Am i a diff creature or something? i find it very difficult to fall in luv, apparently i ve not fallen in luv b4, not even for once. i dont know why.

I ask pple why and most responses are ''because you ve not found the person you like/luv''

Could this be true?

anyone in my shoes presently or b4? if b4 how did you escape from this so called bondage?

Pls share so i can learn.

Suggestions n advise, i need as well.

Your problem is that you are an introvert to the core and anytime you crosses the line into extrovert, you will surely fall in love. It is in that state that you will know that you can find love where you least expect.

Love and desperation dont mix,

love is more elusive the harder u try

Look at the positive side of LOVE

info:

Look at the positive side of LOVE

which is?

NaJa HaJe:

which is?

And where is it? So I can take a look too.

GOOD for you, u really dont have to cuz sometimes its not worth it. all long as u are getting ur fair share of affection u shld be fine!

people like u should hang out with people like me,

NubianQ i want to hang out with u.

there is absolutely nothing wrong with you
i often ask my self, what is the meaning of love?
love has many meanings, just because u dont exhibit the conventional xteristics of love doesnt mean that uve never been in love
u dont have to think about some one constantly to know ur in love neither do u have to keep a picture of them under ur pillow to know ur in love
love is either overated or seriously mis understood
so chill out bro

OMO IBO,

yeah we shld hang out, that would be smashing, where u @

Eniboy:

Am i a diff creature or something? i find it very difficult to fall in love, apparently i ve not fallen in love before, not even for once. i don't know why.

I ask people why and most responses are ''because you ve not found the person you like/love''

Could this be true?

anyone in my shoes presently or before? if before how did you escape from this so called bondage?

Please share so i can learn.

Suggestions n advise, i need as well.

One out of 100 actually find true love.

The rest[b] think [/b] or pretend they are in love.

So, U are absolutely normal.

NaJa HaJe:

which is?

The probability of the intimacy thing

Eniboy:

Am i a diff creature or something? i find it very difficult to fall in love, apparently i ve not fallen in love before, not even for once. i don't know why.

I ask people why and most responses are ''because you ve not found the person you like/love''

Could this be true?

anyone in my shoes presently or before? if before how did you escape from this so called bondage?

Try 2 let urself do it, Learn 2 spot d problems. also, learn 2 trust ur internal "radar" . . . . . Thru dis u can b out of d bondage !

Guy, you just need to chill man. There is a formula to falling in love.

Just find someone you like, and mouth the words 'I love Mrs. Lagbaja' a minimum 5000 times.

Voila, you are in love

One out of 100 actually find true love.

The rest think or pretend they are in love.

So, You are absolutely normal.

Hum! word bro. thank you.

NubianQ im in hertfordshire

One out of 100 actually find true love.

The rest think or pretend they are in love.

So, You are absolutely normal.

Hum! word bro. thank you.

NubianQ

people like u should hang out with people like me,

[b][/b]

Thanks but i am in nigeria presently.

people like u should hang out with people like me,

you mean hanged with you?

NubianQ i want to hang out with u.

lol . . .are you the poster or are you a hanger

Poster, you've never fallen in love probably because you set high standards for pple around you. Love comes naturally and every living being is capable of love. The moment you stop making an effort and stop trying to choose who to love, then you'll fall in love.

@ Ujujoan

you've never fallen in love probably because you set high standards for people around you

I cannot fault this extract Uju.

this is quite normal, espexially if you are rigid and selfish. don't see tis as insult.
but you have to free your mind, reach out to people just as you allow people to reach out to you.

and try to understand what love realy is. to my own opinion, love does not come to you, you go to it. you decide to release your self and form an emotional attachment with some one that suits you. this emotional attachment is most times described as love.

Eniboy:

@ Ujujoan
[b][/b]

I cannot fault this extract Uju.

If you learn to accept pple for who they are, your problems will be over. Just see it that people around you are just managing you, cos you, like every other person, are not perfect!!