Halo my fellow nairalander,I went 2 c my guy last saturday n as I was chargin my fone at his place, in d middle of nite he woke up n start readin my msg n saw a crazy msg.d moment he saw d msg he has refuse 2 talk 2 me.I had 2 kneel down n apologised bt e did nt answer me,my friend even want 2 talk wit him on d fone 2 beg on my bhalf bt e refuse .he has nt cal me since on sunday n ve bn d 1 callin him .bt ve stopped callin since tueday mornin since he is nt bothered.wat shud I do

Emmmmm....i'l get bk to u on that.make i think

What was the crazy msg?
And why did u leave the crazy msg on your phone when u knew u would be visiting your bf?

Answer the above before we proceed further!

Bisjosh: What was the crazy msg?
And why did u leave the crazy msg on your phone when u knew u would be visiting your bf?

Answer the above before we proceed further!

good question.

I dnt expect my girlie not to av advances, i only expected her not to reciprocate in like manner.

So, i used to tell her, if u av Id!ots who plague u with texts, let me knw before hand so dt wen u are with me, and he does dt, i wld knw it's the id!ot doing his thing! In such situation, i will like to see how u have been gracely replyin him.

And if u av ones dt will implicate u, delete them.

The mind is a very ugly weapon, u dnt need to allow it feed on 'imaginaries'

catch all of them

Bisjosh: What was the crazy msg?
And why did u leave the crazy msg on your phone when u knew u would be visiting your bf?

Answer the above before we proceed further!

d msg is abt a friend(guy)askin if I can com 2 port harcourt n tins he wud do 2 me wen I com.bt my guy blive ve done sometin wit d guy.ve beg my guy dat such tin wud nt repeat itsef bt he is annoy

Peach45: d msg is abt a friend(guy)askin if I can com 2 port harcourt n tins he wud do 2 me wen I com. bt my guy blive ve done sometin wit d guy.ve beg my guy dat such tin wud nt repeat itsef bt he is annoy

Oh, I can see you've been flirting with the guy before via text messages. Cos I wonder what would give him such a nasty audacity to send such text message to you if you hadn't been complying in one Form or the other.

Peach45: d msg is abt a friend(guy)askin if I can com 2 port harcourt n tins he wud do 2 me wen I com.bt my guy blive ve done sometin wit d guy.ve beg my guy dat such tin wud nt repeat itsef bt he is annoy

what did he promise to do to u! Lick ur poosie all tru d night while u guys are doing the 69?

And i trust u must have been fantasizin about his plans and what he'll do to u thats y u never deleted his text from ur phone

Dial 911 for urgent advice, thank you

Bisjosh: What was the crazy msg?
And why did u leave the crazy msg on your phone when u knew u would be visiting your bf?

Answer the above before we proceed further!

So you advising her that cheating is good,nl BABES na wa oo

Watelse would he do than fvrk ur motherfvckn pussie..wel,tel ur bf not to av anytin to do wit u again..i think my advise is urgent

u messed up,pray he forgives u,if na me u go cry blood and I no go answer

haitto99: u messed up,pray he forgives u,if na me u go cry blood and I no go answer

U̶̲̥̅̊ are 2 harsh n its nt gud.after al I ve knelt down n apologised tellin him dat am sori.wat else does he want or I shud kil mysef b4 he accept my apology

Peach45: U̶̲̥̅̊ are 2 harsh n its nt gud.after al I ve knelt down n apologised tellin him dat am sori.wat else does he want or I shud kil mysef b4 he accept my apology

Yes! Kill yourself o.

Babe u erred, bt dt by d way. If luv him dnt gv up evn if he givs up, kip begn. Assure him woteva wud save ur relationshp. If it com to worse, get a life den.

clemz85: Babe u erred, bt dt by d way. If luv him dnt gv up evn if he givs up, kip begn. Assure him woteva wud save ur relationshp. If it com to worse, get a life den.

thank U̶̲̥̅̊ very much,I appreciate ur advice

OCTAVO:
Yes! Kill yourself o.

U̶̲̥̅̊ are very wicked

lrguru:


what did he promise to do to u! Lick ur poosie all tru d night while u guys are doing the 69?

And i trust u must have been fantasizin about his plans and what he'll do to u thats y u never deleted his text from ur phone

wats 69 cos I dot knw wat U̶̲̥̅̊ meant by dat

Peach45: U̶̲̥̅̊ are very wicked

Nope, you are the wicked one here.

ask yourself one question, if you were the one that found such a text on his phone would you forgive him so easily? it is not enough that you cheated on him emotionally but u think kneeling down to beg him is the highest thing you can do to earn his trust back and. once a person. losses trust in his partner in a relationship it is hard to regain or rebuild that trust. a lot of people come her to talk about how they love their boyfriend or girlfriend and they go on to ask advise on how they can win back the persons trust. if you really love a person you would not want anything that would bring harm to that person. my advise to you is to have a rethink of what you understand by love. it is hard for men to really love a person but when they do, they do it with all their heart. you may have just lost the love of a man who truly loved you cos if he didn't he would not even make a big deal of the whole situation.

if I may be bold to ask, if he hadn't found the text message, would you not have gone to Port Harcourt to meet the other guy?

@op,una no dey tire to use una own hand spoil una own tin?

Now she's playing victim. "Afterall I've begged him, I even knelt down!" As in the guy dey show himself abi? I know no be only am dey chop your kpomo, so if e no gree your PH guy still dey.
But if I be dat guy ehn, if you tell me good afternoon na to carry torch light remain.

I called him yestaday n he said he is no longer interested in me,dat he had lost d trust he had 4 me. I love him so much n I knw wat I did was very bad n abt dat guy,we are just friends n he is aware dat I ve a bf n d chatting ends there.

fresh_dude: Now she's playing victim. "Afterall I've begged him, I even knelt down!" As in the guy dey show himself abi? I know no be only am dey chop your kpomo, so if e no gree your PH guy still dey.
But if I be dat guy ehn, if you tell me good afternoon na to carry torch light remain.

na only him dey chop am ,d PH guy is a friend n he is aware dat I ve a guy.n d chatting ends there

firetrap: if I may be bold to ask, if he hadn't found the text message, would you not have gone to Port Harcourt to meet the other guy?

I neva wud ve tried it.d chattin ends here bt my guy wil neva blive me.

Hmm if you seek you will find. Some things are just meant to be left alone. And if you're in a relationship with someone you have to watch how you're communicating with other people, particularly other men.

firetrap: ask yourself one question, if you were the one that found such a text on his phone would you forgive him so easily? it is not enough that you cheated on him emotionally but u think kneeling down to beg him is the highest thing you can do to earn his trust back and. once a person. losses trust in his partner in a relationship it is hard to regain or rebuild that trust. a lot of people come her to talk about how they love their boyfriend or girlfriend and they go on to ask advise on how they can win back the persons trust. if you really love a person you would not want anything that would bring harm to that person. my advise to you is to have a rethink of what you understand by love. it is hard for men to really love a person but when they do, they do it with all their heart. you may have just lost the love of a man who truly loved you cos if he didn't he would not even make a big deal of the whole situation.

pls wat wil I do 2 earn his trust back.I knw wat I did was terrible n he said he has lost d trust he had in me.he told my friend cos I ask him 2 beg on my bhalf n he said acceptin me is nt d problem bt wat abt d trust he had lost

OCTAVO:
Nope, you are the wicked one here.

I knw wat I did was bad n I nid advice :'

Peach45: I knw wat I did was bad n I nid advice :'

Call him and tell him you want to see him. When you get to his place, explain how everything happened to him exactly. If you have to cry to make him believe you pls do.
Just do whatever it takes for you to convince him.
Good luck!

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