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Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by Nobody: 1:09pm On Aug 28, 2013
dBard: Ok time to help d o.p out cos I foresee d death of a thread.. grin


@d ladies..just cos a guy makes a 'move' on u wen ur alone together doesnt necessarily mean he wants t have sex with u. he might not b sure wat d relationship is about n wants t cover all his bases or might just be 'trying his luck' so as not t be called a Dull guy by d lady later on.. cos its far more shameful not t ve tried at all than t ve tried n not succeeded.
Ps; this doesnt mean if she succumbs some wont take advantage of it. cheesy
dBard: A guy will not discuss d sexual antics of a lady he cares abt wit friends no mata wat. a girl a guy likes is treated as exclusive. analogy: take a tokunbo car, we all aware its bin driven before but we still treat is as new, exclusively ours once we get it. if afterwards, someone else gets t use it, no mata how short a time, d designation changes..its now Second hand. it No Longer has d same value in d eyes of d owner.. same wit girls
I am impressed kiss
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by dBard: 1:14pm On Aug 28, 2013
One more tin..
@ladies..Never criticise a mans sexual performance, not even in d name of 'talking about it'. give imstructions if u like while u two are at it but afterwards, if it aint constructive..shut it.
Guys are Particularly Sensitive abt their sexual prowess n a guy that is known t be sexually more endowed or Sexually more proficient will usually intimidate a guy that mite b far richer or wateva than he is.
Its an Ego tin..dnt boda trying t understand grin
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by adim2(m): 1:16pm On Aug 28, 2013
@dbard
Thanks for keeping the thread lively. I would appreciate more contributions from you guys.

@Sexytabhi
Just keeping reading. U will know more about us.

@segeggs
Am not looking for fame. Seun is not paying me, neither u. Besides am here to have fun and also learn from people.
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by dBard: 1:17pm On Aug 28, 2013
sexytabhi:
I am impressed kiss
embarassed embarassed grin
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by adim2(m): 1:18pm On Aug 28, 2013
dBard: One more tin..
@ladies..Never criticise a mans sexual performance, not even in d name of 'talking about it'. give imstructions if u like while u two are at it but afterwards, if it aint constructive..shut it.
Guys are Particularly Sensitive abt their sexual prowess n a guy that is known t be sexually more endowed or Sexually more proficient will usually intimidate a guy that mite b far richer or wateva than he is.
Its an Ego tin..dnt boda trying t understand grin

U are 100% correct. Was going to discuss on that, before u did. All the same thumbs up bro.
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by kheart(m): 1:22pm On Aug 28, 2013
Mr op na who com b ur case study? Wizards?
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by Nobody: 1:23pm On Aug 28, 2013
undecided
dBard:
embarassed embarassed grin
undecided
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by Nobody: 1:28pm On Aug 28, 2013
Guys are just vexing and they want the thread to die,ladies are afraid to comment forgetting that guys are quick to lash out at them
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by dBard: 1:32pm On Aug 28, 2013
adim2:

U are 100% correct. Was going to discuss on that, before u did. All the same thumbs up bro.
u welcome..
Over t u..
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by adim2(m): 1:41pm On Aug 28, 2013
Ladies note the following time is so important to guys and don't mess with the time frame.
1. Work hours between 8am to 4pm. A guy is simply hustling to provide daily meals and in between this time, he expects you to call him and ask how he is faring and encourage him a little.
Sport Hours: of course he doesn't like you coming in between his chelsea vs man utd game. he is most irritated when you obstruct this time and tell him, you have something important to discuss with him. He might listen to you but not with good intentions and he is probably engulf in a dilemma.
Fun Hours: this time is mostly to satisfy little johnny down below. Ladies if u are dating a guy and both of you have not been intimate and someday you end up sleeping at his place, please don't think you will go home without being intimate, cos automatically you have given him the edge and he will surely make passes at you. When he attempts between the hours of 9 and 10 and you turn him down, and he replies its ok dear don't worry i won't pressure you, be worried. Cos he is definitely going to wake you up between the hours of 12-4am where u have no where to run to again. You have to option than to give him, and if you refuse, some might go the extra mile of collecting it by force. After all na you take your leg go find trouble. Men don't normally joke with this time. Its a very critical period and this time, erection is at its peak.

