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Seeking Godly Help And Advice by Olumogun: 6:19pm On Jun 04, 2013
A CHRISTIAN MAN who just got wedded last weekend has discovered that his betrothed wife is an HERMAPHRODITE.Is there any known solution please?
What should he do?
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by AtheistD(m): 6:21pm On Jun 04, 2013
Olumogun: A CHRISTIAN MAN who just got wedded last weekend has discovered that his betrothed wife is an HERMAPHRODITE.Is there any known solution please?
What should he do?

Interesting....

A haemaphrodite (intersex) or a sex change former male person. The two are different. I wouldnt lose sleep over the first one wink
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by Olumogun: 10:53am On Jun 05, 2013
^^^
Maybe I did not use the right word but what I mean is that
the lady possesses all other female features except for the
fact that she had a small male organ protruding out of her beneath
instead of p u s s y
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by AtheistD(m): 11:05am On Jun 05, 2013
Olumogun: ^^^
Maybe I did not use the right word but what I mean is that
the lady possesses all other female features except for the
fact that she had a small male organ protruding out of her beneath
instead of p u s s y

Ok... Intersex. Interesting. This is really odd. I think the guy should first classify what the lady in question wants.

How does she see herself (male, female or neither/both)
Is she comfortable with herself the way she is?
Is she interested in things like reconstructive surgery? (It is not as difficult as it seems).
Does she have female sexual organs? (Ovaries etc)
Will she want children? (either through normal birth or adoption/surrogacy)

These answers should help to determine the next step. Either way, why didnt she notify the guy prior to marriage? her deception was foul play.
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by Olumogun: 11:37am On Jun 05, 2013
All your questions are summarize in one answer:
SHE IS WILLING TO BE A FULL WOMAN
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by AtheistD(m): 11:39am On Jun 05, 2013
Olumogun: All your questions are summarize in one answer:
SHE IS WILLING TO BE A FULL WOMAN

IS she a full woman? Can she bear children, does she have the means to satisfy him intimately or will she need surgery? If she is willing then that is good. How far is she willing to go?
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by Olumogun: 11:54am On Jun 05, 2013
THANKS
I am aware that they are already talking to a Doctor who is looking at a lot of
facts relating to her ability to have a child (children) of her own if put
through surgery/surgeries. The pain is that the guy (husby) is really destabilized
by the discovery, and then the problem of how to bear the burden of the cost of
the operation(s)
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by clemz85(m): 11:55am On Jun 05, 2013
benefit of non-tested!

i didn't say anything except "i didn't say anything"
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by AtheistD(m): 11:57am On Jun 05, 2013
Olumogun: THANKS
I am aware that they are already talking to a Doctor who is looking at a lot of
facts relating to her ability to have a child (children) of her own if put
through surgery/surgeries. The pain is that the guy (husby) is really destabilized
by the discovery, and then the problem of how to bear the burden of the cost of
the operation(s)

I know but he should go with her. At least he knows she is a lady... or perceives herself as such tongue

clemz85: benefit of non-tested!

i didn't say anything except "i didn't say anything"

I agree. But something is odd? So he never actually looked at her down below? That is odd? I wonder how long they dated before marriage?
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by Olumogun: 1:56pm On Jun 07, 2013
clemz85: benefit of non-tested!

i didn't say anything except "i didn't say anything"

Sound funny though.
By the standard of their faith, they were not allowed
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by sexymoma(f): 2:07pm On Jun 07, 2013
I thought you wrote the man is a Christian , If truly he is, God should have revealed to him the kind of person the woman is indirectly, Definitely he didn't pray bout their marriage before going into it. undecided
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by Olumogun: 6:30pm On Jun 12, 2013
sexymoma: I thought you wrote the man is a Christian , If truly he is, God should have revealed to him the kind of person the woman is indirectly, Definitely he didn't pray bout their marriage before going into it. undecided

You may be correct, to me God's arrangement about marriage is to COMPLEMENT.
Whatever the -ves in the life of your partner is your burden, while any -ves
in your life becomes the responsibility of your partner.

So, no matter how much prayers and fasting you do, the best God can offer is
to give you a HELPER
Re: Seeking Godly Help And Advice by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jun 12, 2013
sexymoma: I thought you wrote the man is a Christian , If truly he is, God should have revealed to him the kind of person the woman is indirectly, Definitely he didn't pray bout their marriage before going into it. undecided
The Occam's Razor way of looking at things, very common with religious people.

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