Are you afraid to tell a girl you love her?
Will she start ignoring you after you’ll tell
her? Well, stop thinking negative! If you
use different and unique ways, the more
will be the chances that she will also like
you..
How To Tell A Girl You Love Her
I will tell you 50 amazing ways to tell a
girl you love her… These ways are the
one which are most liked by girls.. And I
am sharing all of them here..
1. Take her to special place - Think
about when and where you want to tell
her. Is there a special place you want to
be? A certain day, for example, you
might want to tell her at the restaurant
where you went on your first date, or on
the two-month or nine-month
anniversary of your first date.
2. Be romantic - Set the mood and be
romantic. Buy her flowers or a romantic
gift while telling her you love her.
3. Look at her directly - Take her
hand and tell her how positive you feel
about her.. Give her examples of things
you really like about her. And yeah, be
sincere.
4. Feeling her - Tell her how you feel
being with her, and how much you enjoy
your time together. Be specific about
what you value and appreciate about
being with her.
5. What you want to say – Follow
these positive statements with telling
her you love her in whatever way feels
best for you. For example, “I feel I’ve
fallen for you”, “I just realized that I love
you”, “Every single second, I just think
about you.. I really love you” or simply, “I
love you.”
6. Choose Appropriate Venue –
Choose an appropriate venue for your
disclosure, so that you can avoid
embarrassment and awkwardness as
much as possible. Telling her on a
sailboat, miles away from shore, or
announcing it from the audience of a talk
show might not work out well for either
of you.
7. Make yourself clear - You do not
have to cryptic to be tactful. Rather than
wrapping your feelings of romance in a
riddle, clearly convey your attraction.
“You might already know that I like you,
but I want you to know that I am
interested in you romantically.”
8. Response to her – Resist requesting
an immediate response. It is pretty off-
putting if you say, “Well, what you think
of me?” I mean, I could be wrong, but I
am pretty sure that I was getting a vibe
from you.
9. Being straightforward – Don’t
forget that actions really do speak louder
than words. So many people carelessly
toss those three words around. Tell her,
but then back up those words by
showing her. Nothing major or elaborate
is necessary. Little things can be so
much more meaningful than overblown
displays. For example, girls do prefer
receiving a daisy picked in the park on a
whim over a dozen long stemmed roses.
10. You just tell her – She may not
say it back, but she will feel flattered
that you love her.
11. Don’t tell at first – Just show her
that you love her by helping her do
whatever she is doing, take her to
romantic places, buy her nice things, the
most important thing is to make her feel
good around you, show her that you care
about her. The key point is not to tell her
your feelings, but make her feel your
emotions and she will express her love
to you. Trust me, that is how I won my
girl. Though, we are not together at the
present stage due to some problems..
But, all you have to do is just to make
her feel special..
12. You just tell her your feelings –
If you are scared or nervous then you
better think again about your feelings
towards her. Because, when you tell a
girl that you love her, you are actually
saying that you are laying everything out
in the open for that person.
13. Wait for appropriate moment – If
you think that she will be fine after you
tell her and it won’t scare her out of a
friendship, then I suggest you pick an
appropriate moment. You should tell her
when the two of you are uninterrupted
and alone, and pose it in a way that you
can make her feel comfortable. Make
sure you don’t leave it too long else she
may not realize and you could lose out to
someone else.
14. How are you feeling – First start
by letting her know that you are
interested. Then as you get to know her
better then you can pick a romantic spot
and come right out and say it.
15. Keep it real – Tell her about your
feelings and let her know you really
loves her. If she can’t handle it and runs
away, the relationship wasn’t real. As
they say, “Keep it real.”
16. Positive Approach – Be honest
and straightforward. That’s always the
best thing in a relationship. This is the
best way you can impress a girl.
17. Go to lonely place – You must be
really sure of your feelings before you
tell her anything. Take her to a lonely
place of your choice, any place where
the only thing you can hear is yourself
talking to her, grab her hands look at her
straight in her eyes and tell her how she
makes you feel. Take it easy step by
step instead of rushing straight to “I
LOVE YOU”, tell her what she means to
you, don’t say you love her, she may
freak out just because of the simple fact
that some girls are just not ready for
those words.
18. Tell her from your heart not
from mind – As long as it comes from
the heart, it will be received in a good
way and she will respect your
truthfulness.
19. Be with her when she needs you
– You should really show her that you will
be there for her whenever she needs
you, love is something that is felt. And if
you are friends with her long enough,
she will feel that you love her, and
actions always speak louder than words.
Whenever you are around her, look in
her eyes, you will be able to tell if she
wants you to tell her you love her.
20. Try to be your level best – If you
love a girl, I think you should show her
first and then tell her. And don’t be an
ass and tell lots of girls you love them.
Give the words some meaning. A lot of
soul searching has to be done before you
tell anyone you love them. The easiest
way to find out if you love someone is to
put yourself in a hypothetical situation
like If you were in the worst place in the
world but she will be right there beside
you, could you still be happy? May be
you will get the real answer whether you
love a girl or not..
21. Don’t keep on thinking – Those
who are over conscious, never gain. So,
if you really love a girl, just go and tell
her instead of keep on thinking whether
to tell or not..
22. Just tell her “I Love You” – If it is
first time you are going to tell her that
then try to make a nice romantic setting.
Doesn’t need to be fancy.., just turn
down the lights and lit few candles.., put
on some nice music.. These things will
help set the mood, but really all you
need to do is be upfront and tell her.
Many times people stress out over telling
their partner they love them.. But think
about it, this is the person you love. You
shouldn’t feel ashamed or embarrassed
or anything like that.. Just tell her plain
and clear.
