please matured minds only.NO INSULTS PLEASE,ABEG,BIKO,EJOO, IKE ONU OJOO NDI NAIRALAND ADIROKWA M CHA CHA.

The pressure to breed male children will be high,i ll be back to comment fully.

God help u if u hv nosy SILs.
But u can be sooo pampered,lvd and cared for by all.just be good. start breedin immediately if u can.
The next landlady after ur MIL.
On a serious note,every person,settin and marriage is diff and unique. Untill when u enter u will know hw e go be for u.
Don't use that as a yardstick pls. Its bad foundation. All d best. ( Ur mouth sharp self pass d pple wey u dey fear)

thanks pals,i nid more

All pros no cons, you come under full inheritance of your father and mother inlaw assets if any through your husband, You also inherit all useful toxic waste.
Typically conservative family, even family of kings and Queens will be expecting a scion for the family.But as a woman, it is not your onus to have a boy or girl, you re a garden, what was planted, is what is to be reaped.Even if your husband is a mike tyson in bedsheet rumpling game

so u guys mean to tell me dat they will prefer male babies alot to female

maureensylvia: so u guys mean to tell me dat they will prefer male babies alot to female

If they are like the typical Africans,Yes.

Im married to one, an only male and the last born of the family, well, personally, im so lucky, if you are fortunate to be married into my kind of hubby's family, you wont regret it, they will pamper you to the full, make you so special and loved, but if you find yourself in a dominative family, chai, na long thing you dey o, because they will be so nosy and dominative that your hubby wont be able to take decision until he consult them first.
All in all, commit every of your steps into God's hands and it shall be well with you.

Married to the First and Only Son and 1st grandson...

Its all good in the hood.

And yes...having a son is almost important.

All I can say is every family is unique and individuals within each family react differently. My advice will be keep your mind and heart clean and honest towards everyone. Your guy and yourself should sit down and set some ground rules before you get married so no one gets surprised or shocked by anything afterwards.
Congratulations I believe are in order anyways. Maybe I can help with your flower decorations and your bridal bouquet!

lol rosety u r funny o.hahaha

Thank you. I try. *taking a bow*