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How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by pearlesther: 10:51pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Married men and women in the house pls share with us how it feels to be married,how old is your marriage,wht are ur challenges in d marriage,your UPs and Down.kindly share and advice pple that are getting married soon you are blessed as you are contributing heartedly. Thx |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Twinmama(f): 11:32pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
A year & 8 month, been exciting, full of challenges bt we manage it 9cly. We had agreed dat we dont want 3rd party in our marriage during courtship, so we settle our diffs b4 going 2 sleep. Let me tell u some of the things dat cause misunderstanding for us 1. Sex, i dont like waking @ 9t or very early in d morning bt he really does so i feel disturbed 2. Food, he wants me 2 cook everytime because i'm a wonderful cook 3. Money, when we are short of fund attimes we do nt tolerate ourselves. But over time things changed we got along got less quarrels, he got more contracts make love b4 sleeping, he helps in d kitchen too. I'm really enjoying my marriage. You know what, he prepared my breakfast 2day i came home met lunch ready, in d evening i was very exhausted he prepared dinner too. So it's been great |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Kanwulia: 11:35pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
3rd marriage. The best!!! 14 years!!!! Married for 20years total! All from the SOUTH-SOUTH! ALL OTHER PARTS OF DELTA STATE BESIDES MY DARLING DELTA NORTH, TUFIAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAKWA X0. NORTHERN NIGERIA, TUFIAAAAAAKWA X1. WESTERN NIGERIA, TUFIAAAAAAKWA X2. EASTERN NIGERIA, TUFIAAAAAAKWA X3. I can NEVER get married to ANY MAN THAT IS NOT FROM DELTA NORTH!!! Cheap PHOCK n' DUMP only! Lots of experience DEALING with NIGERIAN MEN!!! 6 EMBRYOS TOTAL!!!! Btw! 4 grand babies too! |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Afam4eva(m): 11:36pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
My marraige has been fine so far. |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Afam4eva: My marraige has been fine so far.You and Adaobi are already married? |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Kanwulia: 11:46pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
I go MARRY cyber moderator!!! Part 7!!!! Mu Che Che Che Che Che Che Father lord! Passeth By Me Not!!! When will I marry my own SUPER-ASSSSSSH MOD? Mtcheeeeeeeew!!!! |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 11:47pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Following |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by demelza: 11:49pm On Sep 03, 2013 |
Kanwulia: I go MARRY cyber moderator!!!Couldnt help it.. But this is funny |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by ladygogo: 12:09am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Kanwulia: 3rd marriage. The best!!! 14 years!!!! ROTFLMAO!! |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 12:46am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Kanwulia: 3rd marriage. The best!!! 14 years!!!! This woman has old oooooo..... wetin she dey find for cyber-space, na newspapers you suppose dey read |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Afam4eva(m): 12:58am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Kanwulia:So, you're from Delta North and you hate Igbos soo much |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Kanwulia: 1:28am On Sep 04, 2013 |
alutacontinua: DEBECHUKWU OJUKWU nor dey NL? With grey PUBIC BIA-BIA and all? Mtcheeeeew! Abi NL na h-only for OLD, BAAAAALD MEN NI? As OOOOOOLD AS PA ANENIH, and STILL RRRRROCKING BOTH BOAT AND CRADLE!!!! Chop SSSSSSHYTE DARLING!!!!! I LAUGH IN FLAVOUR N'ABANIA !!! Eeeeey-Heeeeeey-Heeeeeey-HEEEEEEEEEEEY!!! OYOLIMAAAAAH!!!!! |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Kanwulia: 1:32am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Afam4eva: I am from EDO STATE! My mom and husband are BOTH FROM ASABA!!!! I HATE IGBOS WITH LETHAL PASSION!!!! Especially YOOOOOOU from "ACROSS THE BRIDGE OF SORROW"!!!! Una nor go DIE beta!!! AMEN!!!! |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Afam4eva(m): 1:34am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Kanwulia:Does it mean you hate your mom and Husband too I don't just understand your frustration. |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Kanwulia: 1:37am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Afam4eva: As for my mom and my husband? Too bad I can't gerrrrrrid of both!!!!! I would have done JUST THAT! My prayers will be answered ONE-DAY. JUST ONE DAY! I will REJOICE O! I can't wait for BOTH to QUENCH!!!! AMEN!!! On one condition! NOT BY MY HANDS!!!! |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Afam4eva(m): 1:39am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Kanwulia:I no just understand this woman sha. I think some water has passed under the bridge that has made you hate Igbos will so much passion. Do you mind sharing? |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Kanwulia: 1:46am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Afam4eva: What kind of water? What kind of bridge? Neither! I have ABSOLUTELY no doubt that IGBOS ARE THE WORRRRRRRST HUMAN-LOOK-ALIKES that SATAN EVER FASHIONED BY MISTAKE!!! Followed by YORUBA PEEPS! So which of the bridges or waters ARE YOU DREAMING ABOUT? You lack understanding! My assertions have TO DO WITH NIGERIA . . . . . . . . AND NIGERIAN POLITICS AS THEY AFFECT US ALL AS NIGERIANS DARLING ONLY!!! So, GERRRRROVA yourself AND YOUR FANTASMAGGGGGORIC ILLUSIONS of my person !!! I have NO EXPERIENCES but THOSE OF A HAPPY CHILDHOOD/LIFE TO SHARE WITH YOU! AMMMMEN!!!! Sorry to disappoint YOU and YOUR ILK! THIS IS ABOUT NIGERIA, not my happy life!!! Thank you!!!! Now, back to topic!!! *thread unfollowed* |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 2:45am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Kanwulia: lolz....nothing do you, ma-am! I still need the secret to your one-million usernames though Do you open new e-mails for all of them or you have a way of getting past using a new e-mail |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 10:44am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Why diverting this beautiful topic? if u want to share how bad and good some tribes are, why not open a new thread and stop all this nonsence pls? |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by pearlesther: 12:30pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