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Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by vivaciousvivi(f): 3:04pm On Aug 28, 2013
adim2: Let's divert a little. Ladies still believes in statement "men don't cry" the truth remains that everybody cries. 90% of men cry but most do it secretly, while the rest cry inside their hearts. Men suffers more from heartbreak than the women. It is easier for a lady to get new boyfriend, but not easy for a man to get a new girlfriend. Therefore the heartbreak lingers in their heart more than the ladies. 90% of men don't like women that over do things. But they are just in the relationship because they know nothing serious will come out of the relationship. Most men are scared of tall or big ladies, and might end up dating somebody that they do not have feelings for. The man's joystick is a big concern for him. Every guy wants to have a large joystick as they feel, it is the ultimate answer to female sexual desires. Note: ladies if u notice your man has a small joystick don't use some words on him as he might feel let down and his confidence will disappear.

Everything was going well for you until this particular bunch of crap! angry
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by adim2(m): 4:13pm On Aug 28, 2013
Let me introduce the next kind of guys i have on my list.
THE LAZY GUYS: this particular kind of guys are so lazy about work. They expect the ladies to do practically expect you to do every work in their house. From cooking to sweeping, to washing their cloths etc. When you marry this kind of guys, do not expect they will help you to do house chores
THE OVER NEAT GUY: this kind of guys are so difficult to please, infact you must scrub, wash till you get tired and still they will not appreciate your effort.
THE PLAYAS: this group is divided into two. THE SMOOTH TALKERS: this kind of guys are good liars and they make sure they talk you into dating them. They are also secretive and are very careful on how they do things. They want to know everything about you, but allows you to know few truth about them. They see you as a game and can sometimes go into betting about winning a ladies heart just for the fun of it. Note: this kind of guys are good talker and they will tell u what you want to hear.
THE WEALTH PLAYAS: most ladies know about this particular kind of guys but still ends up being their victim because they think they will enjoy from their wealth. This guys attracts the ladies with their wealth and at the end, you're just a pawn on their chessboard. Note: any guy that attracts you or shows off his wealth before you, is somewhat a playa. Be careful about them

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Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by 190theclown: 4:19pm On Aug 28, 2013
im out of here angry angry
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by Pdizzle(m): 4:25pm On Aug 28, 2013
half crap
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by Nobody: 4:26pm On Aug 28, 2013
sexytabhi: Guys are just vexing and they want the thread to die,ladies are afraid to comment forgetting that guys are quick to lash out at them
gals have nothing to lash about cos guys are super humans grin- what a pity
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by odibenson(m): 4:36pm On Aug 28, 2013
190-the-clown:
im out of here angry angry
who cares
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by dmcdad: 4:50pm On Aug 28, 2013
You are on point @op... Ride on
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by cdamsel(f): 5:09pm On Aug 28, 2013
adim2:

THE SHOWBOYS (dolph zigler) this guys are everywhere (mostly yahoo yahoo boys). They want an avenue to show off their wealth, gucci shoe, iphone, cars, etc. They might not have one naira on them, but they have BB Q10. When they take a lady out they end up discussing the amount of money they have. They just like to show off at any given opportunity. Note: this kind of guys are mostly broke and are lavish spenders as they do not plan for the future but rather cave for popularity and show off.
did u ve 190 in mind? grin
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by 190theclown: 5:30pm On Aug 28, 2013
cdamsel: did u ve 190 in mind? grin

