I've been in a relationship for 5months now with my boyfriend,recently i started noticing some changes,he hardly texts me the way he does,and calls like an interval of 2-3 days.recently he cheated on me with another girl and when i confronted him about it he denied it,but when i told him about the text message i saw on his phone he accepted and said that yes he did it but nothing serious happend between them.recently went to his house and sometimes when we talk,he just turns his face the other way and does as if he's sleeping,he told me that i disturb him alot,he loves to see me everyday,but now if i go to his place he starts to put up an attitude,if i complain he'll tell me i think too many things that are not true,don't know what to do am seriously confused on this issue,and i still love him,we were good friends even before we started dating.

So complicated,maybe u wil sit him down nd talk abt d issue in a calm way,avoiding arguing wit him

I've done that,but everytime i do that,he tells me i complain alot

doris4u: So complicated,maybe u wil sit him down nd talk abt d issue in a calm way,avoiding arguing wit him

this's the height of joblessness,,,,, my dear men r nt worth dying for cos they r bunch of disappointments. u beta be strong to avoid been hrtbroken , just let him be for a while , if he truly loves u he ll look for you. sorry:>

He's gone. You have to move on, cos he ain't coming back.

As a guy if i behave like that it means i dont want u again, ur relationsh is dead and gone,. I would advice u burn his best car and walk out wit ur head high or mayb walk into jail.. Lolzz nigeria too many relatnshp ish.. Take heart my dear turn to the next page of your book.. The guy dosnt love you but he dosnt want to tell just want to keep u around for the free toto..

Nenyeluv: this's the height of joblessness,,,,, my dear men r nt worth dying for cos they r bunch of disappointments. u beta be strong to avoid been hrtbroken , just let him be for a while , if he truly loves u he ll look for you. sorry:>

See hasty generalization.
Looks like you've been having the wrong dose of love.

Op, it's time to move on. He doesn't love you anymore. He's only bidding his time before he tells you point blank. Would your rather wait till then? Choice is yours!

op, the contract between you guys is over...is either you renew the contract or you sign another man into your life...#goodluck

Funny how easy it is to draw conclusions and provide quick solutions to someone else's problems when we all have ours.

@OP, you say your man doesn't act like he used to anymore. Something must be wrong somewhere. Try to find out what it is. If you notice its your fault, work on it. If its his fault, try to help him out. But if your efforts prove abortive, take charge and show him out of your life. In due time, he'll realise his mistake and you'd have subconsciously learnt a very valuable lesson. Don't let go too easily. You'll only end up feeling used. Ever wondered why a lot of women lament about "all men"(and vice versa) yet you fell in love with this man?

Nenyeluv: this's the height of joblessness,,,,, my dear men r nt worth dying for cos they r bunch of disappointments. u beta be strong to avoid been hrtbroken , just let him be for a while , if he truly loves u he ll look for you. sorry:>

Kast

Kk. I see you need a clearer pics of what is going no. Give him a break, if he doesn't come looking for you. You know what that means.

You are about to get dumped You are about to get dumped You are about to get dumped

I think he doesn`t want you anymore,or maybe you can give him a break,if it does`nt workout anymore,just move on,thats one thing with most guys,once they get what they wanted,they will start misbehaving and that why a girl should be very very careful nowadays,cuz "chop and run"guys dey full everywhere.

Its not that easy to move on,been friend for a long time,even if the relationship ends,i'll still like us to be friends.

Some friendships are better left like that....JUST FRIENDS!
Anything more than that is a recipe for disaster.
If you eventually decide to let go of him, you can still keep your friendship if you guys are matured enough to handle it. But you sure would need a lot of Maturity and value for your friendship to do that.

From your write-up, it looks one-sided and i wouldn't say the guy isn't too interested again. It might just be that you're being too paranoid and want too much attention. The attention goes down a lil after the chasing. I really don't have an opinion cos I can't see a clear picture.

WELL, EXCEPT THE CHEATING PART! SEEMS LIKE THAT BIT IS CLEAR ENOUGH.
Good luck!

He doesn't even tell me i love you again except if i tell him and then he'll reply,when i ask he'll tell me he's not just used to saying it,that if he doesn't say it doesn't mean he doesn't love me anymore,but this was what he says for like 2 months when the relationship started.i guess i'll just move on,even though its so sad to,i just have to take a decision,thanks y'all for the advice.

OP ure too in love with the guy to see whats happening , id advise u move on , the guy knows he can do anyhow with you now and probably doesnt respect you at all , this wont end well for you

The handwriting on the wall is very clear. Forget what anyone will tell you, that guy is gone and you have to face it. Do you need a prophet to tell you that he is tired of you but don't wanna tell you, hoping you will get the heat and decide for yourself?

As harsh it it may sound, you have to move on. I would have asked you to confront him one more time and tell him to let you go for good if he doesn't feel the spark anymore, but i know he will sweet-mouth you still. My dear, you have to take the bull by the forelock.

I wish you well. Chai! But girls dey suffer with numerous heartbreaks ooooo. It is well sha

It is well

^^^^ Yes oooo

^^^^ Yes oooo...

he has eaten kpomo....WHATELSE( in davido's voice)

preciousan: I've done that,but everytime i do that,he tells me i complain alot

Maybe he is a player,cos they get TIRED of women easily,just 5 months and he cheated?thats absurd.
By the way are you guys married now?

Just give him some space.

I know how it is when someone is feeling bored down daily. I have been there.

You are visiting too much. Why not visit him twice a week instead of everyday ?

Do you know that fucking requires strength and he might be doing a stressful job daily ?