My girlfriend, a student finally gave in and slept with a lecturer in her school who happens to be my colleague after he repeatedly failed her and threatened to do worse. Funny thing is he knows about us and ask her never to let me know about it, but the walls have ears. I feel so terrible and shocked about this and this is someone i had plans for the future with. What will you do if you where the one?

Eldomingo: My girlfriend, a student finally gave in and slept with a lecturer in her school who happens to be my colleague after he repeatedly failed her and threatened to do worse. Funny thing is he knows about us and ask her never to let me know about it, but the walls have ears. I feel so terrible and shocked about this and this is someone i had plans for the future with. What will you do if you where is my shoes?

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get a gun and shoot down da f**king nigga get a gun and shoot down da f**king nigga

If she can do dat behind u den worst things are coming. Move on without the slut

Did she tell you of his sexual advances?

And i'm supposed to believe this because

Eldomingo: Funny thing is he knows about us and ask her never to let me know about it, but the walls have ears.

dude, we need details..how did you find out?

@enegod he recently called her in my presence and she tried to hide it, thats when my suspision grew and after much interogation and harrasment she confessed.
@dmcdad she did and i told the fool about us but somehow, some people are just impossible.

Eldomingo: @enegod he recently called her in my presence and she tried to hide it, thats when my suspision grew and after much interogation and harrasment she confessed.
@dmcdad she did and i told the fool about us but somehow, some people are just impossible.

After faltering, did she confess to you or you heard it from an outside source?

Move on.

dmcdad:
After faltering, did she confess to you or you heard it from an outside source?

She tried so hard to hide it but i persisted, cos i strongly felt something fishy when i saw he was still calling her as i had the impression he had stopped after i confronted him, funny enough he is married!

Let's assume this isn't a made up story....did you confront her or you're taking ''the walls'' at their word?

If she never disclose is initial intention before he finally succed i think u shud jus try to move on with ur life , but if she did den u really nid to put some certain things into consideration

Samuelfriday: If she never disclose is initial intention before he finally succed i think u shud jus try to move on with ur life , but if she did den u really nid to put some certain things into consideration

Consider things like what?

hornipipe: Let's assume this isn't a made up story....did you confront her or you're taking ''the walls'' at their word?

I did confront her, she was so scared cos i had warned her

Samuelfriday: If she never disclose is initial intention before he finally succed i think u shud jus try to move on with ur life , but if she did den u really nid to put some certain things into consideration

Consider things like what?

hornipipe: Let's assume this isn't a made up story....did you confront her or you're taking ''the walls'' at their word?

I did confront her, she was so scared to admit it cos i had warned her

Eldomingo:
She tried so hard to hide it but i persisted, cos i strongly felt something fishy when i saw he was still calling her as i had the impression he had stopped after i confronted him, funny enough he is married!

Well, if I were the one facing this, this is what I would have done:

If she was bold enough to tell me. if she confessed without me trying to know. if she opened up and show me how greatly remorsed she is, I tell you; even though I detest such a lot and don't and wont entertain it from anyone, and even though at first I might get highly pissed, if I get sedated I would surely take into account the fact that she was able to open up and be sincere with what conspired (cause honesty is something I hold in high regards). And also acknowledge the fact that, she probably gave in due to the duress which is something that won't be easy for anyone to contain...

But, in a case whereby I get to know from some other source, then that's the beginning of the end of everything.

I feel sorry f u..
First of all, dat ass is not ur frnd..
Secondly, a persons True Character is revealed thru how they handle adversities. If she could have d presence of mind t sleep wit her lecturer f grades, wat of wen she needs a job or promotion or something?? The fact they still commncating kinda implies itvwasnt a one off tin.
There is NEVER a good enuff reason f giving in t shit like that.

Let her go is my advice. obviously she has no pride or respect f herself..

Eldomingo: My girlfriend, a student finally gave in and slept with a lecturer in her school who happens to be my colleague after he repeatedly failed her and threatened to do worse. Funny thing is he knows about us and ask her never to let me know about it, but the walls have ears. I feel so terrible and shocked about this and this is someone i had plans for the future with. What will you do if you where the one?

Pllisss do not break her heart,I hope you know she slept with that lecturer because of you.Remember you aint gonna marry her with bad grades!just GBOJU

dmcdad:
Well, if I were the one facing this, this is what I would have done:

If she was bold enough to tell me. if she confessed without me trying to know. if she opened up and show me how greatly remorsed she is, I tell you; even though I detest such a lot and don't and wont entertain it from anyone, and even though at first I might get highly pissed, if I get sedated I would surely take into account the fact that she was able to open up and be sincere with what conspired (cause honesty is something I hold in high regards). And also acknowledge the fact that, she probably gave in due to the duress which is something that won't be easy for anyone to contain...

But, in a case whereby I get to know from some other source, then that's the beginning of the end of everything.

thanks for your constructive input

dBard: I feel sorry f u..
First of all, dat ass is not ur frnd..
Secondly, a persons True Character is revealed thru how they handle adversities. If she could have d presence of mind t sleep wit her lecturer f grades, wat of wen she needs a job or promotion or something?? The fact they still commncating kinda implies itvwasnt a one off tin.
There is NEVER a good enuff reason f giving in t shit like that.

Let her go is my advice. obviously she has no pride or respect f herself..

i think you are right here, no self dignity, i am seriously considering keeping her just for the fun of it no love and no more strings attached just for my pleasure.

Godson201333:


Pllisss do not break her heart,I hope you know she slept with that lecturer because of you.Remember you aint gonna marry her with bad grades!just GBOJU

What has grades got to do with marriage,even if she doesn't pass well,what happend to love?

Eldomingo: thanks for your constructive input i think you are right here, no self dignity, i am seriously considering keeping her just for the fun of it no love and no more strings attached just for my pleasure.

Just for your own pleasure,bros that's is totally wrong,if you know you do not have any plan of marriage with her againnlet her go and don't waste her time. Let other suitable man love her for whom she is.

lertee:
Just for your own pleasure,bros that's is totally wrong,if you know you do not have any plan of marriage with her againnlet her go and don't waste her time. Let other suitable man love her for whom she is.

thanks for your input

Thanks all for your advice and comments. Feel free to drop yours!