what should i do? men always flock around me wanting to date me but am looking for the right person what should i do?

what should i do? men always flock around me wanting to date me but am looking for the right person what should i do?

wait for the right man

If you don't want to date them - then don't, continue to wait for the right person and don't settle for less.

:oMen dont get her scared, this is worse!

@slej      if i were u, i would grab me now, before i leave this forum, just kidding,but seriously u need to give them a chance because men are soon goin' to be scarce , so stop looking for Mr. Right and make one out of them .

dat all of them, then u can short list the right person

Men flocking around you does not mean they like you. They could just be trying to get laid.

yea of course thats all they want

i thot it was only birds that flock,

many times, the "right man" doesnt look like the "right man" the first time he comes your way. That is not a license for trials-and-errors.

You have to know-yourself, know what you want and know who you are looking for.

hey slej,

i think its really coool u're not yielding to pressure 'cos as i reason i feel tht means u have a pix of what u want. Yet great as tht may be, it might also call for a li'll easing off on ur gas-pedal. I take it ur nigerian and y'know all about how it goes down there. U dont wanna wait too long and then,

for one, most of them may not be ur type afterall. 2. u might also have enuf on ur plate for now so tht romantic pursuits wouldn't be on top of your list.

don't rush and get realistic wiv ur expectations. try and get out to places where u imagine u might meet ur dream guy. Girl, u probably dont really need to be all worked up as it happens many times like lottsa girls most guys aint fretting and fuming over especially if u're on the serious end of things, so don't plunge just cos theys' botherin u,

keep ur hopes up, something special that'll make ur wait worthwhile's coming ur way, remember, dreams do come true

goodluck girl wait for him

And how exactly would you know it was Mr. Right if you bumped into him?

Girl, to find Mr. Right - you gotta have interviews (dates and relationships) to get him

Nalijah, my fellow Marylander how are you. that picture of urs is very moving!!!.

gurl, my best advice to you is just to go with the flow. enjoy yourself now. i mean we are all waiting for Mr. right but that does not mean that we cant date other men.

infact to be very frank, its by dating that you would find Mr. Right. i learnt that when you start looking for mr. right it wont come untill you just go with the flow.

in other words, you wont even know when Mr. right will breeze thru your way. so just have fun. njoy life.

idollier thankz a lot. will heed to ur advice

thankz u all. i appreciate

slej:

thankz u all. i appreciate

you welcome dear.

Dont be in a hurry i am sure b4 you attain the age of 50 Mr. right will surface

Is that supposed to be an encouragement or what? It sounds more depressing than encouraging

geniusmuyi:

Dont be in a hurry i am sure before you attain the age of 50 Mr. right will surface

lol very smart. i dont really think that statement is an advice!

Datign different guys (not at once) can help you learn about what you want in a relationship and can help you learn what helps a relationship to work.
Gaining experience in this area will help you realise who Mr. Right is and you'll know how to treat each other and maintain a strong relationship.

u may never find the right man so keep ur options available

How do u know he's Mr Right, if u dont date?

How do u know he's Mr Right, if u don't date?

Abi . . . . . Y r we jex thinkn alike? ? ?

yeah keep dating until u find mr right, just hope u wont get worn out before he comes.good luck

keep your options open cos there is no such thing as MR RIGHT, otherwise u will ave to wait 4eva.

who is the mr. right?

how will u know the right guy when u don't want 2 date any?

what makes the mr. wrong  the right  guy is your ability 2 love him rightly,

if a man has limburger cheese on his lip, he thinks the whole world smells.

there is no security in this life.only opportunity.

please 4give me

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