23. Don’t make a big production of
it – Just tell it to her straight. Acting like
a drama king could make her reject
you… Also, don’t get angry with her if
she says NO..
24. Loving someone should not be
like your plan – Girls do get to know if
you are faking.. So, strong feelings like
love arise from emotional stimulation,
not choice.
25. Go easy on her – Since telling her
that you love her might be a bit
overwhelming for her, and she may need
a minute or two to think about it..
26. Learn to differ between love
and getting laid – There are highs and
there are lows, if you are just thinking of
saying it to get laid, DON’T.. If you really
love someone, you will respect them,
care for them, and be there for the good
and bad.. Are you ready for that?
27. Be confident – Look her in the
eyes, stand tall, and smile. Most
importantly, speak without hesitation,
particularly if you act shy on a normal
basis. You must demonstrate that you
believe the words coming out of your
mouth and can back them up with the
strength of your devotion. This will help
you in overcoming the fear of rejection.
28. Don’t tell everybody – You know
you love her before you tell her. It is not
a good thing if she finds out on her own.
29. Love can be a tricky thing – She
might change her mind after she gave
you an answer. Don’t stalk her to see if
she has changed her mind yet.
30. Change yourself – If you have
been her friend for a long time and now
you want to be more, then she probably
does not see you in that light. In this
case, you must “change yourself” in the
sense that you have to portray yourself
as someone she can love and be
attracted to, instead of just someone
who enjoys spending time with.. This
change needs to be something positive
for yourself and illustrate your good
qualities. For example, start going to the
gym to get in shape and suddenly she
will start seeing you transform into a
well-toned man of her dreams..
31. Better feeling – If she rejects you,
ask if she wants to stay as friends,
letting her know that you still care for
her.. This might help change her mind
eventually.
32. Consider not saying anything at
all – No one likes needy people. If she
loves you and tells you so, you’re all set..
If she doesn’t, either she’s not ready to
tell you anyways, or she just don’t feel
that way about you.
33. Show her romance – At least, try
to be little romantic – a dinner, trail of
notes leading to the bedroom decorated
with some flowers and candles will show
your love without saying anything..
34. Show her love – Hold her hand,
touch her face, and kiss her.. It’s the
little things that count..
35. Show respect for family – Treat
your family and hers with respect, she’ll
surely appreciate it..
36. Show her what you love about
her – Tell her what you like about her,
whether they be physical features or
mental ones..
37. Show her she’s number one –
Make sure she knows and understand
she’s your priority.
38. Give small surprises – A “Just
Because I Love You” gift.. May be some
CD or a book of some romantic story that
she’s had her eye on..
39. Schedule alone time just for
you and her – Go to movies and a
dinner.. Make it a date or spend time at
the park alone.. Something simple that
both of you can do together.
40. Make something for her – Go out
to the shed and make her something
special, even if it’s not perfect.. It will
show her you love her and think about
her.
41. Don’t wait too long – No one waits
forever.. If you can’t stop thinking about
her, and you don’t think you’ll be able to
sleep again until you tell her your
feelings, then JUST TELL HER.. Living
with all of that bottled up inside forever
is a terrible feeling, and you have to let
it out.
42. Write a poem telling about what
you feel for her – Buy a card and write
a poem inside with the feelings that are
within you.. Though, this might be
considered to be like you are back in
school, it is still very simple to do when
you do not know how to tell someone
that you love her. Make sure to end with
the words “I Love You.” This way she
knows that you’re trying to tell her that
you do love her..
43. Call her and leave a voice mail –
If you can’t say on phone talking to her,
try to send a voice mail.. Your voice (if
sincere), will tell her all that you want to
say… Remember to show your true
emotions as you prepare to tell her that
you love her..
44. Show up with roses – Ask to speak
to her privately.. Find a place where
there’s no one around, this will give you
the opportunity to be yourself so that
your words can come out the way they
should.. When alone, be straightforward
and look into her eyes.. You will see that
she is also nervous because she doesn’t
know what you are going to say..
45. Make sure you look and smell
nice – No woman wants to hear an “I
Love You” from a guy that just came
from the gym without a shower, or who
has morning breath in the middle of the
afternoon or even who has not combed
his hair while coming to meet her..
46. Be prepared – No matter if you are
getting ready to propose, or if you just
want your relationship to become
exclusive, make sure that you have all
the right things.. If you’re proposing, you
will need a ring, if you just want to tell
her how special she is to you, flowers are
always nice…
47. Its all about the timing – Timing
is the most important deciding factor
when it comes to confessing your
feelings to a girl.. If you tell a girl you
love her at a wrong time, you could ruin
your chances forever..
48. Send Non-verbal hints – What
most men do not know is that women
can pick up hints and non-verbal quest
very easily – she will be able to sense
that you have got feelings for her even
without you telling her. You see, once
you already indicated your interest
through body language it becomes very
easy to tell her verbally – since she has
already knew it..
49. Face to Face Declaration – This is
definitely the best way to declare your
love.. At first, tell her you like her.. Then
observe her expression.. You will usually
know whether you have succeeded by
her response..
50. Say It – Yes, just say it like it is..
Why should you burn inside, beat about
the bush and risk losing the one you love
just because you’re shy. Tell her you
love her and the more you do that, you
will find yourself acting out the love..
Women need love and they want to hear
it coming from your mouth and they will
believe you.. At the risk of generalizing,
women are ruled by the heart but of
course they are a few who still insist
they are an exception to the rule and
they should be accorded recognition.
So, Are you ready to tell a girl you
love her ?