you loved someone, but now you want to stop loving that person. how do you go about it. running away is not an option. you tried but still you can't. sometimes you hate yourself for loving that person so much. what do you do. what is d cure for love?

meet someone else. . .this usually work

if it worked for tboy, prob might not work for u.

no one knows a def cure.

tboy1:

meet someone else. . .this usually work

That person will only be a rebound and you'll never love her so i guess u give urself time, hang out with ppl like ur friend and keep urself busy just till you get over it b4 u jump into another relationship

@poster

commit suicide. dat will end everything.

U are such a bad boy!!!

tope2000:

You are such a bad boy!!!

nah, the good-bad one.

tope2000:

That person will only be a rebound and you'll never love her so i guess u give yourself time, hang out with people like your friend and keep yourself busy just till you get over it before u jump into another relationship

you can meet someone else and you don't have to be intimate with the person. . .it worked for me
Just go out and met someone new who is interesting and loves to conversate. . .this will take ur mind of the person u love gradually. . .

tboy1:

you can meet someone else and you don't have to be intimate with the person. . .it worked for me
Just go out and met someone new who is interesting and loves to conversate. . .this will take your mind of the person u love gradually. . .

and that is how u go around breaking peoples heart

hmmm abi o

even if he commits sucide, he will still go to hell and continue the pain.

tope

Yes?

tngtech:

and that is how u go around breaking peoples heart

did i tell u i started a relationship with the person or that i slept with her?
I believe a man and a lady can be good friends without bein intimate. . .or is that not possible?

Commit suicide? no way

Meet someone new? I have tried it. There's dis other girl wu is head over heals. All she wants me to do is say the words whe wants to hear, I can't because I know I dont love her and as rightly said i dont want to break some1's heart.

This thing must av a cure! Please I need help because its actually affecting my work.

javarules:

Commit suicide? no way

then y did you come to Nairaland.

tngtech:

When you did you come to Nairaland.

He's a child teach him

ah ah nairalanders oga oh i cant stop laughing here shaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa


well, just dont break the ladies heart and know how u will play your games that's it

block all possible ways of communicating with 'em

tope?

ndyke:

tope can we hook up to massenger n hav a little chat on line?

u don see beautiful women ur junior don dey control u.

jkpretty:

He's a child teach him

that if he wants to learn

They say time is d greatest healer, with time it becomes less painful but for d main time u can meet other pple just be straight with them, i belive there's some1 out there who can help u move on cos i dont think u can 4get.

Anyways best of luck with dis cos u need it.

all of you should go and read your books instead of discussing love here.

@ Bisi
if u want to laff, go to joke section. i love ur pix.

ebucca what book school book or work book?

tboy1:

I believe a man and a lady can be good friends without bein intimate. . .or is that not possible?

very possible
@poster there aint no cure for love, its just as asking cure for sexual urges
its a part of life, u cant cure it but only control.

Thanks you all that have replied. It's easier said than done, not when you see this person EVERYDAY. But I learnt a lesson sha, LOVE ca be sweet and bitter at the same time. The person I am talking about is my brother's gf and I for one won't want a girl to cause a fiasco between me and my brother. Not to mention the fact that my brother loves the girl so much. Anyway as the Yoruba's will put it "Alatise ni matise ara e" meaning it's my call anyway.

Thanks all. I appreciate