Hmmm, while gisting with my friend 2day talks lead to talk and finally ended talking about guys. of course we are adults with many of our friends married.

The part that surprised she said that a guy that doesn't give money voluntarily ( I mean a guy that does not give pocket money @ all) to his girlfriend means the guy is sincerely serious with the relationship, not d type that wants to eat and run.

Mature Minds pls. Babies stay off!

Hmmm *continues sleeping*

i wld personally agree dt it's true.ur g/frnd is as gud as a LovePeddler if money(d givn or nt givn of it)is an issue in a relatnshp.of cos we can both partner 2 wedge financial responsibilities.dsnt mata whose bringn mor or all of d cash.4 instance,i n mi chick hv 2 save moni(2geda)2 go see a movie @ least 1ce evry week bt we tk turns 2 buy d coke n popcorn.wen it's mi turn n i cant afford it,she eida buys(if she has xtra)or we go witout.dt's d way it shld b!

Not entirely, he could be he doesn't care, by the way i never knew girlfriends get pocket-money. mehn the dynamics of dating keeps changing.

Pocket money? so the boyfriend is now a father?

Pocket money? But saying a guy that doesn't give money voluntarily to his girlfriend means the guy is sincerely serious with the relationship. Hmmm... mi I no believe that one abeg. The guy might just be the stingy type, you never can tell. I hope your friend carries such mentality to her husband's house; trust me, it's ladies like her that complains if their spouse refuses to take care of their financial needs.

Some ladies don't like asking guys for money (myself inclusive). So you mean a guy that claims to love you cannot even provide you with money to go change your hair or even your wardrobe, once in a while without u asking? Hmmm... if you ask me, I would say 'odikwa serious'

wetin be pocket money 4rm boyfriend again?
all dis kain tinz just turn my tummy upside down.

Your friend is right to an extent, most girls would want their boyfriend to pay for every single time they spend together. Take it or leave it any guy who dishes out money to his girl on every such ocassion will never take such girl serious. Though it varies.

The worst relationship I ever had was when I gave her an allowance from my pay.
I did not intend to buy her "friendship" but just to help her out since she was dirt-broke then (and still is). She later became more and more demanding for more money and stuff from me. Arguments and fights (which were 99% due to her fault) were settled with more dough. I lost all respect for her afterwards and all feelings and did the appropriate thing.

IvyBlue: Pocket money? so the boyfriend is now a father?

Yes na ! Money for upkeep. Without the girl asking.

Tatian:

Yes na ! Money for upkeep. Without the girl asking.

Lost Generation

pc guru: Not entirely, he could be he doesn't care, by the way i never knew girlfriends get pocket-money. mehn the dynamics of dating keeps changing.

pc guru:
Lost Generation

You I guess! That is why I said babies like you should keep off.

pc guru:
Lost Generation

You I guess! That is why I said babies like you should keep off.

rolling on the floor, you said babies like me and yet you make a post about getting pocket money from a boyfriend, pls your statement is highly ironic, so what am a baby for stating the truth sorry if i don't sheer your "confused" way of thinking. such things elude me am not sure why. I will try to conform next time.

Actually i don't care for your post, i'm just hurt that you would insult all the independent ladies striving hard to make something for themselves, your post highly undermines womanhood. just saying, and I don't mean it in a personal way.

who cares??

kntrovasial mi:
Some ladies don't like asking guys for money (myself inclusive). So you mean a guy that claims to love you cannot even provide you with money to go change your hair or even your wardrobe, once in a while without u asking? Hmmm... if you ask me, I would say 'odikwa serious'

I just fainted

Nigerian Girrrrrrl ahahahaha !!!

Not true.