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Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by samuelkaykay(m): 10:24am On Sep 13, 2013


The Vatican has opened its door to the possibility of married priests, a move that would go against centuries-old Church tradition.

Archbishop Pietro Parolin, who will be No.2 in the Roman Catholic Church when be becomes secretary of state next month, declared that the priestly vow of celibacy derived from an age-old rule, but was not Catholic dogma.

"It's not a dogma of the Church and it can be discussed because it's an ecclesiastical tradition," Archbishop Parolin told El Universal newspaper in Venezuela, where he is completing his term as Papal Nuncio.

"It is a great challenge for the Pope because he has a mission to unite and all these decisions must be taken in a way that unites the Church, rather than dividing it," he said. "At that point, you can talk and reflect and go deeper into these issues that are not defined by faith and think about some changes, but always in the service of unity and as the will of God. It's not what I want [that matters] but to be faithful to what God wants for his Church."

Archbishop Parolin's comments come at a time of upheaval in the Church, which has been beset by scandals over sex abuse by priests, following the resignation of Benedict XVI and the election of the Argentine Cardinal Jorge Bergoglio as Pope Francis.

Francis has made waves by calling for a "poor Church for the poor". He has said he wants to boost the role of women in the Church, although he has noted that Pope John Paul II ruled out the ordination of women.

He has also taken a more tolerant stance on homosexuality, declaring: "Who am I to judge?"

Yesterday, he reached out to nonbelievers in an unprecedented letter to Italy's leading left-wing paper La Repubblica to answer a columnist who declared that he did not believe in God. The leader of the world's 1.2 billion Catholics told Eugenio Scalfari, the newspaper's co-founder and former editor, that non-believers did not commit a sin as long as they followed their consciences.

"The question for people who do not believe in God is to listen to their consciences. Also for those without faith, sin is going against your conscience. Listening to it and obeying it means making up one's mind about what is good and evil."

The Catholic insistence on the celibacy of priests dates back to the first centuries of the Church. The first Church law mandating celibacy was Canon 33, enacted at the Synod of Elvira, now the Spanish city of Granada, around 305-306 AD. The discipline was definitively reaffirmed at the Council of Trent in the mid-16th century.

The Orthodox Church and some Eastern Catholic churches, however, allow married priests.

Francis, in an interview in 2012 before becoming Pope, said: "For the moment, I am in favour of maintaining celibacy, with all its pros and cons ... It is a matter of discipline, not of faith. It can change. Personally, it never crossed my mind to marry."

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by segzyj(m): 10:31am On Sep 13, 2013
Hmmm
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Nobody: 11:13am On Sep 13, 2013
grin hehe..... ok.







just passing
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by dridowu: 11:58am On Sep 13, 2013
Change is the constant thing in life.
Welcome to fatherhood

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by nora544: 12:21pm On Sep 13, 2013
I know that this will come, I hear this in Austria from a friend because Austrian priest and the priest in america and some priest in germany working on this since about 5 years, that is why a friend from me he was catholic priest went to the old catholic church that he could marry his girlfriend because old catholics can marry, he is now the head of the old catholics in Austria, and he was born in nigeria

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Nobody: 1:14pm On Sep 13, 2013
then there isnt anything distinct about the roman catholic church anymore. undecided

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by 3ace(m): 1:16pm On Sep 13, 2013
Konji level has increased astronomically.

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by teddy2011: 1:17pm On Sep 13, 2013
NONSENSE!!!!!! Any priest that wants to marry should quit priesthood. Period!!!

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by siddiq202(m): 1:17pm On Sep 13, 2013
I guess nature cannot be cheated

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by kacheezy: 1:17pm On Sep 13, 2013
This is a victory for altar boys all over the world.

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Juell(m): 1:17pm On Sep 13, 2013
I think it's a good development. After all it's not a sin for priest to marry. Paul in de bible only advised those who feel dey can stay unmarried not to marry, but those who can't shld marry.

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Lilimax(f): 1:17pm On Sep 13, 2013
Change is inevitable.
It will free them from allegations on sex.ual harrasment and the likes?

