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Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Nobody: 11:49pm On Aug 20, 2013
You might be wasting time analyzing what
someone says to you to determine their
feelings. A very small percentage of
interpersonal communication occurs
through words. It's been reported that over
90 percent of what we "say" to each other is
non-verbal. So, no matter what someone
tells you, some believe that the only way to
get to the truth - the whole truth - is by
turning off your ears (and your heart) and
watching for they're not saying.
The science of body language is relatively
new and extremely complicated, but there
are certain signals even an amateur can
learn to spot. Check out just a few of the
basics below, then try them out with the
people you interact with your friends -
people you know well enough and trust,
with whom you can match true words and
feelings. Once you've got them down, you
can use them on your crush or partner!

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
Let's start at the top with facial
expressions, an extremely good
way to tell whether or not
someone is being honest with
you. Look at their eyes. If you
notice them glancing frequently at
a spot just past your ear during a
conversation, it's time to change
the subject, or prepare to lose your
audience. A wandering gaze often indicates
boredom.
On the other hand, while it's true that
someone looking intently into your eyes
while you're talking can suggest an intimate
connection being formed, someone who's a
bit too fixed on your face may be trying to
figure out what you really mean. They might
be looking for a hidden agenda.
Of course, nothing beats raised eyebrows to
communicate disbelief, and covering the
eyes with dark glasses, especially while
indoors, is interpreted as a sign of either
distress or dishonesty.
Looking to the left while answering a
question is another sign that someone may
be making it up as they go, if not outright
lying to you. Looking to the right is a much
better bet. It means they're trying to
remember something by visualizing it - by
replaying it in their mind.
When it comes to smiles, the jury seems to
be out. A frozen grin is creepy and often
means someone's attitude is equally rigid,
but frequent smiles, especially when
appropriate to the conversation, show that
your audience is engaged.

THE BODY
The rest of the body tells an equally
interesting story. Someone who wants to
gain control of a situation will try to be the
last person through the door. While in a
discussion, if their audience suddenly goes
silent, that's usually a bad sign - people are
resisting, bored, or maybe even hostile. If
their arms are on their hips or crossed, this
is likely the case.
Arms folded across the chest often means
someone is feeling defensive or trying to
guard themselves. They might even be
angry. Whether or not they'll blow involves a
medley of other factors, but if there's any
toe-tapping involved, there's an internal
countdown going on. Get going before
blastoff.
Someone who frequently touches their hair
or ear when talking to someone else often
indicates that they are interested. Touching
them frequently while they're talking is a
good sign of sexual interest.
This next tip is easy, and fun to
watch. Next time you're chatting
with someone, check out their
legs. If they're crossed in your
direction, they're into you, big
time. Watch the corners of their
mouth to tell whether it's what
you're saying that's so fascinating
(their mouth will be straight), or if what
they're really interested in is you (the
corners should be upturned, or even
smiling).
Finally, if someone is genuinely telling the
truth and wants to earn your trust,
everything, including their eyes, will point
the same way. Be sure to look for this one
the next time you're entrusting someone
with help in an important decision.

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Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by yfo: 12:19am On Aug 21, 2013
Baybe: You might be wasting time analyzing what
someone says to you to determine their
feelings. A very small percentage of
interpersonal communication occurs
through words. It's been reported that over
90 percent of what we "say" to each other is
non-verbal. So, no matter what someone
tells you, some believe that the only way to
get to the truth - the whole truth - is by
turning off your ears (and your heart) and
watching for they're not saying.
The science of body language is relatively
new and extremely complicated, but there
are certain signals even an amateur can
learn to spot. Check out just a few of the
basics below, then try them out with the
people you interact with your friends -
people you know well enough and trust,
with whom you can match true words and
feelings. Once you've got them down, you
can use them on your crush or partner!

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
Let's start at the top with facial
expressions, an extremely good
way to tell whether or not
someone is being honest with
you. Look at their eyes. If you
notice them glancing frequently at
a spot just past your ear during a
conversation, it's time to change
the subject, or prepare to lose your
audience. A wandering gaze often indicates
boredom.
On the other hand, while it's true that
someone looking intently into your eyes
while you're talking can suggest an intimate
connection being formed, someone who's a
bit too fixed on your face may be trying to
figure out what you really mean. They might
be looking for a hidden agenda.
Of course, nothing beats raised eyebrows to
communicate disbelief, and covering the
eyes with dark glasses, especially while
indoors, is interpreted as a sign of either
distress or dishonesty.
Looking to the left while answering a
question is another sign that someone may
be making it up as they go, if not outright
lying to you. Looking to the right is a much
better bet. It means they're trying to
remember something by visualizing it - by
replaying it in their mind.
When it comes to smiles, the jury seems to
be out. A frozen grin is creepy and often
means someone's attitude is equally rigid,
but frequent smiles, especially when
appropriate to the conversation, show that
your audience is engaged.

