Story is touchin,talking about luv dat u said is not luv its infatuation.u went further to make charm forgetting dat when d devil gives little will collect much.anyw jst ve to bear is for better for worse

U cant eat your cake and have it
The supposed-marriage was a charade
Free the young man to go

@ poster

i really do not believe in charms

but your story seems true to me! It is so TOUCHING!

confess to your husband

possibility is that he could forgive you and take you back because of your son!

Confess to him before it's too late!

@ Nairalanders,

HAPPY VAL TO YOU ALL!

@ poster

i really do not believe in charms
but is so sad, am sure ur man did not finished his study in uk, cus of what u did, the only solution just ask God forgivness.
his the only that can save u from this evil deed.
u need JESUS in ur life.

so that nonsense actually does work?

agbero niku ngbowo. suke. pru pru pru

Wonders will never end!

What a sicko!!

I am shocked and in awe of the level of moral support and rallying round and prayers being proffered on the OP, instead of castigating her and asking for her head on a plate. I am so proud and thanks for restoring my faith in Nigerians of their desire and readiness to always help when needed. God bless you all and your family and grant you your hearts desires too.

I just hope other girls would learn from this before embarking on such act

prayers will help u out ,the deed has already been done ,God is the only way now if u really want to save ur marriage.

Though you have realised your undoing. you still need to confess your sin to your husband in order for him to forgive you. Go back to God thereafter and seek for mercy. Our god is very merciful and compassionate. He'll forgive you and change your situation. trust in Him.

I pray that God forgives you and delivers you from this. Ladies should always know that it pays to wait on the Lord for whatever they want.

Hope others will learn from this.

My dear u took the wrong decision, but what is nice is that u came out telling nairaland, maybe u should also go and tell a pastor ur problem, and let him pray with, this is not an easy matter it's a spiritual fight, U need God to intervene or else, u might find urself in more problems than this, May God direct ur on how to start up good luck.

TOPIC AND POSTER

Dont worry, another woman will use charm to snatch him from you!

MrCrackles:

TOPIC AND POSTER

Dont worry, another woman will use charm to snatch him from you!

yeah, right

Woman ur marriage is not over there is nothing God can not do, if you have really repented then ask God by faith to restore ur marriage.You should pray 4 that so call ur frind for repentance too so that she wouldn't go about destroying people marriages. I believe God will hear you in Jesus Name Amen

they who go to the devil for help will get the devil`s help. there are lots of lesson to be learnt from this story:
he never loved you and you know it
you forced yourself on him through diabolic means
you went to the wrong person for help
what will be will be
you were never meant for each other.

ADVISE
leave before he does something horrible to you
confess to God alone
pray for forgiveness

my verdict

he may still come back to you

Celestial Prophet who gave me some charms and did so many other things

I hope the man did not bang you, if he does so, your suffering becomes multiple.
Pray that God show u mercy

give me ur native doctor's address charmer

I think You have goten enough answers already. Just go to your Pastor ( A man of God) and confess to free your conscience, He may call your Husband to tell him in your presence and pray for you both. U can now follow it from there trusting God that whatever is the outcome God is still in controll. B couragoeus and face it. GOd will strenghten u. Though its not going to be easy, but u have to face it all the same

Did you ever try asking yourself the reason he left you the way he did to travel to UK?

Did you ever wonder if he wasn't the right one for you and God was trying to prevent you back then from this present future?

I thought so. Most times we humans are so blinded with present problems that we fail to understand if they were just ways of solving future problems.

Pray to God in your closet the Lord shows mercy to whom He will show mercy. How pure/sinless are the people you are/you are to confess to? You shouldn't have gone that far in the first place and since you did, you face the music. Your husband will become a better man if God wants him to and if not, you accept your fate his behaviours might be means of punishment for what you did.

On the other hand, your conscience might be the one flogging you because it is not certain that the charm was genuine or worked. You may just be seeing the true picture of your man. Always allow things take their natural course (a lesson for all).

The guy is heartless and wicked . . you should have let him go the first time!

First clear your conscience; it was not the charm that worked, it was your desperation and persistence that got him. As per his behaviour ; your desperation got you blinded to his bad part before you married him, he had it all along thats why he could travel without telling you. Try all sorts of counselling and if it doesnt work; live with it or leave him.

Only God can help you.You were a big time murderer.cos u wanted a man, u jazzed him,what if he died in d proccess.You were too desperate,sold your future to a prophet,now he's chased you out.
As a mortal i feel like saying continue to reap what u've sown,but there is firgiveness with God dat He might be feared.where do u run to now but to God.Confes to God sincerely and wholeheartedly,pray dat Odiah doesnt get''non-compos-mentis''(mad) or else his blood is upon your head,and let God guide you from there.

[size=14pt]Sorry that u are eating from the pot u & d prophet cooked with. Go to God, confess and beg ur husband to take decision.[/size]

Nah lie --- charm doesn't work

All these MILLS and BOON stories are either for retards or intellectually lazy people. Yeah, people do all kinds of crap (mostly women) to manipulate people to do their bidding.Does it work? No! but the self determination and your mind set does the real job. If all these things work, Nigeria would be among the top 15 countries by now!

Abeg, make person hia word. This is the same thing they say about "bullet proof" voodoo and yet, you see the same users wearing bullet proof vests e.g JTF and Niger Delta militants. Why do dodge for cover and carry weapons? Why do they always end up dead or seriously wounded? Shebi, all of dem dey do juju?

it is really a pity that u allowed yourself to get involved in using charms on a man; charms never last even if they work it is for a while. the guy's dissapearance to the U.K without even giving u a hint should have done it for you and proven to you that he never loved you.

it is also obvious to me that u have still not learnt your lesson as i perceive you will even still be willing to engage in such "charmish ventures" if you see the opportunity. i want you to get it into your system that no man on earth is worth getting into such evil acts to keep; no matter what you have invested in them or gone through because of them or even for them; men will always be men, even if they truly love you, my sister, it still doesnt stop them from cheating on you or having extramarital affairs not to talk less of behaving badly especially when they have some cash.
! The only thing that can keep or guarantee your man is the fear of God and then if he genuinely loves you! this keeps them coming back to you

My advice to you is that you should pray and turn to God; he is the only solution to this problem, in the main time try to show him love whenever he is around, do not draw yourself into arguments with him for whatever reason and be very patient with him. it is still your home unless he actually asks for a divorce or send you away; the fact is that you are married to him for better for worse; be wise about this my sister dont just rush into going to confess to him now' it will worsen your situation, if you need to confess to him; you will know later when you are closer to God and he will not only teach you how to do it he will also present a good opportunity for you to do so and prepare your guys heart in advance

please u just have to bear whatever he does in great patience and love; this is my advice to you

just pray for forgiveness. I think it is just ur conscience that makes you think it is the charm.
Even if it is without the charm, he still would have done the same thing but the charm just worsen the whole thing.
well, continue to pray for forgiveness and for him to change.