I am a 33yrs old graduate that is ready to settle down. All my life i hav been the one that is always in luv wit no reciprocating frm my partners, until i prayed to God to giv me a partner that wil luv and care for me as i hav been doing. Now God has ans me bt in a double portion style. There are these two ladies who can do anytin, as far to die for me jst to get married to me. Though to me they ar both caring,respectful, responsible and has same standard of living. For Lady A, who i met via a female frnd of mine and who i hav seen as a wife material, and well knwn by my families as my fiancee because she flaunt hersef @ dem. She is a God fearing and vry responsible 30yrs old graduate,more matured wit a well arranged curves bt less beautiful than Lady B. The problm i have wit her is that i dnt hav emotional attachment wit her, i dnt enjoy s3x wit her at all. While Lady B who i met @ my uncle sch on her SSCE graduation day, is 22yrs old responsible christain lady that has nt yet be admitted into the higher institution. She is mature bt nt as Lady A, known only to/by few guys in my family. She has figure 8 shape and more beautiful than Lady A. One most importantly gud tin in her is that, she is the sweetest tin to me wen it coms to s3x, bt d problm is that i am both ashame and scared to introduce her to my family, especially to my uncle and his wife, as my fiancee, considering that she was their student. So my peeps and pals,if u ar in my shoes who will u marry and why? Please share your candid opinions and advice wit me in this respect.

U have the answer urself, u don't need someone to tell you to go for the one you are comfortable with.

So God answered you in double potion and I am guessing he also told you to simultaneously sample both potions. Pray why wont you be confused. This your story....

Marry A or follow ur heart.

For Lady A, who i met via a female frnd of mine...i dnt
enjoy s3x wit her at all.

While
Lady B who i met @ my uncle
sch on her SSCE graduation
day, is 22yrs old responsible
christain lady that has nt yet be admitted into the higher
institution. One most importantly gud
tin in her is that, she is the
sweetest tin to me wen it
coms to s3x, bt d problm is
that i am both ashame and
scared to introduce her to my family

You prayed, God answered and see what you are typing? SMH4U

Better keep the two. Virtues you don't have in one is readily available in the other. So this will make you both complete and 'happy'.

idnoble135:

You prayed, God answered and see what you are typing? SMH4U

Test and see that the Lord is good christianity.

psucc: Better keep the two. Virtues you don't have in one is readily available in the other. So this will make you both complete and 'happy'.

my bro dats exactly wat am doin nw, n it dat 2 stop, hence am here 4 sincere advice

Dude grow up. Your selection seems to be based on bed performance. Maturity i was told is not just about age. Please grow up

demelza: Test and see that the Lord is good christianity.

I wonder if the guy is truly ready for marriage.

idnoble135: Dude grow up. Your selection seems to be based on bed performance. Maturity i was told is not just about age. Please grow up
I wonder if the guy is truly ready for marriage.

its nt abt bed performance, bt hw wil u feel if u dnt hav affection or dnt feel emotion 4 ur wife, remember it cn mak u promiscuous n cn lead 2 infidelity in ur marriage.

sexytabhi: sex sex sex,men and sex. Why base everything on sex? This one is good in bed that one is bad in bed,you go tey for station.

hahahhhaha

My guess is that you are a pot belle fella who is equally terrible in bed. Someone that just likes to lie on the bed with all elegance of a rag doll tossed in a corners while your woman bounces on you like a bouncing castle. You know the right move to make. Don't come here seeking unnecessary opinion. How can you screen out ready made Lady A becos she is no fun in bed? Yes, ponkie is important in marriages. But you have the major role to play. Abeg do what is right jooor!

I don't know o which one do u think u should marry?

Abeg is dis guy one of those dat escaped from ogun state prison? U get luck say none of those babes be my sister. I for break dat ur silly childish head. If I be ur papa, I go just seize ur fones. Ur hear say ppl dey complain for nairaland u sef wan join. Come on go and read ur books before school starts next week. Uto nni!

Let us leave Op naw, so dat he can marry Lady B, he will come back to testify on nairaland later dat after putting a young woman thru school,she dumped him or has been sleepin wit a younger man, or u think when u hit a downward decline in ur sex life @40, she will not just be hitting her prime @ 30.
Oga u no get shame, dat u mentioned d Lord and multiple partnered fornication in d same sentence is baffling, i hope u pick Lady B ,in my small mind she is d one likely to cheat on u and pay u back for cheating on both women(karma on 3D would be sweet to watch).
Whateva u choose,av fun wit it YOLO

demelza: So God answered you in double potion and I am guessing he also told you to simultaneously sample both potions. Pray why wont you be confused. This your story....

Abi now...

Marry lad A cos she has seen it all,done it all nd ready to be a wife nd will be a good wife.lady B is not just ready for marriage when she will say she is,she doesn't even know what she wants at this stage.u marry her nd send her to school,at a time she will start seein a boy of her dream nd tell u she didn't know what she was doing nd has found real love,is at all u hav kids with her,u can't boldly say those kids are urs unless after the DNA text.go for lady A.

if+ure dat confused ,y dnt u marry 'em both?

nicky4lif: Marry lad A cos she has seen it all,done it all nd ready to be a wife nd will be a good wife.lady B is not just ready for marriage when she will say she is,she doesn't even know what she wants at this stage.u marry her nd send her to school,at a time she will start seein a boy of her dream nd tell u she didn't know what she was doing nd has found real love,is at all u hav kids with her,u can't boldly say those kids are urs unless after the DNA text.go for lady A.

tanks alot 4 ur vry vital point, bt see dis

Proudly_Naija: hw wil u feel if u dnt hav affection or dnt feel emotion 4 ur wife, remember it cn mak u promiscuous n cn lead 2 infidelity in ur marriage.

so wat do u tink?

190-the-clown:
U did the right thing now go marry both of them

tanks 4 ur advice,bt i dnt want 2 b polygamous.

didicold: Let us leave Op naw, so dat he can marry Lady B, he will come back to testify on nairaland later dat after putting a young woman thru school,she dumped him or has been sleepin wit a younger man, or u think when u hit a downward decline in ur sex life @40, she will not just be hitting her prime @ 30.
Oga u no get shame, dat u mentioned d Lord and multiple partnered fornication in d same sentence is baffling, i hope u pick Lady B ,in my small mind she is d one likely to cheat on u and pay u back for cheating on both women(karma on 3D would be sweet to watch).
Whateva u choose,av fun wit it YOLO

tanx, i appreciate ur opinion. Bt 4 bin into both dem, it jst hapen d way i dnt reali understood hw n cnt control it. Jst lik i said dey both walk dier ways in2 my life wit much determination.

kenjudy: Abeg is dis guy one of those dat escaped from ogun state prison? U get luck say none of those babes be my sister. I for break dat ur silly childish head. If I be ur papa, I go just seize ur fones. Ur hear say ppl dey complain for nairaland u sef wan join. Come on go and read ur books before school starts next week. Uto nni!

so funny, bt seriously u nid help 2 !

$wtme:
I don't know o which one do u think u should marry?

hmmm typical naija lady.

@uniqueval tanx 4 ur opinion,bt i am nt pot belle bt @least 4 packed and vry active in bed contrary 2 ur views. So tel me wat do u tink is right ?

Why not pray again na? SMH

Funny story,dis is a case of longthroat¤

Adaeze003: Why not pray again na? SMH

Yes ! cos its exactly wat am doin nw. And u knw d philosophers once said dat " Man is God to Man", and " d voice of d pple ar voice of God.