Oohrhii: [b][/b]

You have already specified the reason... you girl wants to be famous..u said she is beautiful..in ur words.well beauty could be a blessing as well as a curse. But she is ambitious..ambitious to the level that she is ready to do anything to achieve it..

Come to think of it..why else would it be easy for a lady you claim to love and love you in return to just stop picking your calls..for these kind of people..anything can be sacrificed for ambition..she observed that these people u mentioned are famous..she aspires to be like one..one thing she doesn't know,however,is that if money ritual can make you rich..then you are actually destined to be rich..you were only in a hurry..but she is a lady..they mostly don't think deep.it has always been their characteristic feature...she is probably thinking of fame now.

Anyway..if u love her and truly love her.. Do not scorn her..nor abuse or condemn..try to make her see reason that joining these sect is not a guarantee of success..and that we r only hearing of few our of millions.. Common if it were to be a sure thing..u thing we won't all be part of the sect already...however nothing is sure.

Relax..it's called youthful exuberance she would come around..stop calling..go and see her..explain in a tender manner..be a man..take charge..understand with her..see from her perspective..but be sure to drive home your points..only you can help her.

I hope u understand..

God help u n her.

Manweysabi: ^^^I don't like this your ideology

*Kails*:

alienware: I am a member of the eastern stars. It is like the acient order of druid, far more powerful and secretive than freemason or the illuminati. We are not that popular.

Mrs..Chima:


Get out my mind sis!

DailyNews: you just said it all bro, you are a good counsellor.

But what the girl in question is facing is now a common issue in our society and its courtesy of: over listening/watching of TV n musical videos of today. Reality TV shows, internet gossips and all these beauty pageant and modelling adverts flying here n there.

Right now, I am facing one. This is a close family friend, from a very well to do family, lives in abj, but this young girl, also 23yrs had been pestering me that she wants me to help her find a modelling agent that would help her become a model, that she is ready to pay any amount they ask for so long as they are going to make her an international model.

I told her to stop wishing to be this n that. But she won't listen, and to worsen the whole issue, her cousin won one of the miss this n that pageant and began to waka from city to city, country to country n later on billboards, this girl can't let me rest.

To the extent she even talked abt fleeing home to come to Lagos to find modelling agents, I have tried all my best to stop her and to encourage her to focus on her studies to no avail.

The latest one now is that she just met the current miss Nigeria, and now she is going for the Miss Unity, have tried talking sense into her brains to no avail. She once said that she is ready to do anything to become a top model aside sleeping around, and I jokingly teased her that what abt joining a cult? She said, no wahala na, that is it not people that are joining illuminatti, that have they died?

Honestly, there is big trouble in Nigeria presently. Media and internet exposure are gradually having negative effect on the mindsets of our youths.

Most youths no longer dream or wish to be professors, doctors, engineers, pastors, etc, all they dream to be now is- musician, model, miss this n that, dancer, dj, music vixen, and all those nonsense careers that destroy ppls modest lifestyle. Sighs.

Pls op, take the advice I quoted.

But pls- Beware of over ambitious girl or lady! She is ready to do anything to achieve her ambition.

tchidi: Da! Mbok, make una leave me oº°˚! Illuminati ?! Where she wan see am join? Abeg confirm say no be 'Ogbanje' she de google oº°˚!!

alienware: I am a member of the eastern stars. It is like the acient order of druid, far more powerful and secretive than freemason or the illuminati. We are not that popular.

Idi Amin: @OP, I wonder why a right thinking man as you seem to be would be dating such a girl. You must have been managing her excesses all these while and this is the time to take a hike. I don talk my own finish