THE BODY
The rest of the body tells an equally
interesting story. Someone who wants to
gain control of a situation will try to be the
last person through the door. While in a
discussion, if their audience suddenly goes
silent, that's usually a bad sign - people are
resisting, bored, or maybe even hostile. If
their arms are on their hips or crossed, this
is likely the case.
Arms folded across the chest often means
someone is feeling defensive or trying to
guard themselves. They might even be
angry. Whether or not they'll blow involves a
medley of other factors, but if there's any
toe-tapping involved, there's an internal
countdown going on. Get going before
blastoff.
Someone who frequently touches their hair
or ear when talking to someone else often
indicates that they are interested. Touching
them frequently while they're talking is a
good sign of sexual interest.
This next tip is easy, and fun to
watch. Next time you're chatting
with someone, check out their
legs. If they're crossed in your
direction, they're into you, big
time. Watch the corners of their
mouth to tell whether it's what
you're saying that's so fascinating
(their mouth will be straight), or if what
they're really interested in is you (the
corners should be upturned, or even
smiling).
Finally, if someone is genuinely telling the
truth and wants to earn your trust,
everything, including their eyes, will point
the same way. Be sure to look for this one
the next time you're entrusting someone
with help in an important decision.

remind me to never lie to you...except through text grin

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Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Nobody: 12:23am On Aug 21, 2013
y-fo:


remind me to never lie to you...except through text grin
Lmao! I'll still catch you grin

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Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by yfo: 12:38am On Aug 21, 2013
Baybe: Lmao! I'll still catch you grin

that one is entering spiritual levels then...,

cele church is ur best friend for such times wink
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by mannobi(m): 1:03am On Aug 21, 2013
Watch the american movie LIE TO ME. u will learn better
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by 190theclown: 12:03am On Aug 23, 2013
kiss kiss @op
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Switup: 12:16am On Aug 23, 2013
mannobi: Watch the american movie LIE TO ME. u will learn better
you are on point jaree..! U watch good movies.
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Nobody: 12:18am On Aug 23, 2013
190-the-clown:
kiss kiss @op
smileysmileykiss
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Nobody: 12:19am On Aug 23, 2013
Swit up: you are on point jaree..! U watch good movies.
I need to lay my hands on the movie. Must be good.
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by 190theclown: 12:20am On Aug 23, 2013
Baybe: smileysmileykiss
shocked shocked

wow She kissed me
she kissed me

**dancing alanta and etighi**
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Switup: 12:30am On Aug 23, 2013
Baybe: I need to lay my hands on the movie. Must be good.
baybe good is an understatement... It's it's killer-goooooooood.that is if u. Really wan2 get them bad suckers...! Trust me
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Nobody: 8:43am On Aug 23, 2013
Swit up: baybe good is an understatement... It's it's killer-goooooooood.that is if u. Really wan2 get them bad suckers...! Trust me
Of course cool
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Nobody: 8:47am On Aug 23, 2013
190-the-clown:
shocked shocked

wow She kissed me
she kissed me

**dancing alanta and etighi**
LOL!
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by 190theclown: 5:55pm On Aug 23, 2013
Swit up: baybe good is an understatement... It's it's killer-goooooooood.that is if u. Really wan2 get them bad suckers...! Trust me


Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by DonaldGenes(m): 10:35pm On Aug 23, 2013
Swit up: you are on point jaree..! U watch good movies.
where can i DL the movie
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Nobody: 10:44pm On Aug 23, 2013
DonalĂ° Genes:
where can i DL the movie
Google is your friend gringrin
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by DonaldGenes(m): 11:10pm On Aug 23, 2013
Baybe: Google is your friend gringrin
perhaps the are lots of those movies with same name, several of them that i don't even know which is which,

Aqain, better update your Dairy jorrrrrrrr..am waiting
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by Nobody: 11:16pm On Aug 23, 2013
DonalĂ° Genes:
perhaps the are lots of those movies with same name, several of them that i don't even know which is which,

Aqain, better update your Dairy jorrrrrrrr..am waiting
I no get strenght joor. Tomorrow
Re: Read His Mind - Look At His Body by DonaldGenes(m): 11:20pm On Aug 23, 2013
Baybe: I no get strenght joor. Tomorrow
Tight face# and try back it up with some photos too if you will..

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