synergy85: Once in a while some dissapointing acts happen between lovers for example cheating. if after you discover your wife/girlfriend did some things that made you loose trust in her and you choose to forgive her 'cos of love, how do you practically build trust and love again without it interfering with your lovelife. Mature responses appreciated. thanks

Daewoods:
I have been following your posts for somewhile now, why do you always like forming wisdow n 'sabiness', i wonder whom you are trying to impress with this your idealistic comments,that sometimes have no real life applications.

sexytabhi: Dump her a$$,cheating is not allowed. A cheat does not deserve a second chance.


















[size=1pt]Cheating is only allowed and forgiven if you are not caught [/size]

sexkillz: A cheat will always be caught.

dBard:

It Is Inexcusable.
But people cheat f different reasons..revenge, etc (in my case, my ex).. n u ve t acknowledge that..
But, U Cannot always throw away the baby wit d bath water. If dres true remorse then after a good deal of time, u can Choose t start afresh.
But, it Is a choice u make wit 'clear eyes'.
Disadvantages of walking away is ; U become severely Biased in ur next relationship wit all d Baggages u lugging around n if ur date finds out hw n wat ended d first, u can neva get her t b real t u.
Broken Trust may never b gotten back fully but sometimes if u tink its worth it, give it a fight at least before u drop ur gloves.

Its not about being pussy whipped, its abt bin a man.

PS; if d sex was more than once, if it went on f a while, if dre was already serious commitment (marriage or engagements) then u need t give it a serious think

If it was more than once, Dump her ass..

synergy85: Well let me say a big thank you to everyone who commented. your points are noted but the truth is I considered divorce and revenge cos it was discovered after marriage but I choose to let go since acccordin to her she got drunk.and. That is why I wanna give it one more chance hopin it wl never happen again cos if it does.that na byebye.so more practical tips on how to trust and love fully again are appreciated. thank you all for your time

synergy85: Well let me say a big thank you to everyone who commented. your points are noted but the truth is I considered divorce and revenge cos it was discovered after marriage but I choose to let go since acccordin to her she got drunk.and. That is why I wanna give it one more chance hopin it wl never happen again cos if it does.that na byebye.so more practical tips on how to trust and love fully again are appreciated. thank you all for your time

190-the-clown:
anywhere you see threads about women misbehaving

desclones and 2sexy must be there

na their work be that

synergy85: Well let me say a big thank you to everyone who commented. your points are noted but the truth is I considered divorce and revenge cos it was discovered after marriage but I choose to let go since acccordin to her she got drunk.and. That is why I wanna give it one more chance hopin it wl never happen again cos if it does.that na byebye.so more practical tips on how to trust and love fully again are appreciated. thank you all for your time

alutacontinua:

You actually make sense sometimes and this is one such time

@op, since you've decided against revenge and divorce, you just need to find a way to forgive her sincerely! The trust part, that'll be a lil difficult but you can work on it if you decide to. You really do not want to listen to 2sexy and co right now cos that is not what you need, i'm not saying he doesn't have a point but in your situation where you've made a choice to stay (a brave choice, i must say), you don't even need to read through their posts twice. Read ogugua's own, that might help!


GOOD LUCK!

Ema prince:

does it mean that she's been dating this person even before you guys got married? because if she started cheating on you after marriage,then my brother,you are in trouble sha!..can u trust her again?..I doubt that!

A wife that cheats can possibly kill her husband!..believe it or not,that's the truth!..because a piece of their heart always goes with it.

after all the vows..she still keep a boyfriend outside only to come back home and call you honey.that's devilish!

It's a bit acceptable if your girlfriend is cheating because most of them do it in order to have various source of money and you may not marry her at the end.But for a wife..hmm!..I'm scared,i'll end it!

I pray GOD will not give me this type of wife..Amen!

Princess zoe: Please oga i think you are taking this case personal. To say that a wife that cheats on the husband can possible kill her husband is the biggest lie of the century. No need explaining or shedding more light on this because you have already taken the case personal.

Princess zoe: Some guys are not cheating today because they are stingy to waste their money on a woman which means if a beautiful and sexy lady offers her body free of charge in a friendly way, they will do it. Some guys are not cheating today because they are not financially bouyant. Some ladies are not cheating on their husbands today because they have not met wonderful players..