

As for d pains, its kinda normal so u've got to brace up and pls lead ur hubby in as soon as possible... D guy don try na...

Dis story reminds me of my aunt who cudn't show up for their thanksgiving service cos she cudn't walk after d deed was done

Op ur own no go be like dat u hear... Just go wit d flow.

Whoa! Can it get 2 dat extent? Wud luk lik she was raped.

Thinking about it makes me wince in pain. OP, you have to be determined and so has your hubby. Take a day off, and dedicate a few hours to it. Let go of your mental fears and focus on the pleasure that is to come. Which will not come after a few rounds. Some people have a harder time than others.

Its jst ur mind set. Remove d pains in mind and allow ur husband do it before anoda woman offers dat to him outside. Its normal

Vaginismus is also the first thing that came to my mind on reading your story. Obviously its not a case of inadequate pre-intimacy or lubriction. As you have been advised, you need to see a professional. Your husband should not have an issue with you going to see your gynaecologist for a 'routine checkup'? If he's that adamant about you not seeking help, just go there without telling him and get a professional diagnosis of the issue. At least when its been solved, he'll be the major beneficiary!

Best wishes.

If U go 2d doctor, is there any other way other than the thrusting you think d doctor might suggest? Your man shud stand up to his responsibility. Not man enough to c U cry? U guys beta make use of this wkend, just know it's gonna b a tough one, use the lubricant, and if ur man's P aint strong enough, he can help U out wif candle. Don't fill our heads wif sex problems. If other resources God gave us to enjoy are giving us problem because of men's attitude, don't just include sex...

Firstimer: He refused dat i see a doc.

Lawd have mercy!

op

why you own to,to come dey different from others?

anyway I'd love to help you if you want