Honey ive got assests worth over 10million naira
i have 2cars, 3 outstanding girlfriends and a house + a well paid Job undecided
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by 190theclown: 5:31pm On Aug 28, 2013
odibenson: who cares

your dad does grin
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by Nobody: 5:41pm On Aug 28, 2013
Segeggs: gals have nothing to lash about cos guys are super humans grin- what a pity
for your small mind grin
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by cdamsel(f): 6:35pm On Aug 28, 2013
190-the-clown:


Honey ive got assests worth over 10million naira
i have 2cars, 3 outstanding girlfriends and a house + a well paid Job undecided
c wat I mean?hahaha
He neva fails 2 disappoint grin
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by 190theclown: 6:37pm On Aug 28, 2013
cdamsel: c wat I mean?hahaha
He neva fails 2 disappoint grin

thats why u love my e-character dont u wink
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by cdamsel(f): 6:41pm On Aug 28, 2013
Nt luv,amusing

Makes me laf each time,pretty tof on d outside bt a sisi on d inside wink
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by 190theclown: 6:45pm On Aug 28, 2013
^Please edit that ur last comment sharp sharp

Im tough outside and inside

u want make i loose girls angry angry
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by fulanigirl(f): 9:58pm On Aug 28, 2013
Taking notes angry
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by Goldenboy007(m): 11:18pm On Aug 28, 2013
@OP, Speak for yourself young man ! your postulations cannot substantiated !
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by joeace2020(m): 11:20pm On Aug 28, 2013
naso diss thread tk die.... brethren letz pray for d departed. we wish dis thread eternal rest and may it find peace in d bossom of d lord.. Amen!!!
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by dBard: 4:16pm On Aug 29, 2013
D Ressurection.. grin

@ladies..contrary to popular belief, most guys aim to please during sex. A guy in bed with u most times have it in mind to 'wow' u. All d pounding n slamming mostly is to make/ hear u moan..cos most guys get their first sexual education from porns where d guy pounds d girl f hrs in different configs grin while d girl squeals in ecstacy n dey translate dis t reality..moans, screams = pleasure, but finally d ultimate thrill is having ur partner writhe in orgasmic bliss. therefore a guy will do anything as long as he knows/ hears he is pleasing her.
A guy that cant please his girl will never b truly happy in that relationship.
Disclaimer: dis doesnt necessarily hold true f one night stands etc
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by dBard: 4:33pm On Aug 29, 2013
Also..
Contrary to popular belief, guys DoNot Want t date/marry their Mothers. That assumption is just wrong on so many levels.
Guys want a lady that will mother them but will not act like their mothers. A girl that can balance the art of 'mothering' n yet be a lover will find her partner eating from her hands grin
along with that most guys desire Respect..d kind of respect they grew up watching their fathers get n based on xter dey go about getting it anyhow they can..lies, intimidation or positively. U give him the Respect..u good t go wink
Re: Secrets About Guys And How Our Minds Work by adim2(m): 11:45am On Aug 30, 2013
THE ALWAYS BROKE GUYS: this kind of men are always broke and are constantly asking for money from women. U pay their school fees, buy their cloths, feed them, even raise them some money to start up a business of their own, yet they keep asking of money from you. They are bad spenders and don't even think of the future. At the end, they are heart breaker. When they ask of money from the lady and she refuses, they will make some silly comments like "is it because you are feeding me?" "I don't even need your money" in actual fact, they need the money more than you. Note: this guys will ruin the lady and at the end, the will dump the lady.
SPIRITUAL GUYS: this men are dangerous. They condemn peoples actions and still end committing the same sin. They are always in the church and they use the name of the lord to camouflage. At the end, they will break the ladies heart and end up saying "It's not the will of God"
MUMMY'S PET: he cannot hold 5 sentences without mentioning his mum. In fact, he discusses about his mum than the relationship. His mum makes his decisions and runs his affairs. Note: this kind of men will date you alongside their mum. And if you want to be on his good books, you have to win over his mummy's heart.

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