My topic says how old is ur marriage and how you are coping in it,i really dnt understand wht some pple are yarning here dis is not a tribal topic pls dnt derail from it. 1 Like |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by buklan4realyah(f): 1:46pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
pls ooooooo,,, carry on d topic oo.... stop quoting odas. |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by chayooh(f): 3:22pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
Been married two years. It's been a bumpy ride but some marriages start that way. The typical story of "OMG U GUYS LOOK GREAT TOGETHER!!!" or "YOU HAVE A CUTE BABY" and all. Without knowing what goes on inside . We are getting better with each day like FINE WINE learning TEAMWORK and hard work in the marriage and this has further increased our desire to be together. 1 Like |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by eagleeye2: 3:52pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
If you dey folo mgbeketoto dey argue..... sorry na your name. Afam4eva: |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
I'm getting married next year, so in negative values. chayooh: Been married two years. It's been a bumpy ride but some marriages start that way. The typical story of "OMG U GUYS LOOK GREAT TOGETHER!!!" or "YOU HAVE A CUTE BABY" and all. Without knowing what goes on inside . We are getting better with each day like FINE WINE learning TEAMWORK and hard work in the marriage and this has further increased our desire to be together.I wish you all the best, keep on working at it 1 Like |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 2:54am On Sep 05, 2013 |
chayooh: Been married two years. It's been a bumpy ride but some marriages start that way. The typical story of "OMG U GUYS LOOK GREAT TOGETHER!!!" or "YOU HAVE A CUTE BABY" and all. Without knowing what goes on inside . We are getting better with each day like FINE WINE learning TEAMWORK and hard work in the marriage and this has further increased our desire to be together. It gets berra Believe me The first few years can be rough but after a while you will become great friends and great lovers if both of you are determined to make it work I had times I felt like leaving Every once in a while he still pisses me off and I know I do same to him That is normal.our siblings piss us off too,that is life But love conquers all Never let bitterness take over Bitterness builds resentment and once resentment comes in ,it takes a special grace to love that person. I know without a shadow of a doubt that my husband will give his life for me and the children That is an assurance everywoman should have If you know that you know that you know that the man loves you Stick with him And work at it My watchword which I advise you to try is in form of question and it goes like this Babyosisi,Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy I choose to be happy. You can insist on being right and be the most miserable woman on earth I am talking from years of marriage and many mistakes along the way Watch the people you listen to ,pray and keep away from negative people. 1 Like |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 7:28am On Sep 05, 2013 |
Been married almost eight years and still learning. Had our first 10 months after wedding so couldnt do second honeymoon! I have learnt alot about two people - my wife and myself. I have learnt several things about myself that I did not know about. Same for my wife. The first couple of years are very important cos thats when you begin to really understand ur partner especially if you never lived together. If possible dont have a third party live with you the first two years as you need that time to really bond before the stress of making money sets it. First couple of years we prayed together everyday and believe me it works. I have seen real life miracles happen and I will say pray together as much as possible. It also helps you connect better as you find out you get to know each other's burdens! Also bé careful not to neglect each other when the kids come. For those of us abroad, it really is a challenge as you have to pay for help. After the first 3-5 yrs and with two kids the pressure to earn more starts. You want to move to a bigger house, ride better cars, send kids to best schools etc. THis part can bé tricky as understanding is key. All in all I will marry the same person again however may bé do some things differently if I had my way. But I believe God is in control and has always been! 1 Like |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by mcfynest(m): 8:01am On Sep 05, 2013 |
hey pls am not yet married o.....and marriage still far. .. ehn ehn @ op, wen u say marriage, are you also talking about same sex marriage because if not then you are discriminating o |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by pearlesther: 9:31am On Sep 05, 2013 |
mcfynest: hey pls am not yet married o.....and marriage still far. ... Tufiakwaaaa olorun maje God forbid me talk abt same sex marriage.By d way what is same sex marriage?infact I'm not willing to know so no need of telling me about it,wht I'm talking abt is the marriage between and man and woman which God Himself ordained I beg let d sharing flow jare good couples of nairaland don't mind u no derailing. Cheers |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by kemifemi: 3:53pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
Been married for 1 year 8 months. I married my friend whom I knew since I was 14. We started dating wen I was 21. Have known him since I was a child.we lived in d same estate,attended same church n secondary school. Am enjoying my marriage cos I married my best paddy for jungle .Known him all my life. But my marriage will sure b sweeter if God blesses my womb! Am seriously TTC. |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by mcfynest(m): 5:56pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
pearlesther: . Tufiakwaaaa olorun maje God forbid me talk abt same sex marriage.By d way what is same sex marriage?infact I'm not willing to know so no need of telling me about it,wht I'm talking abt is the marriage between and man and woman which God Himself ordained I beg let d sharing flow jare good couples of nairaland don't mind u no derailing. Cheers WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE GAY PEOPLE SEE DISCRIMINATION O. LET HIM THAT IS WITHOUT SIN BE THE IST TO CAST A STONE. |
Re: How Old Is Ur Marriage And How Is It Like To Be Married? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Sep 05, 2013 |
My 1 Like |
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