The nature of my case is not one that can be discussed with
friends /relations else they may mock my husband.
I am a married lady with a 3year old beautiful girl.
I have a serious problem that has been eating me up for a
long time. Infact since I knew my husband, I have never
ever enjoyed 1minute of intimate pleasure. I am a healthy
chick with normal healthy sex appetite. You can say that I
have a very good intimate libido.
My hubby on the other hand is the exact opposite. Infact he
is dried in that aspect. He has a good organ but doesnt last
upto a minute. As matter of fact, as soon as he enters me, I
start counting down in my mind from 876543210 and before
I get to zero, he starts grunting irritatingly and bam.... its
over. He rolls off and the next thing you hear is him snoring.
Meanwhile I will start shedding tears quietly hoping and
praying for a day I will get a good sex.
He has never attempted to go a second time to atleast
satisfy me. He just wouldn't no matter how much I try to
resuscitate the lifeless d**k. It just remains in coma till
when next he wants to Be Intimate.
I give my hubby bJ very well but he has never ever
reciprocated the gesture. He says its not part of him to go
down on a woman. You see how dead my sex life is?

He knows I m not happy but he doesn't care as long as he is
getting hi satisfaction. I have discussed this ssue with him
several times but he will never ever do anything about it.
I am totally frustrated and been pushed to my limits. If i
dont enjoy intimacy now, is it when I am 50years? and with
who?

Now adultery is not an option for me at all. I am a novice in
the act of self-service and so I want to learn more about it
so I will start helping myself. I like and want the feel of a
strong rod going in and out of me and so I want to buy a
very good v.b.r.a.t.or or Love Machine.
This is what I need from readers:
1) an address in FCT (we are based in Gwagwalada) where I
can shop for a strong toy.
2) name of a good adult movie (not p.o.r.n please) I will
buy, watch and learn how to pleasure myself).
Its either I do this or commit adultery. I do not want to
sleep with another man. I would rather fvck myself with a
Love Machine. I need to relieve myself of the million
intimate tension inside me.

I feel your pains, lady, and I'm happy that you have ruled out adultery. Ok.

Visit: zeevirtualmedia.com. They deliver the various se.x toys secretly, if you want, and they can even help your husband's libido. Goodluck.

What you really need is God and a renewal of ur mind 4 HIM to help u overcome ur emotional challenges. I was once like ur husband but l and my wife have since overcome this challenges by the help of God.These are the steps we took:
1. We admitted we truly love ourselves nd we want 2 improve.
2. We decided to be frank to each other by telling ourselves the truth.
3. Since l come on time l do a lot of pre-intimacy b4 nd @ periodic intervals.
4. I try 2 know her sensitive parts nd major there.
NOTE: We were both virgins b4 marriage. Pls open up 2 each other.intimacy gadgets will take u away from ur husband. GOD BLESS U.

But this is the reality of ALL marriages!
Don't allow AWON lie-lie to deceive you o!
Sex in marriage is WORK!!!
Different sex drives, different moods and DIFFERENT PRIORITIES!
Don't you see how many 'desperate housewives' on NL jumping from thread to thread with AGRO? With husbands they have no knowledge of their whereabouts. . . . EVEN WITH THE HELP OF BABALAWO GPS/SAT- NAV?

Learn to pleasure yourself! This is 2014 almost!

Ask Dr. Ngozi Okonjo Iweala!!! A WHOLE WORLD BANK EXEC!

Ha!!!!

Kanwulia: But this is the reality of ALL marriages!
Don't allow AWON lie-lie to deceive you o!
Sex in marriage is WORK!!!
Different sex drives, different moods and DIFFERENT PRIORITIES!
Don't you see how many 'desperate housewives' on NL jumping from thread to thread with AGRO? With husbands they have no knowledge of their whereabouts. . . . EVEN WITH THE HELP OF BABALAWO GPS/SAT- NAV?

Learn to pleasure yourself! This is 2014 almost!

Ask Dr. Ngozi Okonjo Iweala!!! A WHOLE WORLD BANK EXEC!

Ha!!!!

you can be so wickedly blunt

You are either a liar or a bad woman.

You post crap online about your husband. If you have no decency to talk to your husband in the privacy of your matrimonial home,then you are not marriage material.

My advice: shut the hell up.

How another person issue go they pinch pple for body?, unless they have the same problem .

Always remember that adultery is a burnt bridge and it would always come back to haunt you. Just they way it did for this couple 60 years later. Read their story here.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/08/burnt-bridges-oldest-divorce-ever.html

eddy1977: You are either a liar or a bad woman.

You post crap online about your husband. If you have no decency to talk to your husband in the privacy of your matrimonial home,then you are not marriage material.

My advice: shut the hell up.

will u kip ur dirty hands off d thread, d woman needs serious help not criticism wich was neva deserved.
op, is it dat sex escapades doesn't intrigue ur hus or he is too lazy to go on jinglin d beggin ass? If d latter is d case,then he shld be willin 2 corporate. U guyz need to see a sex therapists or try gettin him som local aboki herbs d improve libido.
Masturbation will not help,it will kill ur sexual urge 2wards ur husband. Even if his intimacy skills improve u will neva be satisfied thus u become insatiable and u alway look 4ward 2 time alone to perpetuate d act.
God above all will lead u in d way u should go. Really salute ur courage and endurance. Pls neva try fornication

How much sex advice does she need?


Two threads and myriads of "advices", na only sex she dey do ni?

Abeg, next topic.