...a welcome development cheesy

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by docjuli(m): 1:18pm On Sep 13, 2013
nora544: I know that this will come, I hear this in Austria from a friend because Austrian priest and the priest in america and some priest in germany working on this since about 5 years, that is why a friend from me he was catholic priest went to the old catholic church that he could marry his girlfriend because old catholics can marry, he is noe the head of the old catholics in Austria, and he was born in nigeria

I don't understand.

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Mayany(m): 1:18pm On Sep 13, 2013
Go ye into the world and multiply, multiplication is everyones responsibility
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Big4wig(m): 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2013
Konji @ work oo.body no b firewood
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Judas2013: 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2013
We are getting closer to the day they will tell us the truth: jesus was only a common fisherman who married many wives. He did not die on the cross. We are sorry to have deceived many. At least the clever pastors became rich....em em sorry God doesn't exist....We lied!

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by GenWOJUOLA(m): 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2013
Ma pope wassup wif u naa
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by yuzedo: 1:20pm On Sep 13, 2013
No more milk and cookies for altar boys... SimonAndal must be distraught! grin grin grin

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by BabaAlabi: 1:20pm On Sep 13, 2013
Change is the only constant thing in life but there are some changes that bring destruction. As soon as priests start marrying, say goodbye to half of the catholic population. Don't let the carnal longings of a few men bring down the catholic church!

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Tpharell: 1:20pm On Sep 13, 2013
Surely such a decision with far reaching consequences would not be left in the hands of one man (the Pope)
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by MaziOmenuko: 1:21pm On Sep 13, 2013
The old reverend fathers that died without getting married would be turning in their graves right now.

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by shangpearlz(f): 1:21pm On Sep 13, 2013
God help ŦЂξ catholic church

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by MAYOWAAK: 1:21pm On Sep 13, 2013
Stories of Catholic priests sexually molesting male and female children have been on the increase in recent years. Sometimes, such inappropriate sexual acts are not with children but with adults. A few weeks ago, a Catholic cardinal, Keith O’Brien – the head of the Catholic Church in Scotland and the most senior prelate in all Britain – resigned after admitting to having had sexual relations with some priests. Ironically, O’Brien had been a vociferous voice against homosexuality in the United Kingdom.

It is not that such stories are not heard among other Christian denominations now and then, but they are on a large and recurring scale in the Catholic Church. It is not because Catholic priests have a higher libido than other priests and pastors or that they are worse in morals. The only reason for it is the compulsory celibacy enforced among the Catholic clergy.

Such sexual molestation stories are not rife in Nigeria. But it is not because they don’t occur – for Nigerian priests are as human as their European and American counterparts – but because of two main reasons: 1. There is still a deep stigma for rape – victims prefer to keep silent to avoid being stigmatised; 2. since most victims are usually Catholics, they and their families would prefer not to tarnish the image of their beloved church by going public – they would prefer to bear the trauma for life than be pointed to as the “enemies” that wanted to drag the name of the Catholic Church through the mud. So, the silence continues, and everybody pretends that nothing untoward goes on in Nigeria. That I dared to write this at all will be considered sacrilegious by many.

Has the priestly celibacy worked for the Catholic Church? Yes and no. Yes, because it has helped to portray the Catholic Church as different from other Christian denominations, and therefore unique. It has helped to portray the priests as different from the laity, thereby strengthening their power over the laity and increasing their aura in their eyes too. It has helped to sustain the image of the Catholic Church as an institution with a great tradition. In addition, it has helped it to a large extent to have priests that are not ruled by inordinate acquisition of wealth as well as priests that are not too afraid to die in the line of duty.

But celibacy has not worked and will never work for the Catholic Church, because it is against natural law. Only VERY FEW men and women can be truly celibate for decades. And those who want to be truly celibate do so without any compulsion. Some would say that the Catholic priests are not forced to be celibate. That is true, but a man who passionately wants to serve the Lord as a priest in the Catholic Church MUST take an oath to be celibate, even if he earnestly does not want to be one.

Celibacy was an introduction into the church. The church was over a thousand years old when it took a definite stand in 1139, at the Second Lateran Council, forbidding priests to marry. In 1563, the Council of Trent re-affirmed that celibacy policy.

