my 3rd yr as a student of unn, i felt the urge to build a relationship with my creator. So on a faithful Sunday i adhere to one of those alter call (or wat do Pentecostals call it) since i was invited for a programme. After that day i tried to amend my ways and abide to Gods commandment (thou shall nt lie, bear false witness against thou neighbour, fornicate which includes kissing n you knw the rest) even when my guy calls me i dnt respond wit d usual 'honey' n end d call wit 'i luv u'. N when we see, i made sure i kept a distance.
So nairalanders how does this two phenomenon mingle in your life without clash?

Shld av being does Ur religion affect Ur relationship. I'll brb with my humble reply.

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So u now

Lucky gurl: Shld av being does Ur religion affect Ur relationship. I'll brb with my humble reply.

thx babe, correction noted

ITbomb: .
So u now

What a siggy!!

Religion aside, individuals know what is good or bad, atleast one with an active conscience.
My actions in a relationship are guided by my knowledge of what is right or wrong.

What I can say at dis point is my conscience dictates d actions I take in my relationship and not necessarily religion although it might come in handy at one point or the other.

God dnt force laws on u nao, only nt use liberty as an occasion to sin.

Lucky gurl: Religion aside, individuals know what is good or bad, atleast one with an active conscience.
My actions in a relationship are guided by my knowledge of what is right or wrong.

What I can say at dis point is my conscience dictates d actions I take in my relationship and not necessarily religion although it might come in handy at one point or the other.

so you trying to say that if my conscious think kissing is nt a sin as long as is nt sex, is kk by u n ur religion

prettycentia:
so you trying to say that if my conscious think kissing is nt a sin as long as is nt sex, is kk by u n ur religion

baby girl,this is quite tricky...
some Christians believe in the rule of the conscience...but my dear,we are to work out our salvation with fear and trembling...
giving your life to Christ doesn't stop the love you have for your guy.but you need to tread carefully here.you need to let him know your stands in this case.two can't work together cept they agree.the rational thing to do here is end the relationship coz your new believe will change a lot about you.and it will be difficult for him to adjust.remember you accepted Christ of your own free will,so do not try to force Christ down his throat.remember also that he is a great link to your former way of life.if my left hand will lead me away from God,I rather cut it off....
pray to God for guidance....
as for kissing,all I can say is avoid not just sins but also appearances of it...
lastly,being a born again doesn't mean you live in bondage,enjoy your freedom in Christ Jesus
WELCOME

This is the reason why i'm yet to ask Ola out she'z a Fundamentalist and i'm not religious....mtchew