help!, help!, help!

Are you a graduate?
Where do you work?

shirley whyte: Are you a graduate?
Where do you work?

i have an m.phil......

For real??

shirley whyte: For real??

yeah..

Bin Gbagbo, u caused the whole ish. I wonder why people cant keep office rapport polite and formal? Am not saying u should not relate wt ur colleagues o bt limit suppose dey now.

Just bone the lady entirely abeg and face ur life!

Is she a Nigerian?

idnoble135: Is she a Nigerian?

yeah

Thats ladies for you. Some of them are problematic... They are dating some one and prefer to still have some one to hold on to, just in case(like a next option)... And you happen to be the latter. It looks obvious that even though she did not assent to your request, she still wants you for her self. She creating problems for your fiance suggests so.
And you would be in more trouble in the future except you settle the case once and for all. Besides, how did she meet your fiance? Is she working in the same organization?

idnoble135: Thats ladies for you. Some of them are problematic... They are dating some one and prefer to still have some one to hold on to, just in case(like a next option)... And you happen to be the latter. It looks obvious that even though she did not assent to your request, she still wants you for her self. She creating problems for your fiance suggests so.
And you would be in more trouble in the future except you settle the case once and for all. Besides, how did she meet your fiance? Is she working in the same organization?

she was always talking about meeting my fiancee, so i decided to introduce her to my my fiancee who works in a different company. cant believe that, with her initial enthusiasm of wanting to see my fiancee, we got to my fiancee's work place and i couldnt see that enthusiasm again. she now entered a phone shop near my fiancee's work place and was now buying a phone, when she had no money on her, she had no plans of buying a phone and i had to drag her to take her to my fiancee

^
would comment tomorrow. Need to catch some rest.

idnoble135: ^
would comment tomorrow. Need to catch some rest.

aiight

What's going on here


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poopoo on thread.

jhydebaba: What's going on here


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poopoo on thread.

jhydebaba: What's going on here


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poopoo on thread.

bush pig

like someone said earlier, u made a mistake mixing work with romance..... Obviously she was smitten... Buh was posing... She didnt wanna come cheap, i guess... Then u came up wth d fiancee thingy... Tot u were joking initially bout having a fiancee and I m so sure she just wanted to meet the chick to size her up.. Act like u dont care n move on... Buh be careful....

ladunsky: like someone said earlier, u made a mistake mixing work with romance..... Obviously she was smitten... Buh was posing... She didnt wanna come cheap, i guess... Then u came up wth d fiancee thingy... Tot u were joking initially bout having a fiancee and I m so sure she just wanted to meet the chick to size her up.. Act like u dont care n move on... Buh be careful....

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Morning dude, hope your night was fine?
The issue at hand is that you want to resolve everything. Wait! Just struck me now! You commented on another thread that you have a son and here you talk of fiance?

bin gbagbo:

bush pig

idnoble135: Morning dude, hope your night was fine?
The issue at hand is that you want to resolve everything. Wait! Just struck me now! You commented on another thread that you have a son and here you talk of fiance?

no mind am... He s just a joker... And to think i commented.....

idnoble135: Thats ladies for you. Some of them are problematic... They are dating some one and prefer to still have some one to hold on to, just in case(like a next option)... And you happen to be the latter. It looks obvious that even though she did not assent to your request, she still wants you for her self. She creating problems for your fiance suggests so.
And you would be in more trouble in the future except you settle the case once and for all. Besides, how did she meet your fiance? Is she working in the same organization?

plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

tunamost: plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

my brother, run for your dear life

tunamost: plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

create a new thread in the romance section. You would get more replies.

tunamost: plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

create a new thread in the romance section. You would get more replies.

tunamost: plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

create a new thread in the romance section. You would get more replies.

idnoble135:
create a new thread in the romance section. You would get more replies.

fanx alot bro...I really appreciate...but how do I do dat cuz am new on dis forum...I just hope I get it once...

THOU SHALL NOT SHIIIT WHERE YOU EAT!

MRbrownJAY: THOU SHALL NOT SHIIIT WHERE YOU EAT!

meaning??

tunamost: plz fellow forumites...there's dis lady I met in my PPA where I serve...we've been working together for some months now...we fund of each other,I like her so such and I fink she likes me too...even @ work she's always talking to me,hold my hands and stuffs like dat...@ break time we always together and pple fink we already dating...I told her abt my ex how she broke my heart and she encouraged me to move on wit my life...she also gave me indications dat she's single though she said she's dating a guy she never said yes to for abt 7 yrs but she don't love him and she's broken up wit d guy several times and dis guy keeps coming to beg her and they always fix fins up and all...I realise my feelins for dis girl become stronger day by day and one day I took a bold step to ask her out on BB cuz I couldn't even face her to tell her cuz of d unknowns....but her response was shocking...she said she's surprised am asking her out cuz she wasn't xpecting it from me and all...she said she only want to take me as a friend,a very gud one she can confide in,a best friend and all...I was so disappointed in myself....I really really like dis girl and she told me she likes me too but she doesn't want to date me even if she's not into any committed relationship....after all said and done she still won't stop talking to me,looking into my eyes,calling me on fone,come to my house,cuddle me up wit hugs and all....she said she doent want to break my heart dat she can't just opt out of d relationship she's into cuz d guy hasn't done anyfin wrong to her even if she really don't like d guy....plz I need ur advice...is she hiding her feelings for me or she just want us to be friends....cuz I fink my relationship wit her @ d moment is more than just friends....do u fink she will agree to date me wit time if I cool domw or should I just forget abt her and don't remind her of my proposal?plz I await ur response....its urgent...fanx alot

Urgent ke? Dude, how's it urgent? You dying? LOL. This' a thread in a thread, click "create a new topic" at the top of this section to get a thread running.
To your 'urgent' situation, enjoy all the looking into your eyes, calling you on phone, coming to your house, cuddle etc. . .while it last. That girl is enjoying certain benefits from her 'man' even when she claim not to like him. Dude, kill your attraction for her and be "a very good friend" that she wants.

bin gbagbo:

meaning??

it means that this is simply the outcome of someone shiitting where they eat. every adult know that the only possible outcome of GOING into a r/ship, is BREAKING UP that said r/ship....... so knowing this, you would make sure that when it is over between you and your ex Cinderella, you dont have to be forced to have some kind of r/ship with her that you do not want to.

this is why it is highly recommended NOT to date your neighbors, schoolmate, colleague etc because of exctly what you are going through. what next? dating your boss daughter? or dating your next door neighbor?

MRbrownJAY:

it means that this is simply the outcome of someone shiitting where they eat. every adult know that the only possible outcome of GOING into a r/ship, is BREAKING UP that said r/ship....... so knowing this, you would make sure that when it is over between you and your ex Cinderella, you dont have to be forced to have some kind of r/ship with her that you do not want to.

this is why it is highly recommended NOT to date your neighbors, schoolmate, colleague etc because of exctly what you are going through. what next? dating your boss daughter? or dating your next door neighbor?