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Do you mean CHEATING

u can only forgive, u can neva forget.

With the help of God almighty, you can forgive. U know what the Bible says about forgiveness right?

If you confessed without being caught,i can forgive but cannot forget.If I caught you,forget about forgiveness because I can't.

The First step is for u to be honest t urself n b sure u can/will be able t continue d relationship..
Secondly, clear ur doubts..ask d questions dat trouble ur mind..demand answers t d whys n whats (if u care t know). if dey bother u, air dem
thirdly, be honest about how ur feeling t ur partner. being honest abt ur feelings allows d guilty partner also clear his/her reservations
Most imprtsntly, its abt u n ur partner, so focus on d two of u n be careful abt outside interference.
Infidelity is a game changer..its best t pause n restart at such times than jst continuing like nothing happened..
Wisdom dey say is directive..

[color=#770077][/color] Simple. You don't.

take a deep breath

dBard: The First step is for u to be honest t urself n b sure u can/will be able t continue d relationship..
Secondly, clear ur doubts..ask d questions dat trouble ur mind..demand answers t d whys n whats (if u care t know). if dey bother u, air dem
thirdly, be honest about how ur feeling t ur partner. being honest abt ur feelings allows d guilty partner also clear his/her reservations
Most imprtsntly, its abt u n ur partner, so focus on d two of u n be careful abt outside interference.
Infidelity is a game changer..its best t pause n restart at such times than jst continuing like nothing happened..
Wisdom dey say is directive..

Wisdom indeed.

There is no "how" to forgive unless you are one of 'em hypocritical religious folks.
Forgiveness comes from within, when a hurt fellow is completely healed and has come to accept that human beings can fail at any time.
Deal with it,forgive and forget or you go just quench for nothing. Life goes on.

ifyalways: There is no "how" to forgive unless you are one of 'em hypocritical religious folks.
Forgiveness comes from within, when a hurt fellow is completely healed and has come to accept that human beings can fail at any time.
Deal with it,forgive and forget or you go just quench for nothing. Life goes on.

This a bit harsh ....

op....seek solace in the lord and let go.

The real question is, "Can you stay married to the man you love knowing he cheated on you." You may love him; you may forgive him, but if you no longer trust him.....then you have your answer. A relationships without trust is like a house divided! I'm just saying......