Curiously, celibacy is not a biblical injunction. It is not in the Old Testament, neither is it in the New Testament. It is not ordered by Jesus Christ or His apostles as a condition for one to inherit the kingdom of God. Christ made it clear that in heaven, there is no husband or wife, while St Paul said that whether one marries or does not marry does not matter. In 1st Timothy 3, Paul listed the qualities of a bishop or overseer, and said inter alia: “A bishop must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, hospitable, an apt teacher, no drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, and no lover of money.”

Christianity does not force its adherents to kill their libido. Sex drive is a natural and healthy thing that cannot be subdued by force. If it is subdued forcefully, it brews like a latent volcano, exploding one day in a destructive and embarrassing manner. It is a force that needs to be channelled to fruitful ventures, not caged. It is like hunger and thirst. One can control how much one eats or drinks, but one should not be forced to abstain from food and water. Even animals are not taught by anyone to engage in sex. In matters of sex, the difference between animals and human beings is that unlike human beings, they don’t have the capacity to manage and channel their sex drive properly.

Before becoming priests, many men would be convinced of their ability to be celibate all their lives. They start off well. But maybe a decade later, when the spiritual fire wanes or burns out, they see that they cannot control the sexual urge that rears its head in them regularly. And since they are not married and cannot resign as priests and face the odium of such an action, they look for the safest outlets: masturbation, paedophilia, homosexuality, and fornication. Children are naturally the easiest targets. Children are easier to deceive; children are easier to keep silent. CNN reported that a priest told a 12-year-old girl he wanted to defile who told him that such an act was a sin: “I am your priest. What I say is sin is sin. What I say is not sin is not sin!” And with such superior and fear-inducing arguments, he was able to disarm the girl, defile her and keep her silent until she became an adult and went public with her story.

Revolutionary men change things. Pope Francis can change this policy if he wants to. Luckily, clerical celibacy in the Catholic Church is not a dogma, but a regulation. A dogma like male-only priesthood is a Catholic dogma, irreversible by a Pope. But the ban on priestly marriage is a regulation, which can be changed by a pope overnight if he wishes.

Mandatory celibacy in the Catholic Church is an ill-wind that blows no-one any good. Just like the football ruling body, FIFA, saw reason after fighting against goal-line technology for many years for no other meaningful reason but to avoid change and maintain tradition, Pope Francis has the opportunity to be the pope that abolished compulsory celibacy in the Catholic priesthood. Every Catholic who truly loves his church should be on the campaign for the Catholic Church to discontinue that policy and save millions of children from sexual exploitation by the priests they trust and venerate, and also save the Church the embarrassment of constantly being bombarded with such unpalatable news from different parishes and dioceses.

Any time the story of sexual exploitation of children by a Catholic priest is aired or published anywhere in the world, it is not just the Catholic Church that is adversely affected by such news. The entire Christendom is affected and smeared too.

When a policy is not working, history makers face reality and change such a policy, thereby writing their names in gold in the process, while others prefer not to rock the boat and just continue to go with the tide, whatever the unsavoury consequences.

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Nobody: 1:21pm On Sep 13, 2013
The world is really coming to an end as we know it.

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Judas2013: 1:22pm On Sep 13, 2013
Ladies beware: hornyy catholic priests will soon be on rampage!
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by gerald09(m): 1:22pm On Sep 13, 2013
I can see them approving gay marriage within the priesthood. Now I know why the other pope left, to give way for "the plan". It is said "he will come as a great man" "people will love him based on his policies" "then he destroys humanity" #Revalation. I fink we are about to see the end of a great religion.

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Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by Masudoyindamola: 1:22pm On Sep 13, 2013
.n
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by pheesayor(m): 1:22pm On Sep 13, 2013
1 Corinthians 7 explains it all. Get married if you can't hold yourself. Paul wasn't married but knew the dangers so he advised people to marry. Konji nor me small thing o
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by NIGHTFOX: 1:23pm On Sep 13, 2013
The path this new pope is following, one wld wonder what wld bcome of the catholic church very soon........... I JST DAY DAY OBSERVE!!!
Re: Catholic Priests May Be Allowed To Marry Amid Papal Changes by ugotuf(m): 1:23pm On Sep 13, 2013
I comment my reserve on